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Re: Getting past the psycological dependency
« Reply #4 on: September 22, 2015, 12:59:00 PM »
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Don't let a bunch of dumb ass co-workers who are cocky slaves to their addiction persuade you to take up dip again.
dealin with dum ass co workers what dip and other tips are all in my intro. this one you get for free.
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man your coworkers are fuckin with your quit? time to teach um the tryed and true ktc way that you and your quit are not to be fucked with. next time one a those fucks offers you a dip heres what you need to do:

1. take can with big smile
2. open can
3. rotate arm at the wrist 180 degrees, there by emptyin contents of can on ground
4. step on pile of worm shit
5. twist at knee and ankel to grind worm shit back in to ground
6. replace lid
7. hand can back to coworker with a smile
8. remind him that you will be willin to help him agin any time
9. repete as nessassary til no buddy will ever offer you a dip agin. evin if you ask for it.

ps if you can piss on the worm shit thats evin better then grindin it in to the ground.

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Re: Getting past the psycological dependency
« Reply #3 on: September 22, 2015, 09:38:00 AM »
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I was wondering if anyone out there has any tips or stories of how they powered through until they got to the point of being able to never want to touch it again.

'Never' is a rather tall order to request from anyone. I certainly can't tell you how to never crave tobacco again. By its very design you are supposed to crave it for the rest of your life. How about setting your site lower and worry about today and let tomorrow take care of tomorrow. First off, post roll every day, and get your honor on the line, and get support from other going through the same thing.

Once the nicotine is out of your system (3-4 days), it takes a few weeks for the neurotransmitters in your brain which have disrupted by nicotine all these years to stabilize- at that point your mood gets under control and your thoughts become more clear. All the while you need to figure out what to do with your mouth. I sucked on wintergreen life savers for a good 4 months any time I was in the car (I still take them with me on trips) and any other time I thought of dip. Others have different methods, but that one worked for me.

Don't let a bunch of dumb ass co-workers who are cocky slaves to their addiction persuade you to take up dip again.

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Re: Getting past the psycological dependency
« Reply #2 on: September 22, 2015, 08:54:00 AM »
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Hey guys,
I'm a new member to the forum, however I've looked at the website in the past. I have been Copenhagen dipper on and off for the past 5 years. I quit in the beginning of the year for 4 1/2 months and felt great. However I relapsed and have been on and off again since. The physical withdrawal never bothered me much it's more the mental aspect that's killing me. Things like hunting, driving, and work just don't feel right without it after a while. I work construction and everyone smokes or dips so that's my hardest battle. As I'm at work right now I became disgusted by it while my lip was in and threw the can down a manhole this time I'm hoping for good. I was wondering if anyone out there has any tips or stories of how they powered through until they got to the point of being able to never want to touch it again.
Read around the site, you will find a couple tips in common.

1. You are an addict, you brain is wired to function with nicotine in it. That takes time without nicotine to rewire.

2. As you found after 4 1/2 months stopped (quit is different), nicotine will try to get control of you forever.

3. As you note, lots of triggers (hunting, driving, work, beer, breathing, after meals were mine) to deal with

4. What works is accountability and brotherhood. (Beats the crap out of hope). Be accountable to yourself and everyone here by posting roll first thing in the morning every day. Build up brotherhood by contacting fellow quitters to support you when you hit a crave, or a bad fog, or temptation and stay quit One Day At A Time.

You will find plenty of people who stay quit while surrounded by dippers at work, it can be done.

It's simple to stay quit for today, but very hard to quit -- especially alone.

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Getting past the psycological dependency
« on: September 22, 2015, 08:28:00 AM »
Hey guys,
I'm a new member to the forum, however I've looked at the website in the past. I have been Copenhagen dipper on and off for the past 5 years. I quit in the beginning of the year for 4 1/2 months and felt great. However I relapsed and have been on and off again since. The physical withdrawal never bothered me much it's more the mental aspect that's killing me. Things like hunting, driving, and work just don't feel right without it after a while. I work construction and everyone smokes or dips so that's my hardest battle. As I'm at work right now I became disgusted by it while my lip was in and threw the can down a manhole this time I'm hoping for good. I was wondering if anyone out there has any tips or stories of how they powered through until they got to the point of being able to never want to touch it again.