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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #63 on: May 26, 2013, 01:27:00 PM »
Unfortunately I barely slept last night. But here we are Day 7. Quit and proud of it. Hope everyone is having an awesome holiday weekend.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #62 on: May 25, 2013, 11:31:00 AM »
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Day 6 has arrived. Gotta thank the good lord for giving me another day on planet earth.  Gotta thank my family and my quit brothers in here for helping me to stay quit.  Once you start realizing that you really can live without dip its amazing how good it feels.  Each and everyday I am quit is better than the day before.  Keep it up badasses.
Day by Day, brother. For your effort, enjoy my AV. 'Popcorn'
ODAAT is as real as peanut butter. The more days quit you can string together the better it will get. Quit today worry about tomorrow when it becomes today.We all quit one day at a time doesn't matter if you have 2 days or 2,000 days under your belt.NAFAR!!
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #61 on: May 25, 2013, 11:00:00 AM »
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Day 6 has arrived. Gotta thank the good lord for giving me another day on planet earth. Gotta thank my family and my quit brothers in here for helping me to stay quit. Once you start realizing that you really can live without dip its amazing how good it feels. Each and everyday I am quit is better than the day before. Keep it up badasses.
Day by Day, brother. For your effort, enjoy my AV. 'Popcorn'

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #60 on: May 25, 2013, 10:41:00 AM »
Day 6 has arrived. Gotta thank the good lord for giving me another day on planet earth. Gotta thank my family and my quit brothers in here for helping me to stay quit. Once you start realizing that you really can live without dip its amazing how good it feels. Each and everyday I am quit is better than the day before. Keep it up badasses.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #59 on: May 25, 2013, 06:47:00 AM »
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Well done and congratulations!  Keep up the fight. The formula you have been following, posting roll first thing in the morning every day (nuclear war is the only good excuse to not post) combined with being a man of integrity is a bulletproof formula. You have fought hard and have a lot of exciting milestones ahead. Life is so much better without nicotine; you might not be there quite yet, but you are on your way. Things might be a little foggy for a few days and you might be hazy. The fog will lift, and you won't believe how clear the sky will be!!!

One more thing... You might want to update your intro from time to time. It is great to look back at the low points and see how far you've come. You don't ever want to relive yesterday!
Your support and messages have been a key contributor to my success. I actually went into that discount smoke store tonight with my wife and bought the last 2 cans of smokey mountain they had. Thank you for calling them yesterday and confirming they had fake chew. Some people dont need it but it has definitely helped me. Keep killin your quit brother. I will do the same with mine.
KC, use whatever it takes to "not" put the poison in your mouth.
Chew nasty 3 day old diapers, coffee grounds with cat shit in it or even fishing worms...wigglers are the best!
Whatever it takes to keep your word every a.m.
You can work on the oral fixation (which we all have) later...for now keep your focus on staying busy, exercising, drinking lots of water, learning how to live as an addict of nicotine One Damn Day at a Time and the dumbass dipper becomes the smartass quitter.
Get a crave? Locate desk drawer, place penis in drawer, slam drawer...repeat as needed. Quit on Sir!! 'bang head'
Cheers brother.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #58 on: May 24, 2013, 11:21:00 PM »
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Well done and congratulations! Keep up the fight. The formula you have been following, posting roll first thing in the morning every day (nuclear war is the only good excuse to not post) combined with being a man of integrity is a bulletproof formula. You have fought hard and have a lot of exciting milestones ahead. Life is so much better without nicotine; you might not be there quite yet, but you are on your way. Things might be a little foggy for a few days and you might be hazy. The fog will lift, and you won't believe how clear the sky will be!!!

One more thing... You might want to update your intro from time to time. It is great to look back at the low points and see how far you've come. You don't ever want to relive yesterday!
Your support and messages have been a key contributor to my success. I actually went into that discount smoke store tonight with my wife and bought the last 2 cans of smokey mountain they had. Thank you for calling them yesterday and confirming they had fake chew. Some people dont need it but it has definitely helped me. Keep killin your quit brother. I will do the same with mine.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #57 on: May 24, 2013, 11:17:00 PM »
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Congrats KC!!! You may be punching through the suck. But, you are exacty right...the battle is not over. Sleepless nights and dip dreams are still probably in your future. And, you are sure to come across triggers you weren't aware of. Keep your guard up. Post roll everyday. Reach out to other badass quitters. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER. WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER.

