5/16/13 today i chose to quit . I am 25 m ex military and now work for security. I am divorced and just moved to a new town
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I see that you fucked up roll. Then fucked it up some more by trying to unfuck it. Outstanding! Welcome to the suck where simple things make no sense and are just to difficult at times. Remember this feeling.
Get Involved:
Read: [color=S DARK BLUE]Introductions[/color] and [color=DARK BLUE]HOF Speeches[/color]. Read the banter in other groups. Read the non-dip discussions in the [color=DARK BLUE]Wilcard[/color] section when you want to get away from thoughts of dip. By doing this you will realize that you are not alone in the feeling you are having. You will gain strength through others. And, you will get to know these people on a personal level, which adds accountability.
Send out a few PMs:
Send out a PM to someone in your group, or to someone that posted something that you related to. Offer your phone number. I bet you will get a phone number in return. Store those numbers in your phone and USE THEM in a moment of weakness. Sending a text out has prevented me from caving more than a few times. Sometimes I didn’t even need a response, just taking a few seconds to text was all it took to get me thinking straight again. Other times the response I got was, “you do NOT have permission to cave”, which I took to heart.
Every tool you need to QUIT and remain QUIT is here, for free, but you have to want it. No one can quit for you, but we can offer support whenever you need it.
Welcome Batman. It was good to talk to you in chat and its awesome to see that roll post. Congrats for kicking that evil can to the curb. Get ready and stay strong. This isn't an easy journey but it is a great one! Get you some seeds, tooth picks, gum, hard candy, fake chew or anything to keep dip out of your face. If you need anything at all just pm me. I will quit with you any day and all day!!!
Welcome batman. Quitting is the best decision you can make.
Dipping if for people that dip. WE DON'T anymore,, lets keep it that way. One day at a time man,, and you can have your life back and it is so worth it. I can't believe all the lies I believed while I was a slave.
This weekend is going to be rough,, get your survival gear ready. Seeds, candy, fake, whatever you need to keep the real stuff out. Stay on the site,, read, read and read. Get to know your adversary, . It helps to know what you will be going through, and how long it lasts. It also helps to know why,, (Which I believe is key to quitting). Glad to be quit with you. Need anything pm me. Your inbox is top right.