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Offline macgregor

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #233 on: June 25, 2015, 12:24:00 AM »
Ok I will.... and I know that tobacco is not a clue or cure. ... I just have to find some other way to deal with some hard periods in my life. . I think that when I'll find some good way. .Then I will not need nicotine any more. ..

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #232 on: June 24, 2015, 11:37:00 PM »
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What I'm going to do differently?
Now it's 3 days of quit. .. I was quit for more than 400 - this is big difference.
For me the one way to stay quit is to be here and to text. .. writing the answers. .. this is helping me . I ' VE read those answers of some other guy. ..and he said smth like : the tobacco is not changing anytihing - and this is ok. I think so too. .. Whatever is happening chewing is no cure.
You're right, nicotine doesn't solve any problems..it is a problem. The part about coming here and texting are good. Have a plan for the next bad thing that happens. There will always be something new in your life that will challenge you. It could be a fight with a girlfriend, death in the family, job loss, you name it and it may happen. Put plans in place now to deal with these and any other situations. These plans should include reaching out to others on this site. Don't go through anything alone. Make sure to take these answers to your new and old groups if you haven't already.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #231 on: June 24, 2015, 09:38:00 PM »
That makes no fucking sense at all.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #230 on: June 24, 2015, 06:26:00 PM »
What I'm going to do differently?
Now it's 3 days of quit. .. I was quit for more than 400 - this is big difference.
For me the one way to stay quit is to be here and to text. .. writing the answers. .. this is helping me . I ' VE read those answers of some other guy. ..and he said smth like : the tobacco is not changing anytihing - and this is ok. I think so too. .. Whatever is happening chewing is no cure.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #229 on: June 24, 2015, 06:21:00 PM »
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I'm doing that already for three days. .. :)
Hi Greg. Nice job on 3 days, now it is time to put together a plan to move you to the next level...

I think I have more replies to your intro than anyone else. Once you post the answers to the 3 questions - answers that are meaningful and thoughtful - I'll start replying again. Until then - I wish you the best of luck, because if you keep bucking the KTC way - you are going to have a very tough road ahead.

It is time for some tough love. You've had 3 days to answer 3 questions.

1. What happened
2. Why did it happen
3. What are you going to do differently this time

None of us want to hear... I love nicotine - it makes me feel better. Because anyone that quit for 400 days knows that is a lie. In your message to me on day 400 - when you told me that you feel great and time is flying by - you pretty much said that. So none of that bullshit.

Dig deep.
Answer the questions.
Until then - worktowin out.
Ok I'm starting with first question. ..this is long road to answer those questions fast but ok...
So ...I had a can... to be honest I had it through this 400 Days but I didn't know that I have it somwhere. .. and I found it on the bottom of some old bag... it was closed so the stuff was good enough. ..
And I know some girl. .. You kknow.and we argued. ..a little or not a little but I didn't like it. .. I care of her and I thought I'm loosing her. .. I was so angry at world and at everything that I didn't care about anything. .. anything even staying quite or not. .. so I just took this can , opened it and started to chew. .. this is what happened. .more or less
Why ? I don't know. .. cause I didn't care, I just wanted to do smth which will ease my anger. ..

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #228 on: June 24, 2015, 05:55:00 PM »
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I'm doing that already for three days. .. :)
Hi Greg. Nice job on 3 days, now it is time to put together a plan to move you to the next level...

I think I have more replies to your intro than anyone else. Once you post the answers to the 3 questions - answers that are meaningful and thoughtful - I'll start replying again. Until then - I wish you the best of luck, because if you keep bucking the KTC way - you are going to have a very tough road ahead.

It is time for some tough love. You've had 3 days to answer 3 questions.

1. What happened
2. Why did it happen
3. What are you going to do differently this time

None of us want to hear... I love nicotine - it makes me feel better. Because anyone that quit for 400 days knows that is a lie. In your message to me on day 400 - when you told me that you feel great and time is flying by - you pretty much said that. So none of that bullshit.

Dig deep.
Answer the questions.
Until then - worktowin out.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #227 on: June 24, 2015, 05:06:00 PM »
I'm doing that already for three days. .. :)

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #226 on: June 24, 2015, 03:12:00 PM »
There is no good side of tobacco. Over time you learned to associate the ease of withdrawal symptoms with actual pleasure. There is no pleasure in nicotine. It's all a big stupid trick. Even craves are just your tricked mind thinking about how nicotine used to ease withdrawal symptoms. Fuck nicotine, tobacco, cigarettes, vape, cigars, nic gum, losenges, and all the rest. Fuck it and quit bro. Take a shit on it and kick it to the curb. Quit being romantic and just put the hammer down today.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #225 on: June 24, 2015, 03:08:00 PM »
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This whole intro since you caved makes me want to puke. Do you want to quit or not? If you "love" dipping so much why are you here?
It isn't that hard if you really want to quit. Maybe youre not ready.
Maybe You are right. .. but I'm afraid of loosing my teeth my jaw. ..
Those are things I'm afraid of. .. this bad taste which is constatly in my mouth and this feeling of being constatly tired. ... Did You have it wwhen You were chewing this shit? I've a lot more energy when I'm staying quit. ..and I'm sleeping better. ..Do You feel the same?
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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #224 on: June 24, 2015, 02:56:00 PM »
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This whole intro since you caved makes me want to puke. Do you want to quit or not? If you "love" dipping so much why are you here?
It isn't that hard if you really want to quit. Maybe youre not ready.
Maybe You are right. .. but I'm afraid of loosing my teeth my jaw. ..
Those are things I'm afraid of. .. this bad taste which is constatly in my mouth and this feeling of being constatly tired. ... Did You have it wwhen You were chewing this shit? I've a lot more energy when I'm staying quit. ..and I'm sleeping better. ..Do You feel the same?

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #223 on: June 24, 2015, 02:53:00 PM »
Yes I know. .. this is third day of staying quit and I started to feel some cravings. .. this kind of cravings when You're feeling lack of smth. .. I know that my brain just want to have some nic in its vains but I'm really afraid of this feeling

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #222 on: June 24, 2015, 08:30:00 AM »
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I'm still thinking about those bad and good sides of dipping. ..
This, my friends, is what is commonly called "Epic Fail".

There is NOTHING on the "good" side of the dipping chart bro. Nothing.

I... I... don't even know what to say. I'm sad for you man.
With this type of addict speak, I'm finding it hard believe you made it 400+ day with us. There is ZERO good reasons to use nicotine - NONE.
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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #221 on: June 23, 2015, 06:25:00 PM »
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I'm still thinking about those bad and good sides of dipping. ..
This, my friends, is what is commonly called "Epic Fail".

There is NOTHING on the "good" side of the dipping chart bro. Nothing.

I... I... don't even know what to say. I'm sad for you man.
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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #220 on: June 23, 2015, 06:05:00 PM »
This whole intro since you caved makes me want to puke. Do you want to quit or not? If you "love" dipping so much why are you here?
It isn't that hard if you really want to quit. Maybe youre not ready.

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Re: Hi my name is Gregory
« Reply #219 on: June 23, 2015, 05:55:00 PM »
The second day is going to the end. .. here in Poland. I'm still quiting.
I'm still thinking about those bad and good sides of dipping. .. I think that it would take a lot of time to explain what I meaned when I told that I like it. .. but I'm sure. .. that if I would had a choice. ..in my past, I would never start with nicotine. .. The worst thing was to meet her.
This is the point. .. I hate to be addicted - this is true. ..