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Offline CaseyB

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #15 on: September 25, 2015, 01:41:00 AM »
Think about something else. Get up and move around.

Hell, I just went to Wal-Mart at 11:00 p.m. and wandered around. Not looking for anything in particular, just checking out the MLP stuff and new movies.

Did find a plug-'n-play Walking Dead game. Might have to get that...
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Re: F*ck
« Reply #14 on: September 24, 2015, 05:31:00 PM »
Checking in to see how your quit is going. Feel free to PM me if you need any support.

Stay strong and I quit with you today.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #13 on: September 23, 2015, 01:23:00 PM »
Hi Stewie.

I agree with all the others here. Embrace the suck and remember how bad it feels so you never have to do it again. I know exactly what you are going though. I Am on day 7 my self but man do I recall day 1. Man it fucking sucked!!! I dumped my tin and I knew I was done for. Day 2 was half assed ok and I thought man this is easy....... Until day 3. FUCK did it suck. Im not mentioning all these suck day to try and put you off, I am just trying to touch base with you and show you we all go through it. I go through it with you brother! Embrace the suck and don't ever have to do it again.

Drink water, then more water and when you have had enough, drink more water! Exchange numbers with fellow quitters from your December group or who ever you fancy. Just do it, they may be your lifeline to help get you through a day. Read HOF speeches and words of wisdom. When you have had enough, read some more!

Stay strong brother I quit with you today!!!

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #12 on: September 23, 2015, 01:02:00 PM »
Embrace the suck. All that follows the next couple days are a result of that nic bitch punching you like
your in the corner. Only she's the prize fighter and you the golden glove amateur. You never want to be
here again. Drink lots of water and when the urges are huge drop and give yourself 20, do something
physical, DO NOT GET PISSED AT THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU!!! You are the one who elected to put that
dirt in your mouth, not them. Welcome to quit, I am quit with you today.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #11 on: September 23, 2015, 11:57:00 AM »
I can feel the desperation in your post Stewie and you are in the right place. The fellas above me have said it, but it's worth repeating, it will suck at first, but it gets so much better. Post roll, keep that promise, repeat. If you can handle those 3 steps, you WILL be quit. Let's get it done brother!
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Re: F*ck
« Reply #10 on: September 23, 2015, 11:08:00 AM »
Congratulations on making the best decision of your life. It will suck for awhile but it is so worth it to fight off that addiction.

Post roll every day. Posting roll is making a promise to yourself and to the brotherhood that you will not use nicotine that day. We take it one day at a time. Do what ever it takes to keep that promise.

Drink lots of water. Your body is going to be flushing that toxin out and drinking large amounts of water will help. It also helped kill cravings for me.

Read and post on the forums. There are thousands of us addicts on this site who have been in your shoes. I am jealous that you were able to make the decision to quit after 18 months. It took me 15 years.

Anytime you need extra help PM me or anyone else on here. The chat room also is a good place.

Welcome to the brotherhood. There is a load of wealth and support from veteran quitters. The only cost is to post roll every day and keep that promise.

I am proud as hell to quit with you today.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #9 on: September 23, 2015, 10:49:00 AM »
Quote from: quark
Quote from: Stewie
I started dipping Copenhagen mint in April of 2014.

I am absolutely fucking done with this.

Someone let me know if it gets better. 'help'
If you quit now, after 18 months of dipping, that makes you the smartest man on the planet in my estimate.

Of course it gets better, but you have to be patient, and believe that you can do it. Post roll every day, and quit one day at a time.

18 months can easily become 20 years. Life only becomes more complicated and busy once you start a family. If you are looking for the perfect day to quit, it is today, and not later.
excellent point. When I was 20, I went to basic training. I had been dipping pretty heavy for about 3 years and at BT I went cold turkey with no options--I couldn't go to the store and buy a can so I was SOL and NIC free. I didn't really miss it during that time as every minute of every day was pretty full.

Then I completed BT and went to MOS school. A little freedom and a few folks around me with a dip and it was on. It wasn't that I had to have a dip--I didn't have the good sense to say I can live without a dip. I wasn't smart enough or strong enough to choose what would have been an infinitely easier path at 20 than it is at 47 and 30 years of dipping later.

