New member, 3rd day quit

[wmcatty]

I caved for the third time while using this website. I am done here. I am done shitting on the people who only want to help me. I wont explain what happened again and lie to everyone for a third time.

Did you ever hear the sayin "Fuck me once...shame on you?" "Fuck me twice...shame on me?" He would not be welcomed back into my quit group, as the only thing he has consistantly demonstrated is a constant desire to use tobacco while throwing aside all quit protocol. I would not be shamed by this serial caver's lame excuses, as all his caves have continued to inflict harm and he is not an asset to any quit group. Cutting out this cancer is the only way to save the limb.

Catty said this after my second cave. He later forgave me and went out of his way to give me his support and some important duties around the site, and now I go and cave a couple weeks later. I was supposed to be my new groups leader. I'm hating myself for this betrayal.

I am finished being a cancer on this community.

"I'm hating myself for this betrayal." Well son, I am not exactly in a loving mood myself. We talked in chat. We texted one another on numerous occasions since your last cave. I got you set up with Jbradley and Humbledteacher on the spreadsheet duty. You started posting in my home room. Remember how I pushed you and you finally had enough and pushed back? Remember me telling you just last week that I knew you had it in you and if I pushed you hard enough I knew you would man up and tell me enough was enough? Remember me telling you how proud I was of you for that? Remember I had you post an announcement in March 2014 for the new guys to call or text you when they were having problems? In addition to all that, did you remember to call or text me last night when you were thinking about buying that can of shit to stick in your mouth? Sadly, I had to hear about it by reading about your latest cave in here...and I never got a call or text from you.
Chanch, I was warned by several of the boys in here not to waste my time on anyone younger than 25 as "they know all there is to know about quitting". I really thought after we talked that you were going to prove them wrong. It seems they were right all along and I was wrong about you. Or am I? You screwed up again, but you are not the first 22 year old to do so. The world is not going to stop because you slipped up. I am not going to write you off because you did it again. In fact, I am willing to continue helping you by my "tough love" mentoring if you want to quit. I am not going to post this offer any where else or again, as it is a one time deal for me. If you want to take me up on it, you have my number. Together we will overcome this cave and move you along and up the ladder. You will get a bunch of shit thrown at you from alot of the naysayers in here, but you put yourself in that position so suck it up and take your punches like a man. I hope you make the right decisions for you, as your decisions about your health have not been too well thought out lately. The ball is now squarely in your court my young friend. I sincerely hope you make the right decision and decide to take control of your life. Wayne

[Derk40]

You don't get it you never changed your mindset. Don't know what to tell your post count means you were a drive by poster dropped your name on a list w some random strangers never paid attention to any of the principles of the site. Hell you were doomed to fail that's like sleeping on a chemistry book expecting all the info to soak into your head. Same applies here you get what you put in shit in shit out. You need to take a look at yourself and where you wanna be you can self flog yourself if you want that clears you in an addicts mind from accepting responsibility for your quit. If you want to leave then leave but whatever is ailing you will follow and spill over into other areas of your life. I just don't get how some come here n get it w very little support and get it and some come here and get support n drop like flies. Drop the self hatred because that's what it is to keep spinning the cylinder figure out what the root is and work on it not say you are working on it do it.

Chanch... Too bad you are not done shitting on yourself. Too bad you are not man enough to keep your word today. Too bad you are not sick of being a slave to can of poison. Too bad.

When you are ready to quit. We will be here.

[traumagnet]

You don't get it you never changed your mindset. Don't know what to tell your post count means you were a drive by poster dropped your name on a list w some random strangers never paid attention to any of the principles of the site. Hell you were doomed to fail that's like sleeping on a chemistry book expecting all the info to soak into your head. Same applies here you get what you put in shit in shit out. You need to take a look at yourself and where you wanna be you can self flog yourself if you want that clears you in an addicts mind from accepting responsibility for your quit. If you want to leave then leave but whatever is ailing you will follow and spill over into other areas of your life. I just don't get how some come here n get it w very little support and get it and some come here and get support n drop like flies. Drop the self hatred because that's what it is to keep spinning the cylinder figure out what the root is and work on it not say you are working on it do it.

[Winter Green]

I caved for the third time while using this website. I am done here. I am done shitting on the people who only want to help me. I wont explain what happened again and lie to everyone for a third time.

Did you ever hear the sayin "Fuck me once...shame on you?" "Fuck me twice...shame on me?" He would not be welcomed back into my quit group, as the only thing he has consistantly demonstrated is a constant desire to use tobacco while throwing aside all quit protocol. I would not be shamed by this serial caver's lame excuses, as all his caves have continued to inflict harm and he is not an asset to any quit group. Cutting out this cancer is the only way to save the limb.

