As most of you in my group know, about a week ago I felt a need to try and go without KTC. I still feel one day I will be able to stay quit without posting everyday. Today that is not the case. I want to apologize to you guys for not really taking your advice. I can feel my quit getting weaker not posting and talking to you guys. The good news is I am still quit. I do not remember who said "Do what got you here." but right not that is hitting hard. I need to go back go to chewing on seeds, educating myself, and staying ghey with FFFOQ FEB 2014! That starts with posting roll, even if I need to shoot a text to someone else.
I'm not really sure I understand why you feel the need to distance yourself from KTC at some point. Do you think it's a crutch? Do you think your quit isn't as "manly" because you're not doing it on your own? Do you think that after "x" amount of time you'll be cured of your addiction? "Thank you KTC! I'm all better now"?
This post says to me, very clearly, if you leave this place of accountability and brotherhood... You'll be one of those cats posting up another day 1 after a time.
There are vets who have been here for years.
For. A. Reason.
Pay attention. Stick around. Stay quit.
If KTC is a Crutch and Not Manly, Then I am a broken legged pansy cuz I am never leaving here no matter how good I start feeling. If you start feeling so good that you don't think you need to post roll, you probably feel that good BECAUSE you've been posting roll. Why screw up a proven thing. It only takes a minute. I wasted hours everyday dipping. Small, Small price to pay for freedom.
CPOZ -
if I may, check the top of your page, in the header it does say online community. But I want to ask , keep aside the word online, and try to define what community means to you. Is it looking out for your neighbor? Is it making a friend or two (or more)? Is it asking out for help when you need it?
It is not weak to do these things above, in fact it is more than smart.
So if I may say, don't turn your back on any of your friends here. Stick around, incorporate the quitting, this site and these friends into your life and family. You will find much more strength, joy and happiness when you do.
remember:
Accountability + Brotherhood = Success