As a libertarian, I believe in personal choice and individual freedom. I have attempted to recruit my best friend and cousin to see what KTC has to offer (minus the cult-like aspects of it).
Posting roll daily and reading and responding to new quitters' introductions are what keep me goin.
I have some issues with your words. I want you to see if you can expand your mind a bit and see the reality of the world we live and the battle that we are fighting.
My issues with your statement above:
#1. As a libertarian, are you seriously pro big tobacco company?????? By clinging to your ridiculous belief that tobacco is a personal choice, you are essentially saying it is fine for large corporations to poison people and target humans for addiction and early death.
#2. KTC is not a cult, nor even cult like. Not even close. Have you really had any real-life experience with an actual cult? This is a brotherhood of quitters united against big tobacco, the nastiest addiction known to man, and #1 preventable killer of humankind. There is honor to be had here. Embrace and join us in the fight. Don't reject our beliefs that tobacco is pure fucking evil because it fits your stubborn political views. You need to adjust your thinking and see the light. Tobacco companies are terrorists on American soil.
#3. I'm glad you're posting roll daily and reading and responding to other quitters on the board. That is fantastic. But there is so much more to be had here. Have you exchanged phone #s with other quitters? Have you met other quitters in person? Are you using chat to meet other quitters on a more personal level. We are real, not just an internet message board. We will truly save your life.
I recommend you strengthen your quit by getting past this notion of KTC having cult-like aspects. Truly embrace the brotherhood here, strengthen your accountability, drop the negative notions associated with group-think when it comes to this. And please, please see the tobacco industry for what it is. Pure fucking evil. Try to get some additional accountability built up for yourself. The message board alone doesn't give you that accountability. Too easy to slip away. You need brothers. Make some friends. I promise you it will save your life. Please see what is here and don't piss on it. KTC is real people saving each other's lives in a hardcore way by not accepting bullshit excuses for caving and lying. I'm not saying you are a bullshitter. But when someone is called out for their shit, it's simply meant to make that person be honest with their own self. That is the key here, honesty. You can't successfully quit unless you become honest. So if demanding honor from other posters is considered "cult-like", then give me another dixie cup of the red stuff.
P.S. I'm glad you are recruiting your cousin. That's outstanding.
1. Automatically linking libertarianism with being "seriously pro big tobacco" reveals your inherent misunderstanding of the philosophy of libertarianism.
We are all responsible for our own actions, so yes, tobacco IS a personal choice. That is not a ridiculous belief, as you claim. No one put a gun to my head when I took my first dip. As an individual with free will, I make conscious lifestyle choices, fully aware of all consequences. Which is why I am now quit.
Large sugary drinks were nearly banned here in NYC, because the state believes it gets to decide what is healthy and unhealthy. Where do we draw the line? These are the big-picture questions with which libertarians have real issues. Take big tobacco to task for marketing to children, ban "fun" flavors of dip (which is NYC law), and even require vendors to remove all tobacco products from being publicly visible. Fine. But to completely ban a substance because the state is looking out for your personal health? On that I call bull shit. Paternalist bull shit, to be more precise. Let me make my own INDIVIDUAL decisions, both bad and good.
2. There are definitely online cult-like qualities exhibited on KTC in my opinion. I know I am not the first person to voice this on here. And yes, I have studied cult movements in relation to sociology and political science (I am university professor). One of the hallmark qualities of a cult is the admonishing of anyone with ideas that don't fit within the running ideology. I have seen KTC members do this to noobies with trophy cans (empties). It's as though no one can acknowledge that a trophy can might help better motivate an individual in their quit. So instead of having a real dialogue, you run them off the site. Doesn't really jive with the whole "brotherhood" line being peddled.
3. I have numbers with other quitters, they know who they are. Have not met other quitters in person due to work and the fact that there are very few active NYC-based quitters. Also, used chat early on but haven't since due to work.
IMO, my viewpoint of KTC having cult-like aspects does not help nor hinder my quit. It is simply an observation. Now, I do think the site could improve as a whole if members stopped running newbies off for having trophy cans. You want to call someone out for being dishonorable? No problem with that- when it comes to caving. But a trophy can being dishonorable? REALLY?
But for me personally, the culty aspects really makes no difference. Again, just a simple observation. KTC serves its purposes, which is keeping me accountable in my quit.