Day 743 -
Challenging yourself and seeing it through
Here is another aspect I came to realize over the week away, and I think has a great link to that of quitting.
As I sat as a leader, watching the young scouts throughout the week open their mind learning new things, I though wow what a challenge they are putting themselves through. Whether it be for earning the Merit Badges or the other Rank requirements, they would be learning skills that will help them throughout life.
For me I also put myself through a challenge, this one on the physical side. I went through the week in preparation to do the mile swim on the Friday. Each day I spent 30 minutes in the pool building up the strength, the ability to show that I would be able to make it. I do have to say I was nervous. I had never done anything like this before as I was never an endurance athlete. I kept cracking jokes to release my tension throughout the week. But with pushing myself I began it on the Friday, with 4 other boys (my son included). When I heard the lifeguard who was counting yell out half-way for me I was just about done, and almost stopped as was exhausted and thought that I was further than that. But I pushed on lap after lap. I kept thinking about how good it was going to feel for myself to finish. About how I had made a commitment to myself to do this. And finally after what I found out was over 37 minutes, I finished....was an amazing feeling.
Well let's look at what we do here. We come here to quit, that is our challenge. We have all of those who have laid a path before us, with all of the knowledge that has been built up throughout the years and posted for others to read, those are the books and requirements for how to get this challenge done. We have the words of encouragement as we go through the quit whether it be in the live chat, through the personal messages or even texts and phone calls. As we progress we learn these tools from the site and others that we put into practice as the days pass by. We always peek ahead to certain milestones but we still handle it day by day. We also then put our word on that roll each day, and that is our commitment to getting it done each and every day.
I am sure that everyone has had a challenge, whether big or small, where you can reflect and see how similar you can relate it to quitting.
So as I can relate, yes Quitting is one of the most challenging of things to do, but when you are successful it is so rewarding it almost goes without words. And to prove that, just look at the company that we are with for all of those who stand side by side with you and call you friend or family.
Be good my friends and family.