Here's the deal - no matter how you plan, or what you do, quitting is a sumbitch. I'm only 4 days in after 30+ yrs, and it sucks arse, no doubt about it - but I'm quit TODAY, and I'm free.
Sounds like you have a decision to make today, like the rest of us do - to be free today, or not. For most, planning a quit = not quitting. Best advice I've heard is make a choice to be free today, and you will be able to handle whatever comes One Day At A Time.
Flush that shite today, and join us - If you do, you can post in roll call for the February Future Hall of Fame group, and everyone will support you in any way they can.
Hope to see you in our ranks!