Day 385
Reaching out an open hand.
I have been thinking of this small gesture where one takes his arm, with an open hand and stretches it out in front of him or herself.
It is a very simple gesture, but one that can, and has had a tremendous meaning here at KTC.
Over a year ago, that is what I did when I joined here. I stood up when I quit and knew I needed the help so I reached out my hand asking for the help of others. I then through the life of my quit so far did that same gesture when I needed the extra support when I was craving or just having the bad/down days. And I found when I did this, the brotherhood here took my hand and got me through each and every time. I see this each and every day, as someone new logs in here and gives their first post, or a low day count in their daily quit, reaches out their hand and those of us in the brotherhood come to the aid. I can just recommend that those that do not do this simple gesture to start as it will help to solidify your quit.
I have also now seen from the other end where those veterans on the site open their hand and reach out. This is not as much as an asking for help, but, in my opinion, more of a “here is a hand to help you”, that I am giving of myself and my support to help through the hard times of the initial quit. These are the guys that are paying it forward, who have been through the fog, the fight, and have put up a winning record. By reaching out they hope not only to help others, but to help themselves in the reminder of what was, and that they themselves can never again for any reason.
So whether you are a newbie, or whether you have many a days where you have posted up that +1, the gesture is the same. Just reach out with that open hand, and see what happens.
And I may not be a psychic, but I have seen throughout the year that those that have done it, are still +1 today.