SO whats the deal? i quit 75 days ago and honestly, was the best decision of my life-this site means a lot to me. Great people, good info. so whats the deal with weight gain. my sorry ass stepped on the scale and i have gained over 12 pounds since i quit-----? Anyone else gain weight with their quit?
Calories in must be less than calories out. Exercise is good, but cutting out about 500 per day is even better (and more efficient). Doing both is best.
I have found that writing everything down that I eat works wonders in making sure I don't stuff my piehole with junk.
yep, second that. It doesn't really matter what you do, ultimately you have to have a kcal deficit and writing them down is a great way to do it.
Many people have a very difficult time dieting and in my opinion (from my experience at least) if you're having a hard time dieting and regulating your calories in then you're doing something wrong. Kind of off topic from your original question, although you metabolism is directly related, just cutting calories via starvation will likely lead to the the opposite of your goals. If your body is starved for calories it will just lower your metabolism, storing a higher percentage of intake.
Try leaning out your food types, like chicken instead of meat more often or turkey and fish instead of chicken. Decrease you meal sizes and increase the count, eat six smaller meals a day. In the beginning it will actually feel like you're eating too much. Most importantly drink an excessive amount of water, by excessive I mean work towards an ounce per pound of body weight. That's extremely difficult and requires a regimented plan but in general if you can put down a gallon a day you're on the right track and will see a change in everything from endurance to body fat.
Forget any worries about needing to be in shape to get into shape, your body will provide all the resistance it needs. Try planks, push ups, go for walks etc. Check out the guys over in the exercise forum, there are some guru's over there that I'm sure can provide what works for them.