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Offline Kandalk

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #96 on: April 19, 2016, 01:26:00 AM »
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I AM FUCKING PISSED I JUST POSTED 1,034 DAYS IN MY QUIT. AND I FIND OUT ONE OF MY BROTHERS CAVED RIGHT AFTER HE GOT HIS COMMA. IF YOUR GOING TO TAKE THIS JOURNEY YOU CANNOT DO IT ALONE, OR JUST PURE WILL POWER. NONE OF THIS FUCKING SHIT IM A TOUGH GUY. TO GET YOUR QUIT YOU TAKE IT ONE FUCKING DAY AT A TIME, AND YOU BOND WITH THE BROTHER AND SISTERS IN YOUR QUIT GROUP. THIS IS YOUR FUCKING SUPPORT GROUP. THERE ARE NO FUCKING LONE WOLFS IN THIS SHIT. WE ARE ALL HERE BECAUSE WE HAVE A FUCKING ADDICTION TO A LIFE SUCKING BITCH, AND THE ONLY WAY HE KICK HER TO THE FUCKING CURB IS BY POSTING OUR ROLE, OUR WORD THAT WE WILL BE NIC FREE TODAY, AND THIS LIVE THE DAY, REACHING OUT TO THOSE AROUND US WHEN SHIT HITS THE FAN. I WILL BE WOMAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT I STILL STRUGGLE, I USE SEEDS, AND GUM, AS WELL AS THE FAKE SHIT WHEN IT GETS BAD. THAT DOES NOT MEAN I AM A LITTLE GIRL WHO CANT HACK IT I JUST FUCKING KNOW THIS FUCKING ADDICTION WILL NOT SINK ITS FANGS IN ME AGAIN, AND I AM GOING TO USE EVERY TOOL I HAVE TO FIGHT IT. THAT ALSO INCLUDES USING THE DIGITS OF PEOPLE IN MY QUIT GROUP WHEN IT GETS BAD.

FIND WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, SEEDS, GUM, FAKE SHIT
GET DIGITS USE THEM
POST ROLE EVERY SINGLE DAY
AND KEEP YOUR QUIT OFDAAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


IF A GIRL CAN DO ANYONE CAN, MAN UP AND KICK THAT SHIT TO THE CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Caves suck. Hurt people all around.

New quitters- read what she says to do. That's how you do it. Not easy but simple - you just get in there and earn your freedom!

Thanks for sharing Kandelk! And belated congrats on that comma!
Thanks it's been a rough road and now I'm fighting for freedom from another addiction using the same method OFDAAT. Newbies if you want freedom it's up to you to take charge. If you cave then you need to get your ass off the floor and get back in it. It's not defeat until you quit trying. This process works don't be a wimp get your ass in the game!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #95 on: April 12, 2016, 08:39:00 AM »
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I AM FUCKING PISSED I JUST POSTED 1,034 DAYS IN MY QUIT. AND I FIND OUT ONE OF MY BROTHERS CAVED RIGHT AFTER HE GOT HIS COMMA. IF YOUR GOING TO TAKE THIS JOURNEY YOU CANNOT DO IT ALONE, OR JUST PURE WILL POWER. NONE OF THIS FUCKING SHIT IM A TOUGH GUY. TO GET YOUR QUIT YOU TAKE IT ONE FUCKING DAY AT A TIME, AND YOU BOND WITH THE BROTHER AND SISTERS IN YOUR QUIT GROUP. THIS IS YOUR FUCKING SUPPORT GROUP. THERE ARE NO FUCKING LONE WOLFS IN THIS SHIT. WE ARE ALL HERE BECAUSE WE HAVE A FUCKING ADDICTION TO A LIFE SUCKING BITCH, AND THE ONLY WAY HE KICK HER TO THE FUCKING CURB IS BY POSTING OUR ROLE, OUR WORD THAT WE WILL BE NIC FREE TODAY, AND THIS LIVE THE DAY, REACHING OUT TO THOSE AROUND US WHEN SHIT HITS THE FAN. I WILL BE WOMAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT I STILL STRUGGLE, I USE SEEDS, AND GUM, AS WELL AS THE FAKE SHIT WHEN IT GETS BAD. THAT DOES NOT MEAN I AM A LITTLE GIRL WHO CANT HACK IT I JUST FUCKING KNOW THIS FUCKING ADDICTION WILL NOT SINK ITS FANGS IN ME AGAIN, AND I AM GOING TO USE EVERY TOOL I HAVE TO FIGHT IT. THAT ALSO INCLUDES USING THE DIGITS OF PEOPLE IN MY QUIT GROUP WHEN IT GETS BAD.

