Hello Fellow Quitters,
I'm in the Feb 2014 quit group. I'm on day 9 and have posted every day through today that I will not use nicotine. Why quit now? Well, I'd had enough and just didn't want to dip anymore. I'm a female and you just don't pull out a can after dinner and put a pinch in. haha So, I've been hiding it, or trying to hide it, for almost 6 years.
I have to say that my first couple of days here I really screwed up. I posted when I was still dipping. Boy, you let me know that was just WRONG! Some posted me and kindly told me to go to the Welcome Center and follow the rules. I needed both kinds of correction to get me ready to quit.
I knew it was really time to stop, because I had a sense of calm determination come to me on Friday, Nov. 1. I've tried to quit many times, you know how it is, especially when my husband quit drinking. He said, if I can quit drinking ( and this was huge! had really been a problem) then you can stop dipping. I'd prayed so hard for him to stop drinking. He was a different person when he drank and much worse. So, I said, I'll quit. Didn't work. Before that, people saw me with a dip and I was so humiliated and ashamed. My daughter figured it out on the day we were buying her wedding dress. I didn't say a word.
So, I'm here. I'm sure there's more I could say. But, I will say, the advice to read , post everyday, and go to live chat is great.
I was told about a few women out there. I have posted (is that how you say it when you send someone a message?) Sage and she's wonderful. I've gotten some wonderful messages from lots of you so far. Thank you so much for being there. You're awesome.
hope