Why,, thank you fellows for the kind words. Lot of things happened the last couple weeks on the site. Sometimes I just don't get people at all. Sometimes the caves still get to me, especially when It's someone I've communicated with and feel I have a bond with.
*I do get when a 20 year old thinks they are invincible and a cigar is ok? I was there.
*I do get newbies thinking that the patch/alternatives will help them quit? I was there.
*I do get when a newbie thinks it's ok to miss roll every now and then. I was there!
*I do get how this poison keeps you bound tied and gagged for years! I was there.
*I do get a cave early in a quit! I have been there.
Now lets talk about the things that have me in COMPLETE disarray/awe/dumbfounded!
How in the heck do you remain bound gagged and tied for years? Make it over 100 plus days. Have a moment of weakness, not call a brother or use the tools of this site and cave? Can't tell you! Never been there.
How does a person post roll for days (over 100 to be close) after you cave without coming clean. I can't tell you! Never been there. (not trying to open another can of worms,, just stating facts).
Now let me tell you how to make it 283 days. I'm living it!
*Post roll first thing in your morning, whenever that may be.
*Keep your word for the entire day. There is no other alternative here. You post roll,, you keep your WORD! THIS IS FINAL/NOT UP FOR DISCUSSION/ UNDEBATABLE. This alone should keep you quit for a day. HONOR YOUR WORD!
*Build up accountability with people in your own group and others. Give your number out to others. Call each other/text. Schedule a meet.
*Read, read and read. Learn your enemy,, it knows you.
*If you can't drink and not put the poison in pie hole,, I recommend you quit that to. Just a thought!!
283 days of quit. Its worth it. Life is so much better without the poison. I love my new life. My worst day without the poison is better than my best day with it.