The Nic Bitch knows your weaknesses because she is you. She is part of your psyche. She knows how you rationalize. She knows what makes sense to you. She knows what you will call bullshit on. And she's smart enough to stick to tactics that work...even if that means letting you come up for air.

Don't be fooled. Don't get complacent. She is right aroung the corner ready to trickfuck. If you even begin to make an excuse or rationalize "one more" then you will. And you will be posting Day 1 again and taking more shit than you thought was possible. Don't even let your mind think about it for a second. Focus on quit and keeping your word...period.

But, congrats on a wonderful milestone!!! Keep in mind that is all it is...a milestone...one little marker on a bad ass road. YOU GOT THIS, BROTHER!!! Stay strong and stay quit!!!
Thanks for the encouraging words. I am not sure I could continue my quit without the wonderful support this site has.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #56 on: May 24, 2013, 11:01:00 PM »
Well done and congratulations! Keep up the fight. The formula you have been following, posting roll first thing in the morning every day (nuclear war is the only good excuse to not post) combined with being a man of integrity is a bulletproof formula. You have fought hard and have a lot of exciting milestones ahead. Life is so much better without nicotine; you might not be there quite yet, but you are on your way. Things might be a little foggy for a few days and you might be hazy. The fog will lift, and you won't believe how clear the sky will be!!!

One more thing... You might want to update your intro from time to time. It is great to look back at the low points and see how far you've come. You don't ever want to relive yesterday!

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #55 on: May 24, 2013, 05:07:00 PM »
Congrats KC!!! You may be punching through the suck. But, you are exacty right...the battle is not over. Sleepless nights and dip dreams are still probably in your future. And, you are sure to come across triggers you weren't aware of. Keep your guard up. Post roll everyday. Reach out to other badass quitters. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER. WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER.

The Nic Bitch knows your weaknesses because she is you. She is part of your psyche. She knows how you rationalize. She knows what makes sense to you. She knows what you will call bullshit on. And she's smart enough to stick to tactics that work...even if that means letting you come up for air.

Don't be fooled. Don't get complacent. She is right aroung the corner ready to trickfuck. If you even begin to make an excuse or rationalize "one more" then you will. And you will be posting Day 1 again and taking more shit than you thought was possible. Don't even let your mind think about it for a second. Focus on quit and keeping your word...period.

But, congrats on a wonderful milestone!!! Keep in mind that is all it is...a milestone...one little marker on a bad ass road. YOU GOT THIS, BROTHER!!! Stay strong and stay quit!!!

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #54 on: May 24, 2013, 04:48:00 PM »
Awesome brother! Enjoy it, as the tides can turn at anytime. Just remember when the nic bitch pops her head up times like this are going to be more and more and shitty times are going to be less and less. You got this man.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #53 on: May 24, 2013, 03:31:00 PM »
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I gotta say today has been the best day of my quit so far.  I believe my body is slowly accepting the fact that I'm done with nicotine.    Now it's just getting my mind occupied on other things. 

By no means is my battle over.  But it sure is nice to finally have a pretty good day. Day 5 when the first 4 days were  brutal.  I know there's sunshine at the end of this tunnel.  I'm thrilled to be quit today.
Glad to see your having a good day kc. I know sometimes it darn sure won't feel like it, but every day is a better day without the poison. Even when its the worst day imaginable, its a better day without the poison.

Go outside and take a good look around and see the world without being a slave. Observe the way things are suppose to look. 6 days ago your mind was clouded by a drug that shows no mercy. A drug that clouded everything including your emotions. A drug that slowly but surely was killing you.

I know every day won't be the best, but we know it will be better than it could have been. One day at a time my friend. Glad to be quit with you.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #52 on: May 24, 2013, 03:30:00 PM »
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I gotta say today has been the best day of my quit so far.  I believe my body is slowly accepting the fact that I'm done with nicotine.    Now it's just getting my mind occupied on other things. 

