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Offline FLLipOut

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #237 on: March 06, 2017, 09:47:00 PM »
Quote from: CavMan83
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: KennyZ
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!
Congratulations and thank you for all of your support!!
Thanks for being with me Edd! You my friend are BAQ! Can't say much good about your team.?
Oh HELL NO you didn't just dis my Tigers on my own friggin' intro page!!!

Notice there is absolutely NO Roll Tide emoticon ANYWHERE in this forum (at least not yet).... 'na na'

:wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle: :wareagle:
How do I follow ^^^ that?!

:wub: Cav...1,000 days...what an amazing milestone for one tremendous quitter! Thank you for your friendship and all of your support. :wub:

And for any young quitter who may have stumbled in here...if you read any intro from start to finish, read this one. There is quit gold to be found on these pages.
Just one and you will be back to where you started, and where you started was desperately wishing you were where you are now.
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Offline CavMan83

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #236 on: March 06, 2017, 06:48:00 PM »
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: KennyZ
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!
Congratulations and thank you for all of your support!!
Thanks for being with me Edd! You my friend are BAQ! Can't say much good about your team.?
Oh HELL NO you didn't just dis my Tigers on my own friggin' intro page!!!

Notice there is absolutely NO Roll Tide emoticon ANYWHERE in this forum (at least not yet).... 'na na'

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #235 on: March 06, 2017, 12:31:00 PM »
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: KennyZ
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!
Congratulations and thank you for all of your support!!
Thanks for being with me Edd! You my friend are BAQ! Can't say much good about your team.?
Nice dangler Cav ... see you on roll for 1,001!
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #234 on: March 06, 2017, 10:11:00 AM »
Quote from: KennyZ
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!
Congratulations and thank you for all of your support!!
Thanks for being with me Edd! You my friend are BAQ! Can't say much good about your team.?
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #233 on: March 06, 2017, 10:07:00 AM »
To all fresh quitters: CavMan has 10,490 posts, and you can probably learn something that will strengthen your quit from 10,490 of them.

Congrats on the comma, Cav! Proud to be quit with you today and every other day.

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #232 on: March 06, 2017, 09:48:00 AM »
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!
Congratulations and thank you for all of your support!!

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #231 on: March 06, 2017, 09:45:00 AM »
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
Congrats on your comma Cayman! Pure awesomeness!

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #230 on: March 05, 2017, 08:23:00 PM »
Nice comma, CavMan. That's awesome...quit on!
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #229 on: March 05, 2017, 07:42:00 PM »
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: JB65
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
Cav,...what can I say that hasn't been said. They don't make them any tougher than you. Congrats on this huge milestone.
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #228 on: March 05, 2017, 10:17:00 AM »
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Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!
Mr. Cavman. Always supporting...paying it forward.
Thanks for all you do .
Congrats on the comma!
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #227 on: March 04, 2017, 08:24:00 PM »
Nice comma man! Awesome accomplishment for an awesome quitter!

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #226 on: March 04, 2017, 08:18:00 PM »
Cavman.... NHNNNIML alphabet soup to the newbies and foggy kwithas, hours of entertainment for the vets and now a cornerstone in every bad ass quitters quit.

Thank you for all that you have done and continue to do for me. I truely am honored to have you in my corner. That comma is hard earned and congratulations on this huge milestone.

Keep kicking ass Brother

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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #225 on: December 30, 2016, 10:19:00 PM »
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Quote from: Smeds
Quote from: duathman
Quote from: razd611
Quote from: Candoit
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: JB65
Quote from: brettlees
Quote from: CavMan83
To mark what to me is a pretty significant occasion (although I fully recognize it may not hold any meaning at all to others :D ).....


Good morning Sultans,

Not sure why I noticed, but earlier this morning during the round of semi-weekly postings (I have time now as I'm still on break, but during the work week have to limit my postings severely as it just takes entirely too long to cover all the groups nowadays!!)....but I digress. As I was posting support for our brothers and sister in October '14 (gotta love them TITANS!), I noticed my post count was getting really close to a milestone. As I write this, some 933 days removed from June the tenth, 2014 (and by my way of counting 932 days into this quit), this is the NINE-THOUSANDTH, NINE-HUNDREDTH, and NINETY-NINTH post I have entered into these forum pages.

The very next one will be 10,000. //// EDIT: THIS is Post #10,000.... ////

That's a whole lot of time devoted to this quit, but a whole lot less time (and money) than I wasted on that insidious weed in a can. I'm thinking the best way I can "spend" that post is to copy this one and place it in my introduction, as a reminder of how stupid I once was, and how effective this community is. It is truly amazing (once you get past the sophomoric humor and the overall nastiness that some folks bring to these halls) how people can band together to jointly fight an addiction that is nearly impossible to break solo.

