Everyday that we show up and give our word, needs to be a celebration. Each day is a day further from the person we were and a day closer to the person who we are becoming.
I have had the same converstation with two quitters with in 72 hours of each other. One was day 221 and the other was at day 42. Each texted me...."fuk I am having craves..What the fuk! Why am I still getting them?"
I picked up the phone and called them....
Candi: Dude, ___ days is nothing compared to the length of time we used. 3650 days is 10 years, you think that 600 days is going to fix all of the damage we did?
Kwitthas: Fuk No.
Candi: Then why are you getting upset?
Kwitthas: Never looked at it that way.
Converstation carried on... but wanted to share this point. The worst thing any of us can do is put our quit on a schedule. By doing so you open yourself to dissappointment rather than aknowledgement. I know a crave can happen and I will deal. Rather than why am I still getting them? Fuk... That fuk moment, if not delt with accordingly could lead down a dark path.
She is sneaky, always waiting, each time your able to post a +1, needs to be celebrated as you continue to beat her and reclaim your life.
