I got a text about this guy last night, a plea to jump on his bandwagon and lend support...because he keeps caving. A 5-time serial caver to be exact. Look, in the short almost 500 days I've been here, I've seen people banned from this site for being serial cavers. They are a cancer to this site and to our quits, and here's why. If some person doesn't have the integrity to uphold there promise and be accountable, then the entire equation breaks down. In your personal life, would you let a friend of yours stab you in the back 5 times, ...would you still be their friend? Hell no.
So, there's no way in hell I'll support this guy. Sure, I want people to quit nicotine, but not at the expense of compromising the integrity of my quit or the foundation in which my quit and the quits of many at KTC are built on.
Why am I bringing this chump's intro to the top - because I want those who are new to this to understand something: this is a serious addiction your dealing with. You need to worry about 1 person, you. If others are not walking the same path as you, then too bad, keep walking. What about brotherhood? If one of those person's walking with you starts to fall behind, then step in, pick them up and keep them on the same path at all costs. If that person ultimately decides to step off the path (i.e. cave) then keep moving. That person is not worth your time and effort - they just said, F-U, nicotine is more important than our brotherhood.
