Any helpful hints? Dude, you came to the right place.
Click the "Welcome Center" pink looking link above. There you will learn the basics - the biggest being "posting roll". By posting roll, you go to your quit group (which will be January 2012) and you post your name and quit days. By posting you make a promise not to use ANY FORM of nicotine for the day. This is your word. You wake up the next day and repeat. It's that simple. Don't get me wrong, it's not easy but it can be done.
Pretty similar to your stats, I'm 39 and dipped for 21 years. This morning I posted my 83rd day nicotine free. If I can do it, YOU can do it.
In addition to posting roll, read all there is on this site; get in the live chat to talk to folks and KEEP YOUR PROMISE. So your homework right now is to go in and post roll - click the Welcome Center link to learn how.
I will be looking for you on the roll.
Again, welcome aboard and congrats on making a decision to take your life back. Shout/PM if you need anything.