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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #78 on: March 08, 2012, 07:42:00 AM »
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• Day 500 •

I’m definitely celebrating Day 500 and say, “thank you,” to all the folks at KTC who have supported me and quit with me. I’m indebted more than I can express . . . .

But I gotta’ tell you that I’ve been thinking about this “day thing.” Each day of quit is cause for celebration and it’s entirely proper to commemorate each milestone. But I’ve come to the conclusion that the number of days is not what we’re about. Every person who has quit today, whether he is on Day 1000 or on Day 5, is just as successful as I am today. It’s today, the now, that is critical. A cave on Day 1000 or on Day 5 is equally disastrous and a quit on Day 1000 or on Day 5 is equally victorious. In some ways the quit on Day 5 is more of a milestone because each of us can remember the fog and the struggle of those early days. But it’s not the number that is important; it’s the fact that we are quit. The quit is what matters and nothing else.

Quitting is a life lesson. Big Tobacco values us only so far as we can fill its coffers; They donÂ’t care if we are destroyed in the end. But when we quit our eyes are opened to our worth as people and to the foolishness of deliberately introducing poison into our bodies, to the idiocy of destroying who we are. Quitting has shown me that my life is worth fighting for and that yours is as well, and that the essence of being a quit brother or sister is to recognize and honor each person and to join forces in the battle. If you are quit today, I applaud you!

Keep count of your days, of course, but remember your quit begins anew each day!!
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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #77 on: March 08, 2012, 07:37:00 AM »
• Day 500 •

I’m definitely celebrating Day 500 and say, “thank you,” to all the folks at KTC who have supported me and quit with me. I’m indebted more than I can express . . . .

But I gotta’ tell you that I’ve been thinking about this “day thing.” Each day of quit is cause for celebration and it’s entirely proper to commemorate each milestone. But I’ve come to the conclusion that the number of days is not what we’re about. Every person who has quit today, whether he is on Day 1000 or on Day 5, is just as successful as I am today. It’s today, the now, that is critical. A cave on Day 1000 or on Day 5 is equally disastrous and a quit on Day 1000 or on Day 5 is equally victorious. In some ways the quit on Day 5 is more of a milestone because each of us can remember the fog and the struggle of those early days. But it’s not the number that is important; it’s the fact that we are quit. The quit is what matters and nothing else.

Quitting is a life lesson. Big Tobacco values us only so far as we can fill its coffers; They donÂ’t care if we are destroyed in the end. But when we quit our eyes are opened to our worth as people and to the foolishness of deliberately introducing poison into our bodies, to the idiocy of destroying who we are. Quitting has shown me that my life is worth fighting for and that yours is as well, and that the essence of being a quit brother or sister is to recognize and honor each person and to join forces in the battle. If you are quit today, I applaud you!

Keep count of your days, of course, but remember your quit begins anew each day!!

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #76 on: March 03, 2012, 12:00:00 AM »
Is there a way to get Keddy's posts sent to my phone each morning? I'd like it to be the first thing I read each day.

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #75 on: March 02, 2012, 09:20:00 AM »
• Day 494 •

Myth Busters 101: Understanding Nicotine and Stress
There are several myths about nicotine and stress that need to be debunked if you are going to understand whatÂ’s happening in your lives right now. The use of nicotine actually has a seesaw effect in our bodies and minds in relationship to stress, and many quitters experience increased anxiety, rage and nervous tension at the beginning of their quits.

Myth #1 – Nicotine helps me relax.
I used to think that dip helped me to calm down and chill out, especially at the end of a busy day. However, studies have shown that nicotine actually does just the opposite. The physiological and psychological effects of nicotine addiction create a “void” that only the drug can satisfy or fill. It causes an increase in heart rate, blood pressure, respiration, and blood glucose levels. Taking a dip to relax is merely taking a dip to cure a nicotine craving, substituting addiction for relaxation.

Myth #2 – Nicotine gives me pleasure.
One of the reasons that I hung on to dipping so long is that I once thought it provided pleasure or happiness. An addict’s logic can rationalize most anything. Think of it this way: Suppose that every day I undergo a physical beating with a whip which causes intense pain and suffering. However, once every week the beatings are mercifully taken away, and on that day I sit back to soak in the “pleasure” of not being hit. What I’ve done is confused the absence of pain with pleasure. The beatings have conditioned me to equate pleasure with the absence of the abuse. Nicotine addiction does just that. It creates a pain (the craving) that is “removed” when more of the drug is fed into our bodies. It conditions us to think that the absence of the craving equals satisfaction, substituting addiction for pleasure.

