Quit on Monday

[kstampfly]

62 active quits for Oct12 as the new Pre-HOF Nov12 rolls into view.

28 lost quits as lack of honor, integrity, commitment, and intelligence still remain pinned in our view.

How we as a group hold true to our word will go a long way in deciding the overall success of our group. I, for one, will be vigilant in the fight and determined to be accountable to my quit brethren each and every day of this journey.

Proud to be quit you all and keep on QLAFM!

Hey brother I'm right here with you in the trenches. No matter how shitty it gets we will prevail. Quittin' like a mother fucker!!!

[eric71]

62 active quits for Oct12 as the new Pre-HOF Nov12 rolls into view.

28 lost quits as lack of honor, integrity, commitment, and intelligence still remain pinned in our view.

How we as a group hold true to our word will go a long way in deciding the overall success of our group. I, for one, will be vigilant in the fight and determined to be accountable to my quit brethren each and every day of this journey.

Proud to be quit you all and keep on QLAFM!

[Ready]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

/\ /\ /\ This guy gets it. Quit Like Fuck with you bro!

Eric71... you are well prepared and you have to be! You have to think way ahead to avoid situations!!
Keep up the Quit!!!! QLF!!!!

that's it Eric - knew you were one for the strength of October.

Way to go and congradulate your self for thinking through this.

Yours in Quit Brotherhood man.

Honor, Integrity, courage, wisdom, strength, pride.

Get some.

Take your life back, one day at a time.

Never again, for any reason.

[SirDerek]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

/\ /\ /\ This guy gets it. Quit Like Fuck with you bro!

Eric71... you are well prepared and you have to be! You have to think way ahead to avoid situations!!
Keep up the Quit!!!! QLF!!!!

that's it Eric - knew you were one for the strength of October.

Way to go and congradulate your self for thinking through this.

Yours in Quit Brotherhood man.

[Swede]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

/\ /\ /\ This guy gets it. Quit Like Fuck with you bro!

Eric71... you are well prepared and you have to be! You have to think way ahead to avoid situations!!
Keep up the Quit!!!! QLF!!!!

[Wt57]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

/\ /\ /\ This guy gets it. Quit Like Fuck with you bro!

Agreed Eric your quit rocks! I'm proud to be quit with the likes of you!!!

[Coach Steve]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

/\ /\ /\ This guy gets it. Quit Like Fuck with you bro!

[eric71]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen.  Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies.  Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall.  This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

Day 28 and I managed to survive a wedding reception with some old buddies from the steel mill on Friday (drinking, shooting the shit about the past were serious past triggers), then bachelor party on Saturday (more drinking, golf, and idiots who cannot handle their alcohol).

Reflection Point: Had I not planned and prepared ahead of time, this would have been exponentially difficult to conquer. I knew going into each situation what I would be presented with throughout the event. I knew there would be smoking both days (moved outside and/or away from) and suspected there would be some chewing going on Saturday (wife's nephew getting married, bunch of dipshit, testosterone laden, college idiots who know everything already) at the party or on the course.

Keep in mind, this is not a pat yourself on the back moment. I am listing this so that others can see the validity in making and sticking to plans for the weekends. I knew I could find myself in a situation where will power alone may not be enough.

So, what did I do:
1. Made sure my phone was on me and charged at all times.
2. Always had a can of hooch in my pocket, just so I didn't have to say no to someone else's offer.
3. Posted roll first thing each morning and had the site pinned to the start menu on the laptop.
4. Made sure those closest to me, kept me in check by telling them I quit and wanted to stay quit regardless of the occasion.
5. Lots of prayer leading into the weekend. Prayers for strength, guidance, wisdom, fortitude. When you can't lean on someone, lean back and look up for strength.

Hopefully this helps some of the newbies in Oct12 with the weekends coming up. Summer is most definitely a time for parties and such, just prepare for those events like your life depends on it,


BECAUSE IT ABSOLUTELY DOES, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

QLAFM!

