Day 3

[duathman]

I thought about all this......
Although I am not a fan of negative reinforcement and the WAY some of you push accountability I am here to stay and will post roll every day.
With that said.....I have one number in my phone so could a few of you PM me your number please. I will need a few numbers to have those individuals post roll for me coming up. I will be traveling around Europe for work for two weeks.
I hope everyone had a great weekend. Take care and God Bless our quit and quiters.

As a slutember member you have access to the contact list. Print it out. Use it if needed.

[GRIM]

I thought about all this......
Although I am not a fan of negative reinforcement and the WAY some of you push accountability I am here to stay and will post roll every day.
With that said.....I have one number in my phone so could a few of you PM me your number please. I will need a few numbers to have those individuals post roll for me coming up. I will be traveling around Europe for work for two weeks.
I hope everyone had a great weekend. Take care and God Bless our quit and quiters.

[duathman]

So GRIM... With all that was said below where do u stand?
No one wants u to leave.  But no one wants to hear about your 12 hr days and how you did not want to choose posting roll over your kids.  That is weak and ridiculous.  We all work hard and many of us have kids.  We all find time to post roll.  How long does it really take to make that commitment for each day?  2 minutes tops maybe. Also, no one wants to hear that you have posted roll 95% of the time. You record of Roll is clear and it has been well documented.  We can all see who has posted roll and we have a link on the September site that shows your record in an spreadsheet.   We all know where it is and if there is an error you could have addressed it before now.  Lastly, if u don't get the fact that you are going to hear the cold, hard truth here... Then you have not been paying attention to this at all.
So, where are you with ur commitment to this process?   If u r back and ready to post roll daily and commit to this then I will support you 100%.

Derk-

Grim posted roll first thing today. We dont need this to turn into another ET thread so let Grim's roll posting do the talking.

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Hmmmm. With all due respect... now according to Ricky Bobby I can say whatever I want. Ok, where do I begin. First off, noone wanted the ET thing to happen -- except ET. He made that bed, came out from under it at the end, but then disappeared. That was a mess. Who wants to see that again, not me for sure. For this issue, now I concede that GRIM posted roll  I support that. In fact, that was the most important thing he did all day and that was the first thing I did this morning. However, he then proceeded to make a post on his intro AFTER he posted roll and that post should be addressed in my opinion. I brought up the issues in a positive way and asked where he is with it... no name calling, just laying out the case. If I am the only one that cares, then so be it. I am quit today regardless!

Go back and read what he posted. " Hey guys still hanging on and nic free. Ya no how hard it is out there. The pearl jam show rocked balls and dint cave. Too busy sucking wang. Well wanted to give a big high fiver to my bras in septmeber. u got this. oh well not guna post today. hydeho." Thats my Boy Grim. You got this!!!

[Derk40]

So GRIM... With all that was said below where do u stand?
No one wants u to leave.  But no one wants to hear about your 12 hr days and how you did not want to choose posting roll over your kids.  That is weak and ridiculous.  We all work hard and many of us have kids.  We all find time to post roll.  How long does it really take to make that commitment for each day?  2 minutes tops maybe. Also, no one wants to hear that you have posted roll 95% of the time. You record of Roll is clear and it has been well documented.  We can all see who has posted roll and we have a link on the September site that shows your record in an spreadsheet.   We all know where it is and if there is an error you could have addressed it before now.  Lastly, if u don't get the fact that you are going to hear the cold, hard truth here... Then you have not been paying attention to this at all.
So, where are you with ur commitment to this process?   If u r back and ready to post roll daily and commit to this then I will support you 100%.

Derk-

Grim posted roll first thing today. We dont need this to turn into another ET thread so let Grim's roll posting do the talking.

a
Hmmmm. With all due respect... now according to Ricky Bobby I can say whatever I want. Ok, where do I begin. First off, noone wanted the ET thing to happen -- except ET. He made that bed, came out from under it at the end, but then disappeared. That was a mess. Who wants to see that again, not me for sure. For this issue, now I concede that GRIM posted roll  I support that. In fact, that was the most important thing he did all day and that was the first thing I did this morning. However, he then proceeded to make a post on his intro AFTER he posted roll and that post should be addressed in my opinion. I brought up the issues in a positive way and asked where he is with it... no name calling, just laying out the case. If I am the only one that cares, then so be it. I am quit today regardless!

