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Offline 4TheWin

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Re: Quitting
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Re: Quitting
« Reply #11 on: November 11, 2017, 08:16:00 PM »
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Re: Quitting
« Reply #10 on: October 23, 2017, 01:39:00 PM »
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Welcome, Josh!,

I was not a lineman but I am a former meter reader. Did that to work my way through college. You would be surprised how many people let their dogs out when the meter reader comes by. I used to work storm duty and help the linemen. One accidently droppedd a knife on my head, luckily the blunt end. Then we all had to wear hard hats going forward. I actually worked as a rad-tech for nuclear refuelings at Calvert Cliffs.

But, I digress.

The main way to be successful is to just decide that you have quit. Once you stop the negotiating in your head as to whether you will do one more or not the rest becomes far more simple.

Next, you will learn to distract your attention from your desire for a dip to anything else that interests you. This ability to change your focus will guarantee your success and make your quit that much easier.

When you place a dip in your mouth, your brain releases sugars. Well, those sugars are now going to be gone.

However, you can replace them with OJ or other fruit juices with sugar. This will provide some comfort, especially in your initial quit days.

Make sure to exercise with weights and cardio when you feel that nagging tension in your muscles, you feel that rage, when you can not sleep and when you cannot focus. Exercise really helps.

Here is one that most people overlook. Get at least 3 square meals a day. Hunger can really bring on those urges so squash those urges before they come. Eat full healthy meals and do not let yourself get excessively hungry. You will see this helps a great deal.

I waited until I was 59 quit after using tobacco for 40 years. You are wise to quit now.

I quit with you today.

Dundippin day 770
Josh you got some great advice here. I hope your smart enough to accept it. Being strong isn't about doing it by yourself, it's being humble enough to know that you can't. Don't buck the system, surrender to it. You got this, today.

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Re: Quitting
« Reply #9 on: October 23, 2017, 09:51:00 AM »
Welcome, Josh!,

I was not a lineman but I am a former meter reader. Did that to work my way through college. You would be surprised how many people let their dogs out when the meter reader comes by. I used to work storm duty and help the linemen. One accidently droppedd a knife on my head, luckily the blunt end. Then we all had to wear hard hats going forward. I actually worked as a rad-tech for nuclear refuelings at Calvert Cliffs.

But, I digress.

The main way to be successful is to just decide that you have quit. Once you stop the negotiating in your head as to whether you will do one more or not the rest becomes far more simple.

Next, you will learn to distract your attention from your desire for a dip to anything else that interests you. This ability to change your focus will guarantee your success and make your quit that much easier.

When you place a dip in your mouth, your brain releases sugars. Well, those sugars are now going to be gone.

However, you can replace them with OJ or other fruit juices with sugar. This will provide some comfort, especially in your initial quit days.

Make sure to exercise with weights and cardio when you feel that nagging tension in your muscles, you feel that rage, when you can not sleep and when you cannot focus. Exercise really helps.

Here is one that most people overlook. Get at least 3 square meals a day. Hunger can really bring on those urges so squash those urges before they come. Eat full healthy meals and do not let yourself get excessively hungry. You will see this helps a great deal.

I waited until I was 59 quit after using tobacco for 40 years. You are wise to quit now.

I quit with you today.

Dundippin day 770

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Re: Quitting
« Reply #8 on: October 23, 2017, 09:31:00 AM »
Welcome Josh. People have used many different "substitutes" - from fake dip, seeds, snacking, you name it. Like you, I didn't want another habit to quit, so my go to was Ice Breakers mints. Take one (or two or three) and tuck it into my lip. Only used them for about a week or two until the insane fog had passed, but I still keep them around for when I get a craving. Stay strong.
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Re: Quitting
« Reply #7 on: October 22, 2017, 08:21:00 PM »
Welcome Josh

You mention a "stressful" situation. Be ready, because your brain wanting for nic will be stress...shit tons of it. This is one of the first battles to overcome. Drink tons of water and keep a substitute on you at all times. NEVER be without your choice of seeds, gum, toothpicks, Candoit's dildo, whatever it is!

We are all in this fight together. All I ask is you promise to keep that shit away for 24 hours and I promise this to you in return. We will worry about tomorrow tomorrow. I pm'ed my digits to your inbox, use them anytime. I walked away from Nic almost exactly 2 years ago, and as a fellow January quitter know, ODAAT, you will be doing this for fresh quit.

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Re: Quitting
« Reply #6 on: October 22, 2017, 05:54:00 PM »
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I have dipped for the past 7 years and the last half of those 7 have been 2 cans a day. I work as a distribution lineman and have 2 beautiful children with another on the way (January). I have not had a dip since 3:45 yesterday (10-21). The cravings are there. However I don't want to solve it with snacking or substituting, that would be another habit to have to break down the road. It's hard avoiding the triggers when triggers include eating and driving. Wish me luck.
So, you are a lineman? Power company, phone company or railroad?

