Day 400. Thought I’d write a thought on something that I have been thinking about lately. I have made it a point to read every intro that rolls through here. Sometimes I think “this guy is gone in a week” and I am wrong. Rarely do I say, “This guy gets it” and the guy ends up caving. What is the magic ingredient that separates the guys and gals who “get it” from those that don’t? They have to be cognizant of their addiction, and motivated to take back control of their life.
Seems like I am saying something everyone knows right? Sort of, but I feel everyone comes to this site ready to fight against their nicotine use.Â…Not everyone comes to the site ready for a never ending fight against their addiction to nicotineÂ….but those that do are already a step ahead of everyone else. If you are here because you are afraid for your health, or because your family is urging you to, those motivators can help your quit, but if you are not motivated to stop listening to your addiction and taking control of your life, those motivators are nothing but speed bumps on your way back to packing your lip.
Well said! And congrats on the 4th floor!
spot on! congrats!
The day I admitted I was addicted to nicotine was the day I controlled nicotine instead of nicotine controlling me. It did not make quitting easy, but I did call all of the shots.
Yep, knowing that I wasn't really using nicotine because I wanted to, but using it because nicotine was making it miserable for me not to use it, made all the difference in the world. It destroyed the "but I like to dip" myth.
The icing on the cake is coming here and seeing all of these folks actually quitting cold turkey.
Once you realize:
1. That you're only dipping because you're addicted (no other reason); and
2. People are here quitting cold turkey by the thousands...
...it makes you choose whether you're just going to remain a total puss with that knowledge or do something about it and quit.
Glad you're here, dagranger. Congrats on 400.