SoÂ… I caved. On 10/1/15, I made the 10-15 choices that are necessary in order to ingest nicotine. From what I understand, IÂ’m supposed to answer three questions. What happened?, Why did it happen?, and what will I do differently?
Ok. What happened? And Why did it happen? IÂ’m not going to sugarcoat this. I donÂ’t have a my dog died, lost my job, car broke down, and I was so STRESSED OUT story here. It was Thursday night, and I was out and about, and I hit a strong crave. I acted it on by making the wrong choices.
Why did it happen? I rationalized that I could hit it this one time, and all would be cool. Well, you Jedi Masters of quit know how this movie ends. The one time turned into one more week, which turned into another week, etc. fucking etc, and here I am.
What to do differently? Well, I’m sitting on a real fucking solid Day 3, which is good. Yesterday, I found out that my middle son bought an e-cig kit this past weekend. He was going to hide it from Mom and Dad, but Mama is an old school bloodhound sniffer outer. (She’s dealt with me for almost 30 years now.) He told us it was an impulse buy, and he planned on selling it when he got back to school. Of course, I read him the whole, “Don’t be dumb like me” spiel that we've all done with our kids. Then I thought about my Dad. My dad said that same shit to me, but he never stopped smoking until Jesus finally came and whopped him upside the head and took him home. I thought, “watching my dad truly become a non-user would have had the greatest impact on me.” So I explained to my son what I’m dealing with… Age 47, and on Day 2; more openly and honestly than I ever had before. That’s not necessarily a do things differently, but it is another bat tool in the bat belt. As far as actually doing something different, I will get some phone numbers for text support when a craving hits. I have also sworn to my wife and kids, that, I will add another step to the 10-15 step process of ingesting nicotine. The additional step would be to call each of them and ask permission to do so. If I can get a unanimous majority vote, then I will proceed.
I apologize to you guys that run this site, and to my old quit brethren of December. The December Disciples of Quit was a pretty fucking cool group name, and I blew that to smithereens. ItÂ’s a good thing that you guys werenÂ’t in a literal foxhole with me, because weÂ’d all be dead now. Hopefully, IÂ’ve got another chance to turn it all around here. If you guys will have me, IÂ’ll see you in the January GroupÂ… wearing a three piece humility suit.
I quit with all you today.