FIND WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, SEEDS, GUM, FAKE SHIT
GET DIGITS USE THEM
POST ROLE EVERY SINGLE DAY
AND KEEP YOUR QUIT OFDAAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


IF A GIRL CAN DO ANYONE CAN, MAN UP AND KICK THAT SHIT TO THE CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Caves suck. Hurt people all around.

New quitters- read what she says to do. That's how you do it. Not easy but simple - you just get in there and earn your freedom!

Thanks for sharing Kandelk! And belated congrats on that comma!
This info helped me early on, and still does today: https://whyquit.com/whyquit/linksaaddiction.html

Quitters I’ve met so far: Ihatecope, >Pinched<, T-Cell, grizzlyhasclaws, Canvasback, BaseballPlayer, Cbird65, ERDVM, BradleyGuy, Ted, Zeno, AppleJack, Bronc, Knockout, MookieBlaylock, Rdad, 2mch2lv4, MN_Ben, Natro, Lippizaner, Amquash, ChristopherJ, GDubya, SRohde  -- always eager to meet more!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #94 on: April 10, 2016, 04:29:00 AM »
I AM FUCKING PISSED I JUST POSTED 1,034 DAYS IN MY QUIT. AND I FIND OUT ONE OF MY BROTHERS CAVED RIGHT AFTER HE GOT HIS COMMA. IF YOUR GOING TO TAKE THIS JOURNEY YOU CANNOT DO IT ALONE, OR JUST PURE WILL POWER. NONE OF THIS FUCKING SHIT IM A TOUGH GUY. TO GET YOUR QUIT YOU TAKE IT ONE FUCKING DAY AT A TIME, AND YOU BOND WITH THE BROTHER AND SISTERS IN YOUR QUIT GROUP. THIS IS YOUR FUCKING SUPPORT GROUP. THERE ARE NO FUCKING LONE WOLFS IN THIS SHIT. WE ARE ALL HERE BECAUSE WE HAVE A FUCKING ADDICTION TO A LIFE SUCKING BITCH, AND THE ONLY WAY HE KICK HER TO THE FUCKING CURB IS BY POSTING OUR ROLE, OUR WORD THAT WE WILL BE NIC FREE TODAY, AND THIS LIVE THE DAY, REACHING OUT TO THOSE AROUND US WHEN SHIT HITS THE FAN. I WILL BE WOMAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT I STILL STRUGGLE, I USE SEEDS, AND GUM, AS WELL AS THE FAKE SHIT WHEN IT GETS BAD. THAT DOES NOT MEAN I AM A LITTLE GIRL WHO CANT HACK IT I JUST FUCKING KNOW THIS FUCKING ADDICTION WILL NOT SINK ITS FANGS IN ME AGAIN, AND I AM GOING TO USE EVERY TOOL I HAVE TO FIGHT IT. THAT ALSO INCLUDES USING THE DIGITS OF PEOPLE IN MY QUIT GROUP WHEN IT GETS BAD.

FIND WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, SEEDS, GUM, FAKE SHIT
GET DIGITS USE THEM
POST ROLE EVERY SINGLE DAY
AND KEEP YOUR QUIT OFDAAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


IF A GIRL CAN DO ANYONE CAN, MAN UP AND KICK THAT SHIT TO THE CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #93 on: February 01, 2015, 08:21:00 AM »
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drum roll please coming on to the 6th floor ME.

How did I do it ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Was the hell of the first 100 worth it OH HELL YAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF A GIRL CAN DO ANYONE CAN, MAN UP AND KICK THAT SHIT TO THE CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

6thfloor kudos sister! Well done!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #92 on: February 01, 2015, 01:36:00 AM »
drum roll please coming on to the 6th floor ME.

How did I do it ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Was the hell of the first 100 worth it OH HELL YAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF A GIRL CAN DO ANYONE CAN, MAN UP AND KICK THAT SHIT TO THE CURB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #91 on: January 29, 2015, 11:22:00 AM »
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Been a while since I have updated this. In 3 day I will hit 600 days quit. How did I do it 1 fucking day at a time, and by posting with my brothers. This was one habit I never though I had a chance to beat, but guess what one day at a time, and learning to enjoy the freedom that has come to me. Also without having to worry about this bitch I have been able to get back into school going for my teaching degree. I have now made honor roll and deans list because I can now concentrate on my studies instead of focusing on my next dip. My life has gotten so much better, including my asthma being under the best control since getting that poison out of my system. So to you newbies wondering if it is worth going through the hell of the fist 100 day take it from someone who has been there it is worth it, and you will love the freedom that comes from kicking that shit to the curb.
Awesome truth right there Kandice! Proud to be quit with you EDD, and let me tell you the 6th floor is nice! Peace of mind, improved health, and the confidence that comes from being quit are just some of the benefits. So glad your life is on an upswing!

