5/16/13 today i chose to quit . I am 25 m ex military and now work for security. I am divorced and just moved to a new town
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I see that you fucked up roll. Then fucked it up some more by trying to unfuck it. Outstanding! Welcome to the suck where simple things make no sense and are just to difficult at times. Remember this feeling.
Get Involved:
Read:
[color=S DARK BLUE]Introductions[/color] and
[color=DARK BLUE]HOF Speeches[/color]. Read the banter in other groups. Read the non-dip discussions in the
[color=DARK BLUE]Wilcard[/color] section when you want to get away from thoughts of dip. By doing this you will realize that you are not alone in the feeling you are having. You will gain strength through others. And, you will get to know these people on a personal level, which adds accountability.
Send out a few PMs:
Send out a PM to someone in your group, or to someone that posted something that you related to. Offer your phone number. I bet you will get a phone number in return. Store those numbers in your phone and USE THEM in a moment of weakness. Sending a text out has prevented me from caving more than a few times. Sometimes I didn’t even need a response, just taking a few seconds to text was all it took to get me thinking straight again. Other times the response I got was, “you do NOT have permission to cave”, which I took to heart.
Every tool you need to QUIT and remain QUIT is here, for free, but
you have to want it. No one can quit for you, but we can offer support whenever you need it.