[eric71]

Thank God the drama has subsided and a new call has risen. Bad Ass props to you vets who came up with the United Way type shit for us newbies. Sign me up and expect Oct 12 to pay it forward after we hit the hall. This is the kind of support that can never be undervalued or over-appreciated.

Thanks again, day 16 and I still QLF!

See y'all at roll in the AM

[Big Swede]

"We also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us" (Romans 5:3–5, NKJV).

Have a good Sunday all.

Peace

Thank you for that Eric - I dog-eared my nightstand Bible to Romans 5 for quick reference.

I needed that . . . Have a great Sunday

[eric71]

"We also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us" (Romans 5:3–5, NKJV).

Have a good Sunday all.

Peace

[Mthomas3824]

Or fucking kill somebody.  First three days left me feeling hazy and unable to control thought and balance.  Last night and thus far today, I am sweating like a stuck pig over an open flame and feel as though my test levels are what they were when I was 18.  I either wanna fuck someone or fuck someone up.

Tell me this shit eases off here a little

Day 19 here.. it gets better! I still have moments.. I really believe that is a nic-demon coming out of our asses! I was horrible! I don't know though... may be truth serum? We say shit we normally wouldn't say! Like there was no filter on my mouth! Hang in Pal... Gooch

dude - totally normal....it eases off....but ups and down.....my biggest rage was at about Day 50 or so.......but I am always up for a good street fight :-)

Fuck day 5, fuck day 6, fuck day 7, tomorrow I'll say fuck day 8 and so on. I said I felt like I wanted to fight or fuck, well, as I stand on the Nic Bitch's throat, I'm stickin' it in her ass!

Feeling a rush of freedom I haven't felt in years. Man, it sure is good to be through the quickening. I am embracing the suck and want all my fellow October brothers to do the same. Let's hear how you're feeling...good...bad...cranky...just get it out here and we WILL walk this road together.

Peace,
Eric71

You will never regret quitting. Stay the course. Well done so far.

I like the rage! The nic bitch isn't as strong when you hate her. Don't lift your foot.

You are at war. You only go to war to win. Never let up, never surrender and always be on your guard. Fight and kill your triggers and craves for nicotine. It is a battle but it is worth the fight for freedom.

It is yours to take. Kill her everyday and be free.

The best quitters are angry and hate the whole tobacco industry. Those pricks are profiting with politicians in their pockets and look the other way when the product they get children addicted to kills 3 million a year. Best organized terrorist group.

They fly under the radar and keep recruiting and killing. Yes they are well funded evil, worthless pricks.

Glad to see you're quit and angry with your former captor. Never kiss and make up. Kill or be killed. That is where you are now. Keep swinging my friend.

[Scowick65]

Or fucking kill somebody.  First three days left me feeling hazy and unable to control thought and balance.  Last night and thus far today, I am sweating like a stuck pig over an open flame and feel as though my test levels are what they were when I was 18.  I either wanna fuck someone or fuck someone up.

Tell me this shit eases off here a little

Day 19 here.. it gets better! I still have moments.. I really believe that is a nic-demon coming out of our asses! I was horrible! I don't know though... may be truth serum? We say shit we normally wouldn't say! Like there was no filter on my mouth! Hang in Pal... Gooch

dude - totally normal....it eases off....but ups and down.....my biggest rage was at about Day 50 or so.......but I am always up for a good street fight :-)

Fuck day 5, fuck day 6, fuck day 7, tomorrow I'll say fuck day 8 and so on. I said I felt like I wanted to fight or fuck, well, as I stand on the Nic Bitch's throat, I'm stickin' it in her ass!

Feeling a rush of freedom I haven't felt in years. Man, it sure is good to be through the quickening. I am embracing the suck and want all my fellow October brothers to do the same. Let's hear how you're feeling...good...bad...cranky...just get it out here and we WILL walk this road together.

Peace,
Eric71

You will never regret quitting. Stay the course. Well done so far.