[Dougie]

So GRIM... With all that was said below where do u stand?
No one wants u to leave. But no one wants to hear about your 12 hr days and how you did not want to choose posting roll over your kids. That is weak and ridiculous. We all work hard and many of us have kids. We all find time to post roll. How long does it really take to make that commitment for each day? 2 minutes tops maybe. Also, no one wants to hear that you have posted roll 95% of the time. You record of Roll is clear and it has been well documented. We can all see who has posted roll and we have a link on the September site that shows your record in an spreadsheet. We all know where it is and if there is an error you could have addressed it before now. Lastly, if u don't get the fact that you are going to hear the cold, hard truth here... Then you have not been paying attention to this at all.
So, where are you with ur commitment to this process? If u r back and ready to post roll daily and commit to this then I will support you 100%.

Derk-

Grim posted roll first thing today. We dont need this to turn into another ET thread so let Grim's roll posting do the talking.

[Derk40]

So GRIM... With all that was said below where do u stand?
No one wants u to leave. But no one wants to hear about your 12 hr days and how you did not want to choose posting roll over your kids. That is weak and ridiculous. We all work hard and many of us have kids. We all find time to post roll. How long does it really take to make that commitment for each day? 2 minutes tops maybe. Also, no one wants to hear that you have posted roll 95% of the time. You record of Roll is clear and it has been well documented. We can all see who has posted roll and we have a link on the September site that shows your record in an spreadsheet. We all know where it is and if there is an error you could have addressed it before now. Lastly, if u don't get the fact that you are going to hear the cold, hard truth here... Then you have not been paying attention to this at all.
So, where are you with ur commitment to this process? If u r back and ready to post roll daily and commit to this then I will support you 100%.

[Jlud007]

I may be pretty young in the quit and certainly took me awhile to really understand, your addict mind will try and deceive you by letting you believe that your way is working.

Why do these guys get so wound up and combative? I don't personally get it, wake up and post roll with your group.  Isn't that the basic price of admission?

jlud007 - You are doing great and you have it figured out early on. One question I ask is, what will happen if you miss roll tomorrow? Will no one care, get 1-2 pms, I dont know what level of accountability you have built up early on in your quit. I bet its growing though. In our struggle we have to surround ourselves with this best support group around. It starts at home and KTC is right there as well. If I miss roll tomorrow morning, by 12PM Saturday July 27, 2013 Sprint will have to shut down there servers as too many people are ringing my phone, texting whatever you get the point. With Grim we see a person not committed to how it is done at KTC. This is obvious to everybody except Grim. We are frustrated with this thread because we see failure in it. Glad to be quit with you today. Send me your digits and add to your level of accountability.

I will Duathman! Please don't confuse what I meant in my post though, I meant I didn't understand why the guys that miss roll get upset when guys call them out on it, not vice versa.

Getting upset because you were called out for not posting roll should be a wake up call, a red flag....not an excuse to whine how you should go quit somewhere else. That's your addiction twisting your ego, which will lead you back to the can sooner or later.

Quit on quitters!

[duathman]

I may be pretty young in the quit and certainly took me awhile to really understand, your addict mind will try and deceive you by letting you believe that your way is working.

Why do these guys get so wound up and combative? I don't personally get it, wake up and post roll with your group. Isn't that the basic price of admission?

jlud007 - You are doing great and you have it figured out early on. One question I ask is, what will happen if you miss roll tomorrow? Will no one care, get 1-2 pms, I dont know what level of accountability you have built up early on in your quit. I bet its growing though. In our struggle we have to surround ourselves with this best support group around. It starts at home and KTC is right there as well. If I miss roll tomorrow morning, by 12PM Saturday July 27, 2013 Sprint will have to shut down there servers as too many people are ringing my phone, texting whatever you get the point. With Grim we see a person not committed to how it is done at KTC. This is obvious to everybody except Grim. We are frustrated with this thread because we see failure in it. Glad to be quit with you today. Send me your digits and add to your level of accountability.

[Jlud007]

I may be pretty young in the quit and certainly took me awhile to really understand, your addict mind will try and deceive you by letting you believe that your way is working.

Why do these guys get so wound up and combative? I don't personally get it, wake up and post roll with your group. Isn't that the basic price of admission?

