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Offline srans

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Re: day 1
« Reply #8 on: August 06, 2013, 08:37:00 AM »
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......I dipped for around 25yrs.enjoyed the hell out of it and will miss it.
Man, you really have to fix your way of thinking. Stop romanticizing nicotine and tobacco. I used to think that way, but I now look back on it and there's honestly not one thing that I actually enjoyed. Seriously..... nothing. That's just your addiction fooling you by hijacking your reward systems. If you keep fond memories, you are leaving the door open. You'll at some point accept "just one" to relive those so-called wonderful times. My best advice is to spend some time seeing addiction for what it is..... a pack of lies. If you need a little help, tell us exactly what it was that you think you enjoyed about nicotine addiction.

The constant worry over not running out of dip?
The disgusting spit bottles (unless gutting it).
The burning throat?
Having to avoid kissing family members due to a mouth full of death?
The constant bad breath?
Wasting increasing amounts money you could be using for your family?
I could go on.....

I'm not trying to be a prick here, but this attitude shift strengthened my quit early on. Read my HOF speech. Emotion helps a quitter........ but only if focused correctly. You and I are about the same place in life. I have 3 young kids, a wife, and I'm almost 39. I chewed and dipped for about 20 years.

You can do this. It gets much better.
Let me know if I can help you any way.
Listen to radmen, he speaks the truth. All the POISON ever did for you was take. Stole your freedom while taking your dignity. Costed you 1000,S depending on how long you were An idiot like me.

To be fair let me make a list of things it did for you.



I'm sorry, i got nothing!!!
Start getting your mind right or you won't make it a week...
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HoF Speech


The poison sucks. I hate it. I hated it this morning, I hated it at noon, I hated it at supper and I hate it tonight. I enjoy hating it so much I'm going to wake up tomorrow and start over hating it. I quit with anyone that wants to hate it with me.

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Re: day 1
« Reply #7 on: August 06, 2013, 08:12:00 AM »
Quote from: englishbulldog
......I dipped for around 25yrs.enjoyed the hell out of it and will miss it.
Man, you really have to fix your way of thinking. Stop romanticizing nicotine and tobacco. I used to think that way, but I now look back on it and there's honestly not one thing that I actually enjoyed. Seriously..... nothing. That's just your addiction fooling you by hijacking your reward systems. If you keep fond memories, you are leaving the door open. You'll at some point accept "just one" to relive those so-called wonderful times. My best advice is to spend some time seeing addiction for what it is..... a pack of lies. If you need a little help, tell us exactly what it was that you think you enjoyed about nicotine addiction.

The constant worry over not running out of dip?
The disgusting spit bottles (unless gutting it).
The burning throat?
Having to avoid kissing family members due to a mouth full of death?
The constant bad breath?
Wasting increasing amounts money you could be using for your family?
I could go on.....

I'm not trying to be a prick here, but this attitude shift strengthened my quit early on. Read my HOF speech. Emotion helps a quitter........ but only if focused correctly. You and I are about the same place in life. I have 3 young kids, a wife, and I'm almost 39. I chewed and dipped for about 20 years.

You can do this. It gets much better.
Let me know if I can help you any way.

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Re: day 1
« Reply #6 on: August 06, 2013, 05:03:00 AM »
I really don't know what to post on here.anyway,my name is tim. "englishbulldog" cause I just think those dogs are pretty cool.im in the November group and I dipped for around 25yrs.enjoyed the hell out of it and will miss it.but I will be forty next july and I am going to stop while im ahead.im married and have 3 sons .my family is my life and those boys are going to do good things and I want to be there to see it and eat a nice dinner with a fork and knife afterwords not through a straw.so ill take and use all the help I can get and if I can help you in any way let me know.go braves !goo gamecocks!,go chiefs ! goooooo quiters !!!!

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Re: day 1
« Reply #5 on: December 22, 2012, 06:24:00 PM »
We all should have quit for good earlier. Knowing why you went back to it will help yourself as well as others. Throw it out there, then don't look back again. Learn to post roll and shout to anyone and everyone if you need help.
Gosh, Mister, my teeth feel cleaner. But what about the hole in the wall?

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Re: day 1
« Reply #4 on: December 21, 2012, 08:15:00 PM »
Hey there Bulldog, just try to remember about those below.

If not just read up, look at the information here on the site, It is here to help you along with the hundreds of addicts like you that will reach out if you are willing to accept and feel the same.

Be strong and remember that as an addict, never again for any reason....

or that problem you are having will be multiplied if you return to your old ways

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Re: day 1
« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2012, 07:59:00 PM »
Knowing the answers to those questions are necessary to go forward EB. That's the ammo that will shoot down the nic bitch next time she comes 'round. Proud of you for taking steps to save your life. This time, we'll be here to support you through it. You'll will get out of it what you put in it. Welcome! :)
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Re: day 1
« Reply #2 on: December 21, 2012, 07:05:00 PM »
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Hi,this is day 1and for me.should be 2 years.i stopped for 11me months and picked it back up.done for good now.keeping a tin of altoids with me helps.
Welcome to ktc. I see you said you had stopped for 11 months?

1. What happened?

2. Why did it happen?

3. What will you do different this time?

I am glad to see you taking control of your life. This site will save you. I quit a hundred time's and failed every time till I found this site and all these bad ass quitters that, wanted to see me beat this horrible addiction. 90 day's ago I quit for the (first) time. I have been quitting everyday since. I saw that you posted roll. Congratulation's on that, just do it early every single day and if you ever need anything at all just pm me. I quit with you today.
Experience is the name we give to our mistakes." Oscar Wilde

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day 1
« on: December 21, 2012, 06:55:00 PM »
Hi,this is day 1and for me.should be 2 years.i stopped for 11me months and picked it back up.done for good now.keeping a tin of altoids with me helps.