[eric71]

Or fucking kill somebody.  First three days left me feeling hazy and unable to control thought and balance.  Last night and thus far today, I am sweating like a stuck pig over an open flame and feel as though my test levels are what they were when I was 18.  I either wanna fuck someone or fuck someone up.

Tell me this shit eases off here a little

Day 19 here.. it gets better! I still have moments.. I really believe that is a nic-demon coming out of our asses! I was horrible! I don't know though... may be truth serum? We say shit we normally wouldn't say! Like there was no filter on my mouth! Hang in Pal... Gooch

dude - totally normal....it eases off....but ups and down.....my biggest rage was at about Day 50 or so.......but I am always up for a good street fight :-)

Fuck day 5, fuck day 6, fuck day 7, tomorrow I'll say fuck day 8 and so on. I said I felt like I wanted to fight or fuck, well, as I stand on the Nic Bitch's throat, I'm stickin' it in her ass!

Feeling a rush of freedom I haven't felt in years. Man, it sure is good to be through the quickening. I am embracing the suck and want all my fellow October brothers to do the same. Let's hear how you're feeling...good...bad...cranky...just get it out here and we WILL walk this road together.

Peace,
Eric71

[eric71]

All,

Knew the weekend would be particularly rough (4th of July celebrations, golfing opportunities, fishing, swimming, grilling out, extra time w/family, etc.) so I thought I would attack the issue instead of waiting for it to catch me off guard.

To this point (4 days in), I had not had the urge for something to replace the log of shit I used to keep in my lip.  Like I said, to this point.  Craving to cave sent me on a mission...to find some mint chew (Oregon trail original non tobacco, non-nicotine).  I knew I would be picking up beer for the weekend and would be grilling out (2 prime opportunities to chew in the past), so I began my quest.

What the fuck?  Every flippin' idiot decided to drive the same time I was on my quest.  And it just so happens if they weren't driving, they were working where I was looking for my fake fix.

I have to thank every one of you for all the posts and words of encouragement these last 4 days.  I just kept thinking about all the things I've read since I began the quit.  Thinking of those items, those I hold myself accountable to, and those of you who hold my word accountable, I can proudly say that I walked into and out of 3 convenience stores (one was the old standby), a state liquor store (told you I had to get beer for the weekend), and a gas station (thank God for Meijer) before I could finally go home and face my family with my plan in place.

Right now I am sitting here after dinner with a beer in one hand, fake mint chew in my lip, and not one bit of guilt or urge for the nic bitch!  This feels incredible, to be able to walk through all that BS and still come out on top.  You guys are awesome, I hope I can repay it all someday.

Eric71

I dont see how anybody can drink and not dip! Thats my experience anyway there! you can mix you own chew.. I do.. it does not taste like mint... takes like hmmmmmm? burning good.. coffee..espresso.. tea..hot pepper.. LOTS OF SALT..  tabasco..

I'm with everyone else the alcohol probably not a good idea! We've seen a lot of caves that wouldn't have happened if alcohol was out of the equation.

You don't need to start a new thread everytime just add to your intro!

please indulge me while I am the contrarian for a moment

#1....Wt and Kubrick are fucking rockstars - so listen to them
#2....I went big on booze in my quit.......very weird.....and did not do fake chew
#3....my journey is that booze is NOT a trigger......it just lowers your resolve and makes you weak.....triggers are triggers......booze makes you give in

Personally I think as a general matter booze is not a trigger.....when i was single i would drink, get drunk and would fuck an ugly chick.....

so - does that mean booze is a trigger to fuck an ugly chick?

no - cuz I would love a hot chick too

or does it mean that booze makes you stupid?

yes

in my opinion.........

booze is not a trigger....but be careful.....cuz you could be stupid and fuck the ugly girl (nic) in your quit

HAHAHAHAHAHA

Simply awesome Clean Fuel, love the deductive reasoning. Will keep the alcohol (beer only) in check, needed to have it on hand for company, not one of the are dippers so I would have to play ninja and at 5'10" 240# that ain't easy