Catty said this after my second cave. He later forgave me and went out of his way to give me his support and some important duties around the site, and now I go and cave a couple weeks later. I was supposed to be my new groups leader. I'm hating myself for this betrayal.

I am finished being a cancer on this community.

Like I said. Take your licks and get your head back in it. Let's go man. It's life or death.

[chanch]

I caved for the third time while using this website. I am done here. I am done shitting on the people who only want to help me. I wont explain what happened again and lie to everyone for a third time.

Did you ever hear the sayin "Fuck me once...shame on you?" "Fuck me twice...shame on me?" He would not be welcomed back into my quit group, as the only thing he has consistantly demonstrated is a constant desire to use tobacco while throwing aside all quit protocol. I would not be shamed by this serial caver's lame excuses, as all his caves have continued to inflict harm and he is not an asset to any quit group. Cutting out this cancer is the only way to save the limb.

Catty said this after my second cave. He later forgave me and went out of his way to give me his support and some important duties around the site, and now I go and cave a couple weeks later. I was supposed to be my new groups leader. I'm hating myself for this betrayal.

I am finished being a cancer on this community.

[wmcatty]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it.

That was a lie. Another cave, huh?

Should we bother asking you to do the right thing, search deep within yourself, to find answers to the three questions? Or should you go to "lite" (www.quitsmokeless.org) where you can get a participation ribbon for constantly trying but falling short?

I caved and had snus today. I didn't reach out to anyone because I didn't want to, all I wanted to do was have one so I did. It happened around 4 hours ago and I am paying for it now and feeling very guilty, especially since I just hit HoF 2 weeks ago. It was not worth it. What a surprise, huh..

I don't understand Chanch.

You were one of our Duck brothers, came back with Sky Divers and redeemed yourself...... now this... Post HOF, you just decide to say fuck it and start over because you "wanted" one? Evil is probably right, you may be better served where they hand out "particpation" and "good try" ribbons.

Did you ever hear the sayin "Fuck me once...shame on you?" "Fuck me twice...shame on me?" He would not be welcomed back into my quit group, as the only thing he has consistantly demonstrated is a constant desire to use tobacco while throwing aside all quit protocol. I would not be shamed by this serial caver's lame excuses, as all his caves have continued to inflict harm and he is not an asset to any quit group. Cutting out this cancer is the only way to save the limb.

[Jlud007]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it.

That was a lie. Another cave, huh?

Should we bother asking you to do the right thing, search deep within yourself, to find answers to the three questions? Or should you go to "lite" (www.quitsmokeless.org) where you can get a participation ribbon for constantly trying but falling short?

I caved and had snus today. I didn't reach out to anyone because I didn't want to, all I wanted to do was have one so I did. It happened around 4 hours ago and I am paying for it now and feeling very guilty, especially since I just hit HoF 2 weeks ago. It was not worth it. What a surprise, huh..

I don't understand Chanch.

You were one of our Duck brothers, came back with Sky Divers and redeemed yourself...... now this... Post HOF, you just decide to say fuck it and start over because you "wanted" one? Evil is probably right, you may be better served where they hand out "particpation" and "good try" ribbons.

[Evil_Won]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it.

That was a lie. Another cave, huh?

Should we bother asking you to do the right thing, search deep within yourself, to find answers to the three questions? Or should you go to "lite" (www.quitsmokeless.org) where you can get a participation ribbon for constantly trying but falling short?

[Jlud007]

Congrats Chanch! You've shown yet again that it's not about getting knocked down, but getting back up and fighting. Enjoy the day, but remember that our addiction does not give at 100 days, stick around bud!

[Pinched]

Chanch,
Congrats brother. I do fully know that I was one of the people hard on you when you caved. I am damn glad that you nutted up and stuck around. Congrats brother enjoy today and prepare for the funk that hits post HOF, it is very different and fucked up.

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[Pinched]

Sit Down, Strap In and Quit On! Keep on rolling boys the HOF Train rolls on to Toronto, Ontario to pick up our new passengerÂ…

Chanch – This 22 year old and from Toronto Ontario, started to smoke around age 13 or 14 and dip at 16, his favorite was Copenhagen Snuff and Copenhagen Longcut. He now works as a cook at a busy steakhouse and his hobbies include video games, skateboarding and live music. He sure as hell will be signing up for 200 days. I look forward to continuing to see all your names up on roll call for another 100 days+.

Those of you that might not know or remember Chanch he was once a fellow Duck Fip of ours (Jeff  Corey), then on August 3rd he caved. He came back owned up to it all 5 days later, joined the Divers and caught a huge amount of grief from everyone (myself included) he came back used the tools drank the KTC Kool-Aide and look at him now, hitting his HOF. Chanch I am damn proud of you bud. I know it wasnÂ’t easy to come back, but you did and you stayed the course. See folks this is why some of us are hard on caversÂ…because we care.

