Frank, I'm glad you're here. But you're swerving all over road getting here. But, let me start to set you straight. Learn how and why we post roll. Then do it. Then read everything else on this site. Then re-read everything else on this site. Keep doing that until you realize that you HATE dipping, and that luck has nothing to do with quitting.
Dipping is relaxing is BULLSHIT. Nicotine withdrawals cause nervous anxiety. You just keep answering the call. In short, you're a slave. It's okay...we all were.
That shit about your dad making it harder to quit if user rationalization BULLSHIT. If you're good and goddam serious about quitting, you would rather cut your fingers off than use them to put your daddy's snuff in your mouth. GET ANGRY. You can't win by glamorizing your own stupid suicide.
Your dad may not make this journey with you. Nobody can do this for you...or him. You have to want it more than a drowning man wants air. YOU HAVE TO GET SERIOUS. If you think you're up for the fight, then come on. You can do this...and it won't be because you lucked into anything. Hope and luck are bullshit. You've got to decide that you won't put that shit in your face come Hell or high water. And then YOU have to keep your word. We're here to support. But this fight is about YOU.
The good news is that you can do it. Check out the Quit Groups. All those bad ass quitters have been right where you are right now and are living free ONE DAY AT A TIME. Join us.