[Dougie]

Good job posting roll today. You did not post yesterday- I did a search and your name did not show up.

This is how we do it, don't get a sore vagina from people giving you shit just man up and post roll every-damn-day.

Glad to be quit with you today.

[Diesel2112]

What I just read was a bunch of quitters reaching out to you grim. I don't know much about you. I know plenty about trauma. Great guy and a hell of a quitter. He took a lot of time out of his busy schedule to check up on you...

Then you came on here and broadcasted that you haven't posted like you should, but your still quit and everything is going ok.

We don't like someone to come on here and say that they are doing it different and it works, because WE KNOW,,, it spells failure.

What did trauma and Diesel mean. I'm pretty sure you can figure it out.

Really,, what did you expect anyways. Great job Grim! Your not following the ways that we teach and are still quit. That's great!! Your not posting regularly and the rest of you group is, but that's ok. They are happy that you are not standing side by side with them everyday and posting up with them. YEA,,, DOUCHE COMES TO MIND!!!! Trauma knows one when he sees one.

Hims real busy. The only person on the site with a super hectic schedule.

I'm glad your still quit but the "I've been too busy" card is bs.

Quit on.

[srans]

What I just read was a bunch of quitters reaching out to you grim. I don't know much about you. I know plenty about trauma. Great guy and a hell of a quitter. He took a lot of time out of his busy schedule to check up on you...

Then you came on here and broadcasted that you haven't posted like you should, but your still quit and everything is going ok.

We don't like someone to come on here and say that they are doing it different and it works, because WE KNOW,,, it spells failure.

What did trauma and Diesel mean. I'm pretty sure you can figure it out.

Really,, what did you expect anyways. Great job Grim! Your not following the ways that we teach and are still quit. That's great!! Your not posting regularly and the rest of you group is, but that's ok. They are happy that you are not standing side by side with them everyday and posting up with them. YEA,,, DOUCHE COMES TO MIND!!!! Trauma knows one when he sees one.

[traumagnet]

1) Yes, I did mean withOUT a dip.

2) I posted roll today and 95% of the days of my quit. So if I am a douche because I missed 5% because I put my 3 year old son before this site for a week then I will go somewhere else. Not to mention I got a promotion at work and have been putting in 12 hours a day. I haven't even had time to take a shit this week.

3) The purpose of my post was not just to tell everyone that I am still quit. I just wanted to let my September brothers know I am still with them.

4) As far as paying it forward. I have done a lot of that. I PM newbies, I support others.

Traumagnet - I pay it forward. How do you know who I do and don't PM?
Diesel - What is your smartass comment suppose to mean.
Dauthman - Whatever,.....

I get the holding one another accountable, but there are a lot better ways than calling a fellow quiter a douche and making several rude comments. The success of my quit has based around positive reinforcement and you guys are making this site the opposite. Do I need to go somewhere else????

Your roll sheet says otherwise I see 68% long way from 95% you say you have. If you sheet is off then you need to clear that up. Your post yesterday looked not supportive at all looked like a person showing up to say how there way is working. You don't need to leave no one said leave they said post roll and help with others. As far as yesterday I didn't see your name u may have been bumped. Accountability is another portion of the site we are tough because the addicts in us all can smell an opening the smallest of wiggle room. I need and want it if you don't want us on you just say it.

[GRIM]

1) Yes, I did mean withOUT a dip.

2) I posted roll today and 95% of the days of my quit. So if I am a douche because I missed 5% because I put my 3 year old son before this site for a week then I will go somewhere else. Not to mention I got a promotion at work and have been putting in 12 hours a day. I haven't even had time to take a shit this week.

3) The purpose of my post was not just to tell everyone that I am still quit. I just wanted to let my September brothers know I am still with them.

4) As far as paying it forward. I have done a lot of that. I PM newbies, I support others.

Traumagnet - I pay it forward. How do you know who I do and don't PM?
Diesel - What is your smartass comment suppose to mean.
Dauthman - Whatever,.....

I get the holding one another accountable, but there are a lot better ways than calling a fellow quiter a douche and making several rude comments. The success of my quit has based around positive reinforcement and you guys are making this site the opposite. Do I need to go somewhere else????

[Diesel2112]

Water + Vinegar = Grim

Or a douche

You're like a genious or something?