with 3 kids you have no choice but to quit.....just remember that if you put a dip in you are basically endorsing and encouraging you boys to use.....you are telling them that if life gets hard it is perfectly sensible to put stuff that causes cancer in your lip .....because we all know that all of our problems disappear and never come back when we put a dip in......once you get through " the suck" trust me it gets better.....for every vet on hear that says they still get craves remember that there are just as many who don't....my craves last for split seconds now.....you are in complete control of your brain and mind, not the nic bitch....with you being in complete control of every decision you make how could any reasonable father choose to put cancer shit in your lip.....you got this man it gets better and easier with each passing day