When you are broken, most times it is simply because the pieces to your puzzle are not correct.
With the wrong pieces or they are in the wrong places, the puzzle makes no sense.
So the only way to build the puzzle correctly is to completely disassemble it and begin again.
Sounds easy, right?
But, you cannot break it yourself.
You have to be broken by everyone.
You have to be so broken that you are forced out of yourself.
Grapes are useless to make wine with until they have been completely crushed and removed from their skins.
From this point on, they are transformed with love, care, and guidance from a skilled hand.
That they get better with time, even the cheapest wine takes a year.
Anytime prior, it is not quite right.
We have to understand that a good change takes trail and error.
Some will be sweet.
Some will be sour.
Some will be bitter.
Some will be perfect.
Just as with the puzzle, not every piece fits the first time you try.
Be willing to be unsuccessful.
Be willing to be frustrated.
Be willing to be elated.
Be willing to step away.
This does not mean you are finished and give up. All it means is that your not done YET!
Our puzzles are not 50 pieces or 5000. They are closer to 1,000,000 pieces and will never be finished, because they are always changing.
But don't give up.
Accept the challenge and try.
What is the worst that happens?
You figure out a piece doesn't fit.
