Lost My Best Friend

[Screw_the_Chew]

Superman's Abusive Relationship

You can only take so much before you fucking snap. Don't leave the door open.

Your "Copenhagen" was a low down dirty slut that was running train with every guy here. Sometimes, she used a different name but that didn't change you she is. She promised all of us happiness and she was quite fun.

But then she started cleaning out our bank accounts. She started stalking us every moment of the day. She fucking got us sick.

We all tired of her, and passive aggressively tried to rid ourselves of her. She told us she could change. That we would be "in charge". But then, we'd go right back to her.

To rid yourself of this bitch, you need to shut the fucking door and realize that she is no good for you. We have. We will remind you of it as well. Every fucking day. But you've got to be the one that stays away from her.

Soil her name.
See her vagina for what it is: A disease filled cavern of lies.
Kick her to the curb.

No regrets.

Officially kicked to the curb.......I know it's only day 2 but no coming back this time! Thanks man

[iquitchewing]

Hi All,

Well its day 1 and hell on earth. I have chewed mostly Copenhagen for the last 22 years and this is not the first time I have tried to quit. I feel as though I have just lost my best friend and closest companion again; in fact I have. ItÂ’s like being in an abusive relationship where IÂ’m the victim. She makes you feel great when youÂ’re together but she plays mind games. She makes you depend upon her and soon she runs your lifeÂ…Â…all the while slowly stabbing you. Who needs that? I sure donÂ’t? ItÂ’s timeÂ…..you BITCH!

Yep. I tended to romanticize my relationships with nicotine. I was wrong. I thought it might be some kinda fountain of youth, as I identified with the good times I was having with my friends in our teens. Those friends are not in my life, many died, and the snuff and bugler cigarettes have stopped. I am quit with you today. Nicotine is a savage whore. It halps to say it and write it.

[wastepanel]

Superman's Abusive Relationship

You can only take so much before you fucking snap. Don't leave the door open.

Your "Copenhagen" was a low down dirty slut that was running train with every guy here. Sometimes, she used a different name but that didn't change you she is. She promised all of us happiness and she was quite fun.

But then she started cleaning out our bank accounts. She started stalking us every moment of the day. She fucking got us sick.

We all tired of her, and passive aggressively tried to rid ourselves of her. She told us she could change. That we would be "in charge". But then, we'd go right back to her.

To rid yourself of this bitch, you need to shut the fucking door and realize that she is no good for you. We have. We will remind you of it as well. Every fucking day. But you've got to be the one that stays away from her.

Soil her name.
See her vagina for what it is: A disease filled cavern of lies.
Kick her to the curb.

No regrets.

[30isEnuff]

Chew is an enemy that has hijacked your fucking mind, i should know, its had mine for a long time. Im new to this quitting game, but i will tell you this.....If you put tobacco on a pedestal and pretend it is doing anything positive for you it will be nearly impossible to quit. Once you accept that tobacco does absolutely nothing good for you it makes it much easier to walk away. I just finished my first week cold turkey, when a craving hits I take deep breaths and remind myself that chew gives me nothing and robs me of health and wealth. Talk to the vets on this site, guys who have been quit for a year or so. The insight they have to give is solid gold.

Well stated Cannaday. The insight you just provided is solid gold. 1 year or month quit you can take that to the bank Screw. Sounds like you got that "best friend" bullshit out of your head in a big hurry. That is just a bullshit addict lie that UST wants us to believe.

hey Screw, Welcome to the hardest thing you've ever done in your life. Being Quit.
You have not quit before. You were on a break.
We do this daily by quitting every a.m. and posting roll giving our word to ourself and our brothers that we will NOT put the poison in our mouths TODAY. You can do anything for a day, right?
We are a "no nic" group of addicts. We don't use pussy patches, goofy nic gum, smelly cigars or any other form of nictotine. We don't trade the big nic bitch for a little one! We don't try, we do!
It is a simple process:
1. post roll early in the a.m. promising not to use TODAY. (the earlier the better for your quit)
2. Honor/Keep your word to yourself and your brothers here on KTC
3. Get to bed, wake and REPEAT
Thousands have done this before us. YOU can TOO. One day at a time. We are nicotine addicts for life. But we are freedom loving addicts one today at a time.
Like the brothers said already...read, read, chat, read, share, give (when you can), take what you need and leave the rest behind and your days will stack up quicker than you'll realize. It does get MUCH better. LIFE gets more real and clearer. It is the most wonderful thing to be QUIT of Nictotine. The sun is brighter, food taste better, the air is cleaner. No more hiding, just pure living! Cheers brother! You got this...One day at a time 'zombie'

[Its_Got2Happen]

Chew is an enemy that has hijacked your fucking mind, i should know, its had mine for a long time. Im new to this quitting game, but i will tell you this.....If you put tobacco on a pedestal and pretend it is doing anything positive for you it will be nearly impossible to quit. Once you accept that tobacco does absolutely nothing good for you it makes it much easier to walk away. I just finished my first week cold turkey, when a craving hits I take deep breaths and remind myself that chew gives me nothing and robs me of health and wealth. Talk to the vets on this site, guys who have been quit for a year or so. The insight they have to give is solid gold.