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #90 on: January 29, 2015, 02:12:00 AM »
Been a while since I have updated this. In 3 day I will hit 600 days quit. How did I do it 1 fucking day at a time, and by posting with my brothers. This was one habit I never though I had a chance to beat, but guess what one day at a time, and learning to enjoy the freedom that has come to me. Also without having to worry about this bitch I have been able to get back into school going for my teaching degree. I have now made honor roll and deans list because I can now concentrate on my studies instead of focusing on my next dip. My life has gotten so much better, including my asthma being under the best control since getting that poison out of my system. So to you newbies wondering if it is worth going through the hell of the fist 100 day take it from someone who has been there it is worth it, and you will love the freedom that comes from kicking that shit to the curb.

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #89 on: October 23, 2014, 03:04:00 PM »
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Hey Kandice, nice half comma! Keep bringing the quit EDD sister! Enjoy your freedom.
Outstanding! Halfies rock...
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #88 on: October 23, 2014, 02:08:00 PM »
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Hey Kandice, nice half comma! Keep bringing the quit EDD sister! Enjoy your freedom.
Outstanding! Halfies rock...
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #87 on: October 23, 2014, 01:57:00 PM »
Hey Kandice, nice half comma! Keep bringing the quit EDD sister! Enjoy your freedom.

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Re: Newbie
« Reply #86 on: June 11, 2014, 12:08:00 PM »
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A year 365 day without that shit in my mouth or lungs! WTF if I a girl (one badass girl of I do say so) can make it to a year QUIT then you newbies have no fucking excuses lay them at the door and get on board or get the hell out and come back when you are ready to kick that free loader out of your life! It is done one Fucking day at a time and this is my support system to keep walking forward! My bros and siss are awesome! Could not have done this without ya alls! 'ODT'
Well done! Proud to be quit with you EDD!
Congrats young "lady"! Well done "sister". Quit looks really good on you btw.
Nicely done!!
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #85 on: June 11, 2014, 09:21:00 AM »
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A year 365 day without that shit in my mouth or lungs! WTF if I a girl (one badass girl of I do say so) can make it to a year QUIT then you newbies have no fucking excuses lay them at the door and get on board or get the hell out and come back when you are ready to kick that free loader out of your life! It is done one Fucking day at a time and this is my support system to keep walking forward! My bros and siss are awesome! Could not have done this without ya alls! 'ODT'
Well done! Proud to be quit with you EDD!
Congrats young "lady"! Well done "sister". Quit looks really good on you btw.
Nicely done!!
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #84 on: June 11, 2014, 06:14:00 AM »
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A year 365 day without that shit in my mouth or lungs! WTF if I a girl (one badass girl of I do say so) can make it to a year QUIT then you newbies have no fucking excuses lay them at the door and get on board or get the hell out and come back when you are ready to kick that free loader out of your life! It is done one Fucking day at a time and this is my support system to keep walking forward! My bros and siss are awesome! Could not have done this without ya alls! 'ODT'
Well done! Proud to be quit with you EDD!
Congrats young "lady"! Well done "sister". Quit looks really good on you btw.
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #83 on: June 11, 2014, 06:05:00 AM »
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A year 365 day without that shit in my mouth or lungs! WTF if I a girl (one badass girl of I do say so) can make it to a year QUIT then you newbies have no fucking excuses lay them at the door and get on board or get the hell out and come back when you are ready to kick that free loader out of your life! It is done one Fucking day at a time and this is my support system to keep walking forward! My bros and siss are awesome! Could not have done this without ya alls! 'ODT'
Well done! Proud to be quit with you EDD!
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Re: Newbie
« Reply #82 on: June 11, 2014, 02:19:00 AM »
A year 365 day without that shit in my mouth or lungs! WTF if I a girl (one badass girl of I do say so) can make it to a year QUIT then you newbies have no fucking excuses lay them at the door and get on board or get the hell out and come back when you are ready to kick that free loader out of your life! It is done one Fucking day at a time and this is my support system to keep walking forward! My bros and siss are awesome! Could not have done this without ya alls! 'ODT'