There are more than a few present or former lineman around KTC... I am certain that they will find you.

Share those stories too... the distraction and brotherhood will only serve to strengthen your quit.

Welcome aboard Josh.
Power company lineman. That's one of my worries is in a stressful situation at work that would be my go to was dip. Not anymore!
Well my friend... I am a former-soldier... a former firefighter... and a former-lineman... I am pretty sure you can get passed the stress of the work you do.

Sure its all brutal and hits every trigger you've got... but if you want to be quit, this is the place you want to be.

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Re: Quitting
« Reply #5 on: October 22, 2017, 04:47:00 PM »
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I have dipped for the past 7 years and the last half of those 7 have been 2 cans a day. I work as a distribution lineman and have 2 beautiful children with another on the way (January). I have not had a dip since 3:45 yesterday (10-21). The cravings are there. However I don't want to solve it with snacking or substituting, that would be another habit to have to break down the road. It's hard avoiding the triggers when triggers include eating and driving. Wish me luck.
So, you are a lineman? Power company, phone company or railroad?

There are more than a few present or former lineman around KTC... I am certain that they will find you.

Share those stories too... the distraction and brotherhood will only serve to strengthen your quit.

Welcome aboard Josh.
Power company lineman. That's one of my worries is in a stressful situation at work that would be my go to was dip. Not anymore!
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Re: Quitting
« Reply #4 on: October 22, 2017, 04:41:00 PM »
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I have dipped for the past 7 years and the last half of those 7 have been 2 cans a day. I work as a distribution lineman and have 2 beautiful children with another on the way (January). I have not had a dip since 3:45 yesterday (10-21). The cravings are there. However I don't want to solve it with snacking or substituting, that would be another habit to have to break down the road. It's hard avoiding the triggers when triggers include eating and driving. Wish me luck.
So, you are a lineman? Power company, phone company or railroad?

There are more than a few present or former lineman around KTC... I am certain that they will find you.

Share those stories too... the distraction and brotherhood will only serve to strengthen your quit.

Welcome aboard Josh.

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Re: Quitting
« Reply #3 on: October 22, 2017, 04:00:00 PM »
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Josh, welcome to the best decision you've ever made. The way KTC works is by joining a group and posting roll every day. Posting roll is the process in which we hold each other accountable. When you post roll you are promising you brothers/sisters in quit that you promise to not use nicotine for 24 hrs.

The way KTC counts quit days, you would actually be on Day 2 today.

Your Jan 18 Pre HOF Quit Group

Click the link and jump in buddy.
Thanks for the heads up, I was trying to figure out how and where to go, that link helped. Pretty sure I did it correct
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Re: Quitting
« Reply #2 on: October 22, 2017, 03:50:00 PM »
Josh, welcome to the best decision you've ever made. The way KTC works is by joining a group and posting roll every day. Posting roll is the process in which we hold each other accountable. When you post roll you are promising you brothers/sisters in quit that you promise to not use nicotine for 24 hrs.

The way KTC counts quit days, you would actually be on Day 2 today.

Your Jan 18 Pre HOF Quit Group

Click the link and jump in buddy.

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Quitting
« on: October 22, 2017, 03:30:00 PM »
I have dipped for the past 7 years and the last half of those 7 have been 2 cans a day. I work as a distribution lineman and have 2 beautiful children with another on the way (January). I have not had a dip since 3:45 yesterday (10-21). The cravings are there. However I don't want to solve it with snacking or substituting, that would be another habit to have to break down the road. It's hard avoiding the triggers when triggers include eating and driving. Wish me luck.

Update- 11-11-17
I made a terrible decision and bucked the system on 11-8. Even after, the roller coaster the first few days sucked. It brought me closer to a few of my brothers and gained some more brothers in the process. But the feeling of letting everybody down was pretty rough. I read in those few days someone posted and said he just caved last night. How in the hell can he fall off the wagon and be ready to quit again just a day later. I did a lot of reaching out for a few days and a lot of soul searching. Not all but some retreads I came across stated once they caved on KTC they went missing completely from the site for months at a time. I didn't want to be that guy. I knew how rough it was going to be but I wanted to batten down the hatches and ride this rollercoaster till the end. That was one way to me of showing, yes I screwed up, but damn it I want this quit! I read somewhere also they said KTC only works if you let it. That statement is so small but so true. For now, I'm back in single digits. But I come here every day to better myself one day at a time. For the newcomers, welcome to KTC and welcome to the best damn decision you've ever made in your life!!
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