Well stated Cannaday. The insight you just provided is solid gold. 1 year or month quit you can take that to the bank Screw. Sounds like you got that "best friend" bullshit out of your head in a big hurry. That is just a bullshit addict lie that UST wants us to believe.

[Cannaday]

Chew is an enemy that has hijacked your fucking mind, i should know, its had mine for a long time. Im new to this quitting game, but i will tell you this.....If you put tobacco on a pedestal and pretend it is doing anything positive for you it will be nearly impossible to quit. Once you accept that tobacco does absolutely nothing good for you it makes it much easier to walk away. I just finished my first week cold turkey, when a craving hits I take deep breaths and remind myself that chew gives me nothing and robs me of health and wealth. Talk to the vets on this site, guys who have been quit for a year or so. The insight they have to give is solid gold.

[jaynellie]

Outstanding ScrewTheChew I see that you posted roll Finally today. I personally would recommend posting as early as you can in the day so that you don't get a chance to mind fuck yourself. Read all you can on this site, it is truly amazing how much you can learn about yourself. I have read "Tend your Garden" so many times I can recite it in German, (Not really but it's that fucking good). Like everyone has already pointed out the "friend" thing is bullshit and the longer you are on this site and involved in this site the more you will realize that. Proud to be quit with you today. QLF

[Screw_the_Chew]

Thank you all for your support. You are absolutely right about the tin not being a friend but an enemy that was slowly killing me each day. This is GREAT to have a place where you can go for support from people who have been where I am right now. Day 1 almost over. Thank you all for the welcome!

[Souliman]

First things first Screw Boo...that friend tried to kill you daily for over two decades. You need to get your head straight my friend. That's the enemy not some old girl friend you used to grind under the bleachers. You should feel pissed. You should feel cheated. You should feel fucking aggravated as hell that you paid to put poison in your body. Fuck. It pisses me off to think about it. You are worth more than a few bucks in some suit's pocket. That's the romance they manufactured. Cancer in a can.

Stick to the program here and we'll rewire those fond memories to see what they actually were: you sucking on the nipple of cancer.

[matthewb51]

Hi All,

Well its day 1 and hell on earth. I have chewed mostly Copenhagen for the last 22 years and this is not the first time I have tried to quit. I feel as though I have just lost my best friend and closest companion again; in fact I have. ItÂ’s like being in an abusive relationship where IÂ’m the victim. She makes you feel great when youÂ’re together but she plays mind games. She makes you depend upon her and soon she runs your lifeÂ…Â…all the while slowly stabbing you. Who needs that? I sure donÂ’t? ItÂ’s timeÂ…..you BITCH!

You keep shitty company my new friend, hell we all did. No longer though! It will get better on a daily basis. Get on over to the Welcome Center and get acquianted with your Group and post roll. Repeat everday. Like Diesel said, we are your new friends. We promise to not use one day at a time and we expect you to do the same. PM me if you need anything. Glad to be quit with you today!

[Diesel2112]

Hi All,

Well its day 1 and hell on earth. I have chewed mostly Copenhagen for the last 22 years and this is not the first time I have tried to quit. I feel as though I have just lost my best friend and closest companion again; in fact I have. ItÂ’s like being in an abusive relationship where IÂ’m the victim. She makes you feel great when youÂ’re together but she plays mind games. She makes you depend upon her and soon she runs your lifeÂ…Â…all the while slowly stabbing you. Who needs that? I sure donÂ’t? ItÂ’s timeÂ…..you BITCH!

In FACTC you have NOT lost your best friend or a friend at all.

Anyone that kept me as a slave, tried to give me cancer, tried to take my teeth, jaw, tounge, emptied my pockets, take me away from my loved ones and tried to kill me daily by helping me commit suicide...I would not consider a "friend".

I would consider that a fucked face enemy.

Get your head on straight and lets battle this beat together. We are your new friends.

[Screw_the_Chew]

Hi All,

Well its day 1 and hell on earth. I have chewed mostly Copenhagen for the last 22 years and this is not the first time I have tried to quit. I feel as though I have just lost my best friend and closest companion again; in fact I have. ItÂ’s like being in an abusive relationship where IÂ’m the victim. She makes you feel great when youÂ’re together but she plays mind games. She makes you depend upon her and soon she runs your lifeÂ…Â…all the while slowly stabbing you. Who needs that? I sure donÂ’t? ItÂ’s timeÂ…..you BITCH!