Hello All,
I have been reading over this site and forum for the last 3 hours. I have been dipping since age 15 and am now 29. I have made several attempts at quitting. The most recent was roughly 5 years ago, as a promise to my wife once my son was born. I managed 9 weeks, and then I allowed the "stress of work" to be an excuse to start again. As my son has started to ask questions about what I am doing, and now having a 2 year old daughter I have decided its time. It is pretty difficult as a member of the military nearly everyone I work with either smokes or dips, and stress seems to always be high. I ordered some of the smokeless alternative stuff, I hope it helps!. Anyways I was wondering what can I expect for the next few days/weeks as I plan on stopping the instant the new smokeless alternative arrives. I feel if I don't do it soon I never will, and it will be too late as I am already 14+ years into it. So any advice or expectations would be greatly appreciated! Thanks
Dave
You should go ahead and quit now. I have a buddy who has an unopened log of the fake shit. He ordered it 3 years ago. He is still dipping Copenhagen. It didn't arrive when he had his moment of clarity. Your window is short, you are playing with fire by waiting for a placebo to arrive. Go buy some sunflower seeds and suck it up. Be a man, for yourself, and your family.
Exactly
Herbal snuff is not a magic remedy. It is merely an aid.
Like He-Man, YOU HAVE THE POWER!
I, too, quit because of my son. One of the lowest points of my life was when I promised my 5 year old some beef jerky. As he loves the stuff, I drove all over looking for a bag. For some unknown reason, nobody had any that night.
Then I stopped at a little drive through, and they had the shredded stuff in a can. I gave it to him without thinking, and he apparently was conflicted in the back seat. After 5 minutes, he asked if I was sure. I told him yeah. The dumbass in me still didn't recognize why he was wary.
Well, we got home and he went inside. Right in front of mom, he packed his can.
He fucking packed his can.
And I was done. That moment I realized I needed to be done with this stuff. I used the herbal stuff too, and it is helpful. However, I still went bat shit insane initially. Your body is not addicted to the act of chewing. No. That is a habit. It is easily broken or replaced with seeds, teabags, cherry pits, etc. Your body is addicted to the nicotine in the act.
What I'm trying to say is sack up. Quit. Declare you're quit. Stay quit.