Myth #3 – Nicotine helps me deal with stress.
This one was a real eye opener for me. When I was experiencing a difficult situation or intense problem I would always reach for the can. Why? Because I thought it was my ally against stress. When I quit my world came crashing down and I ended up having high levels of anxiety and panic attacks. An addictÂ’s mind might lead one to think that the nicotine was keeping me from all that stuff but in reality it was the cause. Nicotine served as a substitute not a cure. When I dealt with the craves I thought I was dealing with the stress but that was not the case. I never actually handled or solved the stress; I only took the drug and when I needed to face stress without it I discovered that I had always been hiding from my problems, substituting addiction for reality.

Sorry for the length of this but writing about my quit and trying to help others actually fortifies my determination to give nic the finger. Nicotine creates an ugly cycle of bondage in our lives and it needs to be broken by destroying the lies of the addiction.

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #74 on: March 01, 2012, 11:43:00 PM »
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Quote from: Scowick65
Quote from: Keddy
• Day 493 •

Things I don't miss about dipping . . . .

1.   Stained fingers
2.   Tobacco crud beneath my finger nails.
3.   Burning eyes after IÂ’ve rubbed them with stained fingers.
4.   The stinking trash can under my desk that I used for a spittoon.
5.   Discovering reeking spit bottles that IÂ’ve forgotten about.
6.   Spitting in my coffee cup, sometimes even before it was empty.
7.   Spit stains down the outside window and door of my truck.
8.   Trying to talk when I needed to spit.
9.   Keeping my mouth shut tight because I have no place to spit.
10.   Crap breath.
11.   Sneaking off to the store at midnight because IÂ’ve run out.
12.   Sore mouth.
13.   Dribble on my shirts.
14.   Gastro-intestinal discomfort and upset stomach.
15.   Lying to my wife and kids that I wasnÂ’t chewing.
16.   Pretending that no one can tell IÂ’m dipping.
17.   Hiding the can inside my coat or beneath my wallet.
18.   Hacking and coughing because I fell asleep with a fatty in my lip and swallowed some.
19.   Spitting down the straws of soft drinks so no one can tell IÂ’m spitting.
20.   Worrying everyday that I might have or get oral cancer.
21.   Filling the pockets of Big Tobacco.
22.   Looking for the can the first thing in the morning.
23.   Staying up late to get in that last dip for the day.
24.   Avoiding a kiss from my beautiful wife because I was dipping.
25.   Telling myself that I enjoyed all this.
...slavery.

Thanks for leading the way!
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RE: #3. Used to wear contacts and it would burn like SHIT at night when I took them out because of that. Dipping is for morons.

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #73 on: March 01, 2012, 10:24:00 PM »
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Quote from: Keddy
• Day 493 •

Things I don't miss about dipping . . . .

1.   Stained fingers
2.   Tobacco crud beneath my finger nails.
3.   Burning eyes after IÂ’ve rubbed them with stained fingers.
4.   The stinking trash can under my desk that I used for a spittoon.
5.   Discovering reeking spit bottles that IÂ’ve forgotten about.
6.   Spitting in my coffee cup, sometimes even before it was empty.
7.   Spit stains down the outside window and door of my truck.
8.   Trying to talk when I needed to spit.
9.   Keeping my mouth shut tight because I have no place to spit.
10.   Crap breath.
11.   Sneaking off to the store at midnight because IÂ’ve run out.
12.   Sore mouth.
13.   Dribble on my shirts.
14.   Gastro-intestinal discomfort and upset stomach.
15.   Lying to my wife and kids that I wasnÂ’t chewing.
16.   Pretending that no one can tell IÂ’m dipping.
17.   Hiding the can inside my coat or beneath my wallet.
18.   Hacking and coughing because I fell asleep with a fatty in my lip and swallowed some.
19.   Spitting down the straws of soft drinks so no one can tell IÂ’m spitting.
20.   Worrying everyday that I might have or get oral cancer.
21.   Filling the pockets of Big Tobacco.
22.   Looking for the can the first thing in the morning.
23.   Staying up late to get in that last dip for the day.
24.   Avoiding a kiss from my beautiful wife because I was dipping.
25.   Telling myself that I enjoyed all this.
...slavery.

Thanks for leading the way!
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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #72 on: March 01, 2012, 07:26:00 PM »
Quote from: Keddy
• Day 493 •

Things I don't miss about dipping . . . .