By no means is my battle over.  But it sure is nice to finally have a pretty good day. Day 5 when the first 4 days were  brutal.  I know there's sunshine at the end of this tunnel.  I'm thrilled to be quit today.
Congrats KC, keep toughing it out!
It's definitely awesome to come out on the other side after the 3-4 days of the suck, but stay vigilant. You have many periods of "funk" incoming. Don't worry about them now, just focus on today, but please don't think you've got it made yet.

Get some numbers, because there will be plenty of times over the next 100 days or so you'll need them. Stay close to the site and post your promise each day.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #51 on: May 24, 2013, 03:19:00 PM »
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I gotta say today has been the best day of my quit so far. I believe my body is slowly accepting the fact that I'm done with nicotine. Now it's just getting my mind occupied on other things.

By no means is my battle over. But it sure is nice to finally have a pretty good day. Day 5 when the first 4 days were brutal. I know there's sunshine at the end of this tunnel. I'm thrilled to be quit today.
Congrats KC, keep toughing it out!
I have been Quit for several years and I still wake up every morning and quit one day at a time.  I figure if it worked yesterday, it will work today.  Never ever get complacent in your quit!

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #50 on: May 24, 2013, 03:01:00 PM »
I gotta say today has been the best day of my quit so far. I believe my body is slowly accepting the fact that I'm done with nicotine. Now it's just getting my mind occupied on other things.

By no means is my battle over. But it sure is nice to finally have a pretty good day. Day 5 when the first 4 days were brutal. I know there's sunshine at the end of this tunnel. I'm thrilled to be quit today.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #49 on: May 23, 2013, 11:51:00 PM »
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Hang in there brother after you get through the withdrawals it becomes a mind game.  In my journey thus far the physical withdrawal was by far the worst part.  I was a wreck I couldnt even post roll right.  I posted in the JULY HOF class once thinking I was in the right spot.  Withdrawal and fog sucked ass hot then freezing aches and cramps... Then Bean posted never forget what you are feeling and embrace the suck...SRANS called me asked me if I was ok....Quit notiifed me I was fucking roll up consistanly... bottom line is all my brothers and sisters helped me through it and from the sounds of it you have a blood brother here.  you can do the KC pm me if you need anything.  Keep this site close this weekend for sure.

Todd...quit with you today
This is so true. Trauma sent this to me early in my quit. Several guys did. I look back and remember every detail. I kept notes. It is pure hell. Keep fighting, you can and will win this fucking battle. Your an August quitter and you posted roll, moreover your a bad ass. It gets way better. Pm me if you need me. I am quiting with you right now, here, in this very minute.
I just wanted to give a big shout out to. Worktowin. He is a fellow KC poster and really helped me out this evening. I mowed my yard which is a huge trigger point and I started freaking out big time. I have some smokey mountain now. I learned that I will need to use this until I can conquer mowing the yard. Its reteaching yourself to do all these things without chew. Another day down. Onto the next.
Get ready... You'll be amazed (and pissed) at all the things you never had any idea stood as triggers. Everything CAN be a trigger given the circumstances.

Ever folded clothes when the family wasn't home?

Ever read a magazine and seen a Grizzly ad?

Ever considered taking the train instead of the plane?

Ever had one clean pair of boxers and they had a hole in the taint?

Ever watched a show on TV that, while watching, used to include a spitter in front of you?

Ever jacked off to Alyssa Milano while dipping?

My point: Everything is a trigger. Everything!!! It's mowing grass, after drinks, watching football, etc. but it's all the times you THINK about doing the things that made you dip even if you're not doing them. Every minute is a trigger if your freaking mind lets it be.

You are in the company of some fucked up minds that probably allowed crap as remedial as comparing types of mustard to become a trigger. I'm telling you: everything can and will eventually be a trigger. Tell that trigger to fuck off. Sounds pretty simple, doesn't it? It's not.

And if you choose to see me, any other KTC member, or anything we say as a trigger, personify us and tell us to fuck off. We just want you to quit.
I can not for the life of me as I type this remember who's signature say's this but I think about it almost daily..."If everything is a trigger,than nothing is a trigger". NAFAR
Damn! I've seen that, too. Can't remember. Can both be true?