I am glad I found this place, and glad for my Sultan family. //// EDIT: I would like to modify and expand this to include not only my Sultans (like my immediate family), but also vets in the F.O.C.K.E.R.S (Sep '05), the GlassHousers (Apr' 12), the resolute Bastards (Apr '14), the madhouse of Project Mayhem (May '14), the DD Destroyers (July '14) and the "newer" groups my TITANS (Oct '14), the RANT (Dec '14), my beloved Hardbacks (Jan '15), my Friends the Fog Fighters of February (Feb '15), them Silverbuttses (Apr '15), the Fn' Misfits (May '15), the Jackals (Jul '15), my Sammies (Samurai, Sep '15), the ZBNski Nation (Nov '15), the fools of Apr '16, the Maysters of the Universe (May '16), the Phalanx (Jul '16), those Trauma=Tizers (Aug '16), my awesome STD's (Sep '16), the Raging Dumpster Fire (Oct '16), the Swarm (Nov '16), the Nameless Ninjas (Dec '16), the League (Jan '17), the Fellowship (Feb '17), the Mavericks (Mar '17), and the yet-to-be-named Hall of Famers of April, 17. This list represents so much more than just a group listing of months. This is a continuum of support stretching back into history and into the future....Each of these has at least one quitter I have come to know and who has helped in some way to get me to this point. And that's what this place is all about....Brother/Sister-hood, Accountability, Honor, Integrity, and QUIT!!! Much love and respect to each of you. ////

May you and your families and friends be blessed through experiences of peace, joy, and prosperity in the New Year.
Cav, you've been rocking that quit for so long- great job, great support you give others, and still bringin the energy ... love it! soak in the true accomplishment!
Sweet stuff Cav! You and a handful of other guys are ones i look for and look forward to seeing on here every day posting. Thanks for paying it forward.
The March 14' Iron Men also got your back brother. Count me in that bunch - many of us are better quitters because of what you do here.
Cavman always steady and constant. I know that you are a constant force for many and myself. Looking forward to many more milestone with you brother.
Well said
Glad to have met you on what? Day 9? Either way you have meant a lot in my quit as well. Thanks for the support and keep passing on your knowledge of NHNNNIML to those newbies.
'oh yeah'
Good stuff Cav, keep it rocking!
Great stuff, Cav! You are the Obi Wan Kenobi of Quit: a wise teacher, great mentor and all around kick butt Jedi of quit!!! Your support meant the world to me back when I was just a snotty nosed KTC newbie and is still so important to me today.

'Cheers'
Just one and you will be back to where you started, and where you started was desperately wishing you were where you are now.
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #224 on: December 29, 2016, 09:33:00 AM »
Quote from: Smeds
Quote from: duathman
Quote from: razd611
Quote from: Candoit
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: JB65
Quote from: brettlees
Quote from: CavMan83
To mark what to me is a pretty significant occasion (although I fully recognize it may not hold any meaning at all to others :D ).....


Good morning Sultans,

Not sure why I noticed, but earlier this morning during the round of semi-weekly postings (I have time now as I'm still on break, but during the work week have to limit my postings severely as it just takes entirely too long to cover all the groups nowadays!!)....but I digress. As I was posting support for our brothers and sister in October '14 (gotta love them TITANS!), I noticed my post count was getting really close to a milestone. As I write this, some 933 days removed from June the tenth, 2014 (and by my way of counting 932 days into this quit), this is the NINE-THOUSANDTH, NINE-HUNDREDTH, and NINETY-NINTH post I have entered into these forum pages.

The very next one will be 10,000. //// EDIT: THIS is Post #10,000.... ////

That's a whole lot of time devoted to this quit, but a whole lot less time (and money) than I wasted on that insidious weed in a can. I'm thinking the best way I can "spend" that post is to copy this one and place it in my introduction, as a reminder of how stupid I once was, and how effective this community is. It is truly amazing (once you get past the sophomoric humor and the overall nastiness that some folks bring to these halls) how people can band together to jointly fight an addiction that is nearly impossible to break solo.

I am glad I found this place, and glad for my Sultan family. //// EDIT: I would like to modify and expand this to include not only my Sultans (like my immediate family), but also vets in the F.O.C.K.E.R.S (Sep '05), the GlassHousers (Apr' 12), the resolute Bastards (Apr '14), the madhouse of Project Mayhem (May '14), the DD Destroyers (July '14) and the "newer" groups my TITANS (Oct '14), the RANT (Dec '14), my beloved Hardbacks (Jan '15), my Friends the Fog Fighters of February (Feb '15), them Silverbuttses (Apr '15), the Fn' Misfits (May '15), the Jackals (Jul '15), my Sammies (Samurai, Sep '15), the ZBNski Nation (Nov '15), the fools of Apr '16, the Maysters of the Universe (May '16), the Phalanx (Jul '16), those Trauma=Tizers (Aug '16), my awesome STD's (Sep '16), the Raging Dumpster Fire (Oct '16), the Swarm (Nov '16), the Nameless Ninjas (Dec '16), the League (Jan '17), the Fellowship (Feb '17), the Mavericks (Mar '17), and the yet-to-be-named Hall of Famers of April, 17. This list represents so much more than just a group listing of months. This is a continuum of support stretching back into history and into the future....Each of these has at least one quitter I have come to know and who has helped in some way to get me to this point. And that's what this place is all about....Brother/Sister-hood, Accountability, Honor, Integrity, and QUIT!!! Much love and respect to each of you. ////

