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Offline RAZD611

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Re: Im done
« Reply #36 on: August 09, 2011, 10:32:00 AM »
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thank you for all of the help guys. It was a tough day but i made it.
Good work. See you in the morning.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #35 on: August 09, 2011, 02:31:00 AM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
Lets see, I had my Grandmother pass away. Shortly after my favorite aunt passed away. All the while I have had sever marriage problems.

The thing to do is deal with problems the most people do. Mourn with your family, mourn by yourself, but don't use some nasty weed to make you feel better about yourself.

I can promise you that killing yourself with tobacco is not what will make a family death easier to handle. I will say that at each one of the funerals I had several cravings but I reminded myself that I quit to escape being in the casket myself.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #34 on: August 09, 2011, 02:05:00 AM »
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thank you for all of the help guys. It was a tough day but i made it.
Good work. See you in the morning.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #33 on: August 09, 2011, 01:25:00 AM »
thank you for all of the help guys. It was a tough day but i made it.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #32 on: August 08, 2011, 11:26:00 PM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
Duck: Adversities is the biggest crutch that the nic bitch is going to be throwing at you. Beware!!!! Stay strong! Proud to be quit with you. Nicofiend
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Re: Im done
« Reply #31 on: August 08, 2011, 03:41:00 PM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
The idea that chew can help is a lie. You can give nicotine dominance over you, and deal with all the stressers as a slave, or you can face these hard times as your own master.

You're stronger than you think.
Dip will not save your grandmother. It may bring a temporary reprieve before piling on more pain.

Live your life the best you can. Your grandmother would expect nothing less.
You need to learn to accept the fact that everyday will not be roses and sunshine!

Some days just suck. That is life. Dip has no effect on the outcome.

Learn to see each day for what it is and nothing more.

My grandmother passed away in February. She was in the hospital off and on for three months leading up to it. I knew what was happening. Not if but when. Not once during this time did I think having even just one would help me feel better or change the outcome. It won't for you either.

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Re: Im done
« Reply #30 on: August 08, 2011, 03:20:00 PM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
It has to start somewhere. There will always be excuses to dip whether it be tragedy (prayers to you and yours BTW), excitement, milestones (graduations, weddings, etc). There won't be a time in your quit where you have peace for an entire week, hell maybe not even an entire day. So you have to press on. I understand what you are going through is emotional and you're probably thinking "great, as soon as I decide to quit, this happens" but something will always happen.

The best way to look at it is the next time something stressful comes along you'll know you can get through it without nicotine, then the next one, then the next one. Before you know it dip is an afterthought and you can't remember what it's like to take a dip when you're stressed (a goal of mine).
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Re: Im done
« Reply #29 on: August 08, 2011, 03:14:00 PM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
The idea that chew can help is a lie. You can give nicotine dominance over you, and deal with all the stressers as a slave, or you can face these hard times as your own master.

You're stronger than you think.
Dip will not save your grandmother. It may bring a temporary reprieve before piling on more pain.

Live your life the best you can. Your grandmother would expect nothing less.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #28 on: August 08, 2011, 03:05:00 PM »
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How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
The idea that chew can help is a lie. You can give nicotine dominance over you, and deal with all the stressers as a slave, or you can face these hard times as your own master.

You're stronger than you think.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #27 on: August 08, 2011, 02:21:00 PM »
How do you guys do it when you have a life changing event come along? My grandmother went in to the hospital last night and is on her last leg. What the hell do i do
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Re: Im done
« Reply #26 on: August 07, 2011, 10:52:00 PM »
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why is is it so hard to not beat the hell out of some dumbass that wants to run off at the mouth for no reason
Got some rage bro? Deep slow breaths. Don't take a dump on your boss' desk or anything. And don't take it out on your family. Get that frustration out some how. You getting exercise? Some cardio and strength training?
it was just a bad night. i went for a long run this morning and it helped alot
Hang in there man. You're doing it. You have done it. You want to yell at folks get in here and yell at us. We'll get through this.
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Re: Im done
« Reply #25 on: August 07, 2011, 10:49:00 PM »
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why is is it so hard to not beat the hell out of some dumbass that wants to run off at the mouth for no reason
Got some rage bro? Deep slow breaths. Don't take a dump on your boss' desk or anything. And don't take it out on your family. Get that frustration out some how. You getting exercise? Some cardio and strength training?
it was just a bad night. i went for a long run this morning and it helped alot
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Re: Im done
« Reply #24 on: August 07, 2011, 10:41:00 PM »
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why is is it so hard to not beat the hell out of some dumbass that wants to run off at the mouth for no reason
Got some rage bro? Deep slow breaths. Don't take a dump on your boss' desk or anything. And don't take it out on your family. Get that frustration out some how. You getting exercise? Some cardio and strength training?
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Re: Im done
« Reply #23 on: August 07, 2011, 02:22:00 AM »
why is is it so hard to not beat the hell out of some dumbass that wants to run off at the mouth for no reason
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Re: Im done
« Reply #22 on: August 06, 2011, 12:00:00 PM »
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When will the insomnia end. Id sure in the hell like to get a full night sleep
I had insomnia for about 3 weeks. 1st 3 days really suck. 1st 3 weeks suck.
Normal.....try some melatonin or Tylenol pm. Either way, soon you will be sleeping more than ever. Quitting really is quite exhausting.
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