So Stewie, you are a smart man if you can seize the day when you are young. You'll save a shit load of money, you won't have fucked up dreams about cancer, you won't gross out your family or your girlfriend, you won't need to sneak a pinch, you won't have to go to the store in the middle of the night for a can...no, you can choose a much easier road for long haul RIGHT NOW. Go for it!
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Re: F*ck
« Reply #8 on: September 23, 2015, 10:44:00 AM »
Does it get better, he says! Brother, it gets better in ways you probably can't even imagine right now. Why? Because if you're like everyone else on the site, you probably have no idea what nicotine and tobacco has done to you over the years. You might not know how dulled your sense of taste is. That'll get better. You might not know that the indigestion you get might be caused by dip. That'll get better. You might not know that your heart rate is not what it should be. That too will get better.

And of course, there are the obvious things. No more worrying about when you can sneak a pinch. No more wasting your money on dip when I KNOW there are things you'd rather be buying instead (there are people on this site who have bought cars with the money they've saved). No more being petrified every time you get a common sore throat, wondering if it's finally The Big C this time.

So yes,it does get better. You'll learn you can do anything you used to do without a dip (and oddly enough, it's more enjoyable since you aren't jonesing to suck on poison). You'll also get to a point where you'll say "What the hell? I was afraid of THAT? Why didn't I quit sooner?"

Just battle through these early days, man. We're all here for you. You might have to white-knuckle it, but it will get better VERY quickly. Just drink your water, keep physically active, even if it's just walking, and reach out to anybody here if you need to.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #7 on: September 23, 2015, 10:35:00 AM »
"Anything easy ain't worth a damn"

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #6 on: September 23, 2015, 09:33:00 AM »
Quote from: Stewie
I started dipping Copenhagen mint in April of 2014.

I am absolutely fucking done with this.

Someone let me know if it gets better. 'help'
If you quit now, after 18 months of dipping, that makes you the smartest man on the planet in my estimate.

Of course it gets better, but you have to be patient, and believe that you can do it. Post roll every day, and quit one day at a time.

18 months can easily become 20 years. Life only becomes more complicated and busy once you start a family. If you are looking for the perfect day to quit, it is today, and not later.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #5 on: September 23, 2015, 08:33:00 AM »
Yeah, FUCK is about right, it's a big step you are taking today. It does get better, but buckle up the next 3-5 days. Drink a ton of water, stay away from booze, excercise, jack off, get laid, whatever, just stay away from nicotine.

I wept like a child on day 3, but I made it. I'll always be an addict, but today I am quit.
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Re: F*ck
« Reply #4 on: September 23, 2015, 06:01:00 AM »
Stewie, saw you posted an SOS on roll. You are off to a good start.

While DWeirick is getting the Groupme together, you may want to PM some fellow quitters from the December group and exchange digits. Then you can text support back  forth to get through day 1, and then the suck, fog, and cravings of the first days of quit. Expect to fight it minute by minute, hour by hour today.

You also have the "911" topic on the quit group page for quick response, and Hall of Fame Speeches and Words of Wisdom to read when the craves hit.

You can do this, it does get better in ways you can't imagine yet.

I quit with you today.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #3 on: September 23, 2015, 04:17:00 AM »
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I've been staring at my computer screen for about an hour now.

Don't even begin to know what to say- I started dipping Copenhagen mint in April of 2014. Just saying that makes me want to throw one in.

I dipped for 6 months to eventually have a quit that lasted around 3 months total. It wasn't necessarily a "quit"- more like smoking cigarettes and cigars, and gum 24/7 instead of dipping. Stupid.

In 10 days I am asking the love of my life to marry me. I don't want to be a shitty husband or an eventual shitty father. I want to be a man dammit.

I am absolutely fucking done with this. There is so much I want to say but I don't even know how to say it. I just dumped about 2 new cans in the toilet and flushed them. I am freaking out. It's about 1pm Pacific time here. I have work at 5am this morning. I am losing it knowing I won't have my morning dip in the shower or at all tomorrow at work.