Congrats Chanch I am excited to see that you will be continuing to support your brothers, RIGHT ON!

[SirDerek]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it. This is taken from my post to join November. It explains it all.

I was missing for what would have been 12th day posting roll in October. I bought a can that day. I wasn't taking it 1 day at a time, I kept thinking I was just going to go back to it one day anyways, so when these feelings would not let up I gave in. I have no real life support from anyone, I also made the huge mistake of not grabbing peoples numbers off here.

I've learned from this fuck up. I'm gathering names and numbers right now so I have the support when I'm out doing whatever during the day. Now I know what it feels like to really fail. Not fail some half ass'd quit I tried doing years ago, or some bullshit test at school, but actually fail an entire group of people that actually gave a fuck about my success and knew exactly what I was going through.

What's your plan for the next time, and there will be a next time, when the nicBitch whispers: "you're just going to go back to it one day anyways . . . ."?

hey chanch of Canada...where to start with you youngins'.....not many youngins' have grown a pair yet...
You'll need a pair to get through life anyway...so why not grow a big pair and 'be quit' every a.m. you are blessed with waking up??
You know, a lot of people today did not wake up...
Keep taking your life for granted and it will bite you right on the ass.
You are NOT here by ACCIDENT!
Don't fucking put the poison in your mouth son! Do something Else!!
Do it for YOU and NOONE else!
Get in here, stay in here 2 hours daily until you know you have found the tools you need to "be quit" every a.m. by posting roll like a Rock Star!
Cheers Quitter.

Glad you stood up and got back in here.

And here is the challenge; as you already have a couple of numbers from some bad ass quitters to use (from chat), but add on top of that also posting with the Madmen and Madwomen of Oct12 every day.

If you choose to accept that challenge be wary as we will find you.......

[30isEnuff]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it. This is taken from my post to join November. It explains it all.

I was missing for what would have been 12th day posting roll in October. I bought a can that day. I wasn't taking it 1 day at a time, I kept thinking I was just going to go back to it one day anyways, so when these feelings would not let up I gave in. I have no real life support from anyone, I also made the huge mistake of not grabbing peoples numbers off here.

I've learned from this fuck up. I'm gathering names and numbers right now so I have the support when I'm out doing whatever during the day. Now I know what it feels like to really fail. Not fail some half ass'd quit I tried doing years ago, or some bullshit test at school, but actually fail an entire group of people that actually gave a fuck about my success and knew exactly what I was going through.

What's your plan for the next time, and there will be a next time, when the nicBitch whispers: "you're just going to go back to it one day anyways . . . ."?

hey chanch of Canada...where to start with you youngins'.....not many youngins' have grown a pair yet...
You'll need a pair to get through life anyway...so why not grow a big pair and 'be quit' every a.m. you are blessed with waking up??
You know, a lot of people today did not wake up...
Keep taking your life for granted and it will bite you right on the ass.
You are NOT here by ACCIDENT!
Don't fucking put the poison in your mouth son! Do something Else!!
Do it for YOU and NOONE else!
Get in here, stay in here 2 hours daily until you know you have found the tools you need to "be quit" every a.m. by posting roll like a Rock Star!
Cheers Quitter.

[Keddy]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it. This is taken from my post to join November. It explains it all.

I was missing for what would have been 12th day posting roll in October. I bought a can that day. I wasn't taking it 1 day at a time, I kept thinking I was just going to go back to it one day anyways, so when these feelings would not let up I gave in. I have no real life support from anyone, I also made the huge mistake of not grabbing peoples numbers off here.

I've learned from this fuck up. I'm gathering names and numbers right now so I have the support when I'm out doing whatever during the day. Now I know what it feels like to really fail. Not fail some half ass'd quit I tried doing years ago, or some bullshit test at school, but actually fail an entire group of people that actually gave a fuck about my success and knew exactly what I was going through.

What's your plan for the next time, and there will be a next time, when the nicBitch whispers: "you're just going to go back to it one day anyways . . . ."?

[chanch]

Yes I caved, but I also learned some things and I'm going to get right back into it. This is taken from my post to join November. It explains it all.

I was missing for what would have been 12th day posting roll in October. I bought a can that day. I wasn't taking it 1 day at a time, I kept thinking I was just going to go back to it one day anyways, so when these feelings would not let up I gave in. I have no real life support from anyone, I also made the huge mistake of not grabbing peoples numbers off here.

I've learned from this fuck up. I'm gathering names and numbers right now so I have the support when I'm out doing whatever during the day. Now I know what it feels like to really fail. Not fail some half ass'd quit I tried doing years ago, or some bullshit test at school, but actually fail an entire group of people that actually gave a fuck about my success and knew exactly what I was going through.