S4S, you have far outworn your welcome here. This is a place for quitters of nicotine. It is private only in the sense that we reserve access hereto for those of us serious about conquering our addiction to nicotine. While my wife well knows the countless hours I spend here weekly, this place is not for her. In fact, this place is not for 99+% of the people I know or interact with daily personally. While I personally know current slaves of smokeless tobacco, they would not know me here even if I invited them to join unless I myself told them my KTC screen name. Your argument in regard to privacy continues to remain invalid as I and many others here find it merely an excuse for your incessant need for attention and an excuse for your potential cave. I suggest you take your immature and illogical ranting to the likes of facebook, twitter or myspace.
As for you and/or your loved ones taking offense to matters expressed here in the form of random expressions of adult language or impersonal references of nudity, I find your argument inconsistent with your braggadocios persona. While I respect your spousesÂ’ lack of comfortableness on matters expressed here; again, this place was not meant for her. You have lost all respect from me in outing your wifeÂ’s good intentions toward your personal success then following that up by posting a scantily clad photo of her on the internet to total strangers. Your lack of chivalry and common decency has thwarted any respect you will ever have from me.
I do hope you find the freedom of nicotine addiction repressiveness you seek and apparently need. I just hope it is someplace other than here.