If ANYONE has anything to say, help, provide, advise me with- PLEASE DO. I am losing my mind and will be quitting cold turkey. I can provide anyone interested with my Groupme number and I'd be so happy to get a text group for quitting going. I will be in the December 2015 group I think (quit date is today, 9/23/15).


Someone let me know if it gets better. 'help'
I also just dumped a can, I didn't even honestly plan on doing it until I spent a little time talking to people on the live chat and seeing that you had the balls to do it so I'm on the same boat. I quit three weeks ago after four years of dipping, was good for two weeks and relapsed after seeing some Spearmint Skoal on the wall and thought "never tried this kind, won't hurt anything". I came to realize tonight, a week after that how ignorant that was of me. Now the 4th can of it that I bought is flushed and I'll need some seeds tomorrow. Good luck to you man, we'll get it done a day at a time.
Here is the good news your on roll so Nicotine is out of the question for today! Also it does get better, but you must know it sucks before it gets better. Embrace that suck so that you don't have to post a day one ever again. Thousands of quitters have been where you are and they have made this fight so can you!! I believe we are working on setting up a Group Me for December here shortly once it is up and running I will let you know.

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Re: F*ck
« Reply #2 on: September 23, 2015, 04:06:00 AM »
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I've been staring at my computer screen for about an hour now.

Don't even begin to know what to say- I started dipping Copenhagen mint in April of 2014. Just saying that makes me want to throw one in.

I dipped for 6 months to eventually have a quit that lasted around 3 months total. It wasn't necessarily a "quit"- more like smoking cigarettes and cigars, and gum 24/7 instead of dipping. Stupid.

In 10 days I am asking the love of my life to marry me. I don't want to be a shitty husband or an eventual shitty father. I want to be a man dammit.

I am absolutely fucking done with this. There is so much I want to say but I don't even know how to say it. I just dumped about 2 new cans in the toilet and flushed them. I am freaking out. It's about 1pm Pacific time here. I have work at 5am this morning. I am losing it knowing I won't have my morning dip in the shower or at all tomorrow at work.

If ANYONE has anything to say, help, provide, advise me with- PLEASE DO. I am losing my mind and will be quitting cold turkey. I can provide anyone interested with my Groupme number and I'd be so happy to get a text group for quitting going. I will be in the December 2015 group I think (quit date is today, 9/23/15).


Someone let me know if it gets better. 'help'
I also just dumped a can, I didn't even honestly plan on doing it until I spent a little time talking to people on the live chat and seeing that you had the balls to do it so I'm on the same boat. I quit three weeks ago after four years of dipping, was good for two weeks and relapsed after seeing some Spearmint Skoal on the wall and thought "never tried this kind, won't hurt anything". I came to realize tonight, a week after that how ignorant that was of me. Now the 4th can of it that I bought is flushed and I'll need some seeds tomorrow. Good luck to you man, we'll get it done a day at a time.
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F*ck
« on: September 23, 2015, 03:53:00 AM »
I've been staring at my computer screen for about an hour now.

Don't even begin to know what to say- I started dipping Copenhagen mint in April of 2014. Just saying that makes me want to throw one in.

I dipped for 6 months to eventually have a quit that lasted around 3 months total. It wasn't necessarily a "quit"- more like smoking cigarettes and cigars, and gum 24/7 instead of dipping. Stupid.

In 10 days I am asking the love of my life to marry me. I don't want to be a shitty husband or an eventual shitty father. I want to be a man dammit.

I am absolutely fucking done with this. There is so much I want to say but I don't even know how to say it. I just dumped about 2 new cans in the toilet and flushed them. I am freaking out. It's about 1pm Pacific time here. I have work at 5am this morning. I am losing it knowing I won't have my morning dip in the shower or at all tomorrow at work.

If ANYONE has anything to say, help, provide, advise me with- PLEASE DO. I am losing my mind and will be quitting cold turkey. I can provide anyone interested with my Groupme number and I'd be so happy to get a text group for quitting going. I will be in the December 2015 group I think (quit date is today, 9/23/15).


Someone let me know if it gets better. 'help'
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