May you and your families and friends be blessed through experiences of peace, joy, and prosperity in the New Year.
Cav, you've been rocking that quit for so long- great job, great support you give others, and still bringin the energy ... love it! soak in the true accomplishment!
Sweet stuff Cav! You and a handful of other guys are ones i look for and look forward to seeing on here every day posting. Thanks for paying it forward.
The March 14' Iron Men also got your back brother. Count me in that bunch - many of us are better quitters because of what you do here.
Cavman always steady and constant. I know that you are a constant force for many and myself. Looking forward to many more milestone with you brother.
Well said
Glad to have met you on what? Day 9? Either way you have meant a lot in my quit as well. Thanks for the support and keep passing on your knowledge of NHNNNIML to those newbies.
'oh yeah'
Good stuff Cav, keep it rocking!
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Re: 2d Time Quitter
« Reply #223 on: December 29, 2016, 09:27:00 AM »
Quote from: duathman
Quote from: razd611
Quote from: Candoit
Quote from: Steakbomb18
Quote from: JB65
Quote from: brettlees
Quote from: CavMan83
To mark what to me is a pretty significant occasion (although I fully recognize it may not hold any meaning at all to others :D ).....


Good morning Sultans,

Not sure why I noticed, but earlier this morning during the round of semi-weekly postings (I have time now as I'm still on break, but during the work week have to limit my postings severely as it just takes entirely too long to cover all the groups nowadays!!)....but I digress. As I was posting support for our brothers and sister in October '14 (gotta love them TITANS!), I noticed my post count was getting really close to a milestone. As I write this, some 933 days removed from June the tenth, 2014 (and by my way of counting 932 days into this quit), this is the NINE-THOUSANDTH, NINE-HUNDREDTH, and NINETY-NINTH post I have entered into these forum pages.

The very next one will be 10,000. //// EDIT: THIS is Post #10,000.... ////

That's a whole lot of time devoted to this quit, but a whole lot less time (and money) than I wasted on that insidious weed in a can. I'm thinking the best way I can "spend" that post is to copy this one and place it in my introduction, as a reminder of how stupid I once was, and how effective this community is. It is truly amazing (once you get past the sophomoric humor and the overall nastiness that some folks bring to these halls) how people can band together to jointly fight an addiction that is nearly impossible to break solo.

I am glad I found this place, and glad for my Sultan family. //// EDIT: I would like to modify and expand this to include not only my Sultans (like my immediate family), but also vets in the F.O.C.K.E.R.S (Sep '05), the GlassHousers (Apr' 12), the resolute Bastards (Apr '14), the madhouse of Project Mayhem (May '14), the DD Destroyers (July '14) and the "newer" groups my TITANS (Oct '14), the RANT (Dec '14), my beloved Hardbacks (Jan '15), my Friends the Fog Fighters of February (Feb '15), them Silverbuttses (Apr '15), the Fn' Misfits (May '15), the Jackals (Jul '15), my Sammies (Samurai, Sep '15), the ZBNski Nation (Nov '15), the fools of Apr '16, the Maysters of the Universe (May '16), the Phalanx (Jul '16), those Trauma=Tizers (Aug '16), my awesome STD's (Sep '16), the Raging Dumpster Fire (Oct '16), the Swarm (Nov '16), the Nameless Ninjas (Dec '16), the League (Jan '17), the Fellowship (Feb '17), the Mavericks (Mar '17), and the yet-to-be-named Hall of Famers of April, 17. This list represents so much more than just a group listing of months. This is a continuum of support stretching back into history and into the future....Each of these has at least one quitter I have come to know and who has helped in some way to get me to this point. And that's what this place is all about....Brother/Sister-hood, Accountability, Honor, Integrity, and QUIT!!! Much love and respect to each of you. ////

May you and your families and friends be blessed through experiences of peace, joy, and prosperity in the New Year.
Cav, you've been rocking that quit for so long- great job, great support you give others, and still bringin the energy ... love it! soak in the true accomplishment!
Sweet stuff Cav! You and a handful of other guys are ones i look for and look forward to seeing on here every day posting. Thanks for paying it forward.
The March 14' Iron Men also got your back brother. Count me in that bunch - many of us are better quitters because of what you do here.
Cavman always steady and constant. I know that you are a constant force for many and myself. Looking forward to many more milestone with you brother.
Well said
Glad to have met you on what? Day 9? Either way you have meant a lot in my quit as well. Thanks for the support and keep passing on your knowledge of NHNNNIML to those newbies.
'oh yeah'
My personality is who I am, my attitude depends on who you are.