Welcome Pick,
Go to the Welcome Center at the top of the page pink/salmon colored words learn how to post roll.
My concern is that fear is what is driving the quit. If it just fear based it will be short lived. You need to quit for YOU not fear not your baby mommy or your friend lost his battle. YOU need to quit because you feel that you are worth it and that you have seen the light that every time you put the poison in your mouth you are spinning the cylinder on the revolver.Â
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Thanks... I've posted roll twice now and will continue to do so every day. While it is true that it was fear that made me dump the can into the trash, it is the realization of the stupidity of this habit and the desire to live 'cleaner' and be around longer for my family that makes this quit real.
My four year old son told me the other day, when he grows up he wants to "eat copenhagen like daddy"..... that's unacceptable, so I am quitting not only for myself but for my kids as well. It's just time.
Pick,
Being a father I can see your desire to quit for that young man. Just remember quit for you and only you, let him and the rest of the family support you. Trust me there will be day that you will see what Trauma and I are pointing at.
You made you start, now make you QUIT.
My oldest son at age 11 did a presentation about my quit and I have to be honest it made my quit stronger and I love him dearly but I still do this daily for me. As selfish as that may sound it feel great because I know it is my head strong mental aptitude that is fuelling my quit the other stuff is icing on the cake brother.
Pinched
Welcome to the Best of YOUR life.
You can do this: One day at a time.
It is very simple, yet probably the hardest thing you've ever done...post roll early in your a.m., keep your word all day (your word is good, right?), wake and repeat.
If I can do this, so can YOU!
If you're a drinker, lay of the alcohol for awhile...as getting drunk will lower anyones resolve...lotta men cave while drunk. Don't let this be you!
Get in here and read, gather your tools and weapons to win this fight daily.
1 problem + nicotine = 2 problems!
Cheers.