dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
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great post all around, sm.
1. stress. also see a doc. they go to school for shit like this, and i haven't stayed in a holiday inn express for a while. fair to ask the question here, but go to your doctor, who will know more... both about your history and about medicine in general.
2. thank you for your service. i'm damned proud of my servicemen and women, and i'd be happy to buy you a beer anytime you're in the western maryland area. seriously.
3. you know better, dales. you signed up here and have posted 6 times. you know the expectations, what matters here, and why we do it. if not, click on that salmon colored 'welcome' link at the top left. there's no reason not to post. none. i've driven an hour+ to get cell coverage to send a text to a brother to post roll for me. an that's nothing. folks have fucking snow-shoed out of igloos in the yukon to send texts to post roll every day during hunting trips. computer problems are lame excuses. what would your CO have said if you gave him a weak ass excuse? probably something similar to "no balls."
4. on the lighter side, use your "problem" to your advantage. want her in sexy outfits? tell her it'll help. want that extra somethin' during foreplay? tell her it'll help. want her to clean the kitchen? tell her it'll help. (and ladies, i'm all in favor of similar tactics with the hubbies...)
5. post roll. keep your promise. repeat daily.