I've never been accused of being gentle or tolerant or whatever, so just know going into this that I understand there are other issues and I have no idea how to help there. Go see a professional if you have any issues.
That being said, Nicotine is evil. Period. You will never convince me (or, I suspect, any other quitter on this site) otherwise. I don't care if you think it is just the delivery system that's the problem or not - I've tried literally every "nicotine delivery system" I could find - cigarettes, cigars, chew, dip, snuff, lozenges, patches, gum - and they all just delayed use of some tobacco. So, if the delivery system is what kills you, and no NRT kept me off tobacco, and tobacco is what actually kills you, then it still fails. Nevermind that the nic in one cig is sufficient to kill an adult male, or that nic has been used as a pesticide, or that you came to a site who extols the virtues of quitting nicotine cold turkey.
If you disagree, please move on. I can tell from how you word your sentences that you are both intelligent and educated; you should recognize that this is not the appropriate place or forum to air your difference of opinion - our standard is EASILY discernible and you came to us. If you don't like the method, feel free to browse on.
If you are not on the Sept14 Roll tomorrow, you're a troll and therefore wasting our time. This is not an intellectual endeavor, but a visceral struggle against a VERY real addiction. Take your dump or get off the pot - here is
Your Quit Group, should you actually be serious, and
here is how to post roll, including this
short video. If you are serious, I suggest you
start here, at the welcome center. To be brutally blunt and a generally horrible person - either post your day one or kindly move along. If you are worried about your narcs, figure that out and then come back and post - either way, your next post should be a Day 1.