1.   Stained fingers
2.   Tobacco crud beneath my finger nails.
3.   Burning eyes after IÂ’ve rubbed them with stained fingers.
4.   The stinking trash can under my desk that I used for a spittoon.
5.   Discovering reeking spit bottles that IÂ’ve forgotten about.
6.   Spitting in my coffee cup, sometimes even before it was empty.
7.   Spit stains down the outside window and door of my truck.
8.   Trying to talk when I needed to spit.
9.   Keeping my mouth shut tight because I have no place to spit.
10.   Crap breath.
11.   Sneaking off to the store at midnight because IÂ’ve run out.
12.   Sore mouth.
13.   Dribble on my shirts.
14.   Gastro-intestinal discomfort and upset stomach.
15.   Lying to my wife and kids that I wasnÂ’t chewing.
16.   Pretending that no one can tell IÂ’m dipping.
17.   Hiding the can inside my coat or beneath my wallet.
18.   Hacking and coughing because I fell asleep with a fatty in my lip and swallowed some.
19.   Spitting down the straws of soft drinks so no one can tell IÂ’m spitting.
20.   Worrying everyday that I might have or get oral cancer.
21.   Filling the pockets of Big Tobacco.
22.   Looking for the can the first thing in the morning.
23.   Staying up late to get in that last dip for the day.
24.   Avoiding a kiss from my beautiful wife because I was dipping.
25.   Telling myself that I enjoyed all this.
...slavery.

Thanks for leading the way!

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #71 on: March 01, 2012, 05:13:00 PM »
• Day 493 •

Things I don't miss about dipping . . . .

1.   Stained fingers
2.   Tobacco crud beneath my finger nails.
3.   Burning eyes after IÂ’ve rubbed them with stained fingers.
4.   The stinking trash can under my desk that I used for a spittoon.
5.   Discovering reeking spit bottles that IÂ’ve forgotten about.
6.   Spitting in my coffee cup, sometimes even before it was empty.
7.   Spit stains down the outside window and door of my truck.
8.   Trying to talk when I needed to spit.
9.   Keeping my mouth shut tight because I have no place to spit.
10.   Crap breath.
11.   Sneaking off to the store at midnight because IÂ’ve run out.
12.   Sore mouth.
13.   Dribble on my shirts.
14.   Gastro-intestinal discomfort and upset stomach.
15.   Lying to my wife and kids that I wasnÂ’t chewing.
16.   Pretending that no one can tell IÂ’m dipping.
17.   Hiding the can inside my coat or beneath my wallet.
18.   Hacking and coughing because I fell asleep with a fatty in my lip and swallowed some.
19.   Spitting down the straws of soft drinks so no one can tell IÂ’m spitting.
20.   Worrying everyday that I might have or get oral cancer.
21.   Filling the pockets of Big Tobacco.
22.   Looking for the can the first thing in the morning.
23.   Staying up late to get in that last dip for the day.
24.   Avoiding a kiss from my beautiful wife because I was dipping.
25.   Telling myself that I enjoyed all this.

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #70 on: February 07, 2012, 02:23:00 PM »
• Day 470 •

How about a different perspective? Let's do a little "quit math."

qS α 1/dKTC


Where
qS = Quit Strenth
dKTC = Distance from KTC
α = Mathematical Symbol for Proportionality


Therefore, Quit Strength is inversely proportional to one's distance from KTC.
The farther away you are (e.g., like not posting roll everyday), the weaker you will be (i.e., the more vulnerable to the nicBitch's temptations).

It doesn't take an Einstein to understand this lesson!!

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #69 on: February 04, 2012, 07:15:00 PM »
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Quote from: Luby
Quote from: Keddy
• Day 467 •

Addict's Talk:

1.  My quit date will be tomorrow (or some other future time).
2.  Once I finish this can, I’ll start my quit.
3.  I can handle an occasional dip every now and then.
4.  You guys just don’t understand.
5.  I can quit any time I want to.
6.  I don’t need any help; I can do this on my own.
7.  I like the taste of dip.
8.  Dip helps me calm my nerves and deal with anxiety.
9.  OK, I’ll give this quitting a try.
10.  Cancer is for that unfortunate other guy; not for me.
11.  You may be an addict, but I'm not!
If you have said any of these things you are an addict, since I was a perfect 11 for 11 when I was stuffing my face, I will quit all day today. Thanks for the reminder, I always read your posts, they are very helpful.
I will quit with you today.
The sooner we acknowledge that we are addicts, the better. There's no quitting without such an acknowledgment but the freedom of getting beyond these silly excuses is incredible. Congratulations on your quit, brother. Keep strong!
I used all those quotes before! Keddy you are the MOTHER FUCKING MAN!!!!1

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #68 on: February 04, 2012, 12:34:00 PM »
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Quote from: Keddy
• Day 467 •

Addict's Talk:

1.  My quit date will be tomorrow (or some other future time).
2.  Once I finish this can, I’ll start my quit.
3.  I can handle an occasional dip every now and then.
4.  You guys just don’t understand.
5.  I can quit any time I want to.
6.  I don’t need any help; I can do this on my own.
7.  I like the taste of dip.
8.  Dip helps me calm my nerves and deal with anxiety.
9.  OK, I’ll give this quitting a try.
10.  Cancer is for that unfortunate other guy; not for me.
11.  You may be an addict, but I'm not!
If you have said any of these things you are an addict, since I was a perfect 11 for 11 when I was stuffing my face, I will quit all day today. Thanks for the reminder, I always read your posts, they are very helpful.
I will quit with you today.
The sooner we acknowledge that we are addicts, the better. There's no quitting without such an acknowledgment but the freedom of getting beyond these silly excuses is incredible. Congratulations on your quit, brother. Keep strong!

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #67 on: February 04, 2012, 11:27:00 AM »
Quote from: Keddy
• Day 467 •

Addict's Talk:

1. My quit date will be tomorrow (or some other future time).
2. Once I finish this can, IÂ’ll start my quit.
3. I can handle an occasional dip every now and then.
4. You guys just donÂ’t understand.
5. I can quit any time I want to.
6. I donÂ’t need any help; I can do this on my own.
7. I like the taste of dip.
8. Dip helps me calm my nerves and deal with anxiety.
9. OK, IÂ’ll give this quitting a try.
10. Cancer is for that unfortunate other guy; not for me.
11. You may be an addict, but I'm not!
If you have said any of these things you are an addict, since I was a perfect 11 for 11 when I was stuffing my face, I will quit all day today. Thanks for the reminder, I always read your posts, they are very helpful.
I will quit with you today.

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #66 on: February 04, 2012, 11:07:00 AM »
• Day 467 •

Addict's Talk:

1. My quit date will be tomorrow (or some other future time).
2. Once I finish this can, IÂ’ll start my quit.
3. I can handle an occasional dip every now and then.
4. You guys just donÂ’t understand.
5. I can quit any time I want to.
6. I donÂ’t need any help; I can do this on my own.
7. I like the taste of dip.
8. Dip helps me calm my nerves and deal with anxiety.
9. OK, IÂ’ll give this quitting a try.
10. Cancer is for that unfortunate other guy; not for me.
11. You may be an addict, but I'm not!

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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #65 on: February 02, 2012, 02:02:00 PM »
Gotta love it! I've been here less than 2 weeks and seen this exact thing I don't know. what. 4 maybe 5 times?
the other one that was kind of amusing were the Saturday night/ Sunday morning "I'm done" posts. I wonder how many times I quit drinking at 3:30 am? LOL
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Re: Hello! I'm Quittin' Last Tuesday
« Reply #64 on: February 02, 2012, 12:37:00 PM »
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I got a half-a-can to go on my last can and then that’s it. I’m quittin’. I know it’s gonna’ work this time ‘cause I could’ve bought a full roll last night on the way home from work but I didn’t! Don’t worry, I’m keepin’ my promise. I’m just gonna’ stretch this can a bit to make quittin’ easier; that’s all. After that it’s no more for me, no sir. I’ll be a-slidin’ into this quit one little pinch at a time.

This plan works, believe me, IÂ’ve often quit like this before. Garanteed! I hope you donÂ’t mind me spoutinÂ’ off like this but IÂ’m just so damn proud about how far IÂ’ve come! IÂ’m workinÂ’ hard but I gottaÂ’ tell ya, itÂ’s been smooth sailinÂ’ so far. No withdrawal stuff yet and IÂ’ve been at it almost a week! So take it from me. IÂ’m definitely quitting last Tuesday. You can take that to the bank.

You vets just donÂ’t understand how hard it is to stop.
You, sir, are right up there among the elite...

Swift, Twain, Wilde, Henry...

Satire is king...
Blah...Blah...Blah...You keep TALKIN....I'll keep QUITTIN

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