Quitting all over again

[Evil_Won]

Focus on those that are committed to saving themselves and others. There is nothing to see here. Move on.

[Diesel2112]

Doug Pee tells me he "has a life". I believe he's insinuating that he's too busy to post consistently. Or maybe he's saying a "life" and quitting are somehow incompatible? IDK.. Oh.... btw, I'm on a "power trip" for holding him accountable. Go figure.

Told me he was busy with snowboarding and girls.

I said cool, but taking a few minutes to come here could save your life.

He agreed, but I ain't seen him round these parts....

[pbrain04]

You know what the people in March that aren't MIA have in common?

I know the answer to that....they post roll and are quit

PRAIN
54 out of 54 days

[zam]

Doug Pee tells me he "has a life". I believe he's insinuating that he's too busy to post consistently. Or maybe he's saying a "life" and quitting are somehow incompatible? IDK.. Oh.... btw, I'm on a "power trip" for holding him accountable. Go figure.

[ccauley86]

So I do the March Spreadsheet. We posted asking for you to post roll more than once a week. We finally took it down after a few days of no roll.

Doug P came to KTC on day 3,
posted roll for a week,
3 days the next week,
1 day the third week,
1 day the fourth week,
and then caved.

You didn't take it seriously. Will you this time? We cant quit for you, only with you. Posting roll, 12/30 days is not the KTC program. You know what the people in March that aren't MIA have in common? They post roll. The lowest percentage is a special headcase named MTBkerJ, but even he isn't near your 40% track record.

Get a grip, post roll, take it seriously, I want to quit with you.

[Diesel2112]

Via text, he says he's still quit.

[traumagnet]

he is in the wind licking black death I assume

[Diesel2112]

I hate chasing my tail.

[Steakbomb18]

Doug, I just read about a cave from a fellow who was in my March quit group (your former group). Like most of us here, I'm disappointed to hear about caves, but what really disappointed me...actually angered me, was that he lied about the cave for about a week. Continued to post roll that he had stayed quit.

I just wanted to let you know that I respect your honesty. I think we all understand addiction here and that it is a day to day battle, hence the ODAAT mentality. Some win every day, and some will fail. If you fail, pick yourself back up and start over. Just don't live a lie...and, you didn't. So there's another thing you got going for you. Don't quit the quit and PM me should you need anything.

[wastepanel]

I was quit with March 2014.  Caved on day 30 for a shitty dip that I threw out in less than 2 minutes.  Disappointed myself for it and disappointed myself even more for wasting the time of two great guys from this site who took time out of their evenings to call me in an effort to keep me quit.  I'm back here for me but also to show them that their calls meant something and were not a total loss.  I hope that I can one day pay it forward.  Beyond that, I don't feel like writing so more later.

(1). What happened?
(2). Why did it happen?
(3). What are you doing differently this time?

bump

[ppolcyn]

Dude, what happened?

In order for you to be re-accepted into a quit group, you have to answer three questions:

1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you doing differently to insure that it will not happen that way again?

No fucking excuses! Man the fuck up or be the nic bitch's slave forever.

Build a security network for your quit. Chat , numbers, etc.

You will be successful at quitting if you would just fucking quit. No guessing, no trying, no bullshit here.

Answer the questions, unfuck yourself, post roll and kick that bitch right in the cunt.

If not, go fuck yourself and leave us alone.

[traumagnet]

People:

As the name implies, this is an "URGENT: NEED HELP NOW, 911 Emergency Cave Prevention" thread. Many quitters subscribe to this thread and if someone posts in here they are alerted thinking that there is a possibility of a cave NOW.

If you want to read this thread, do so, but please look at the time stamps and don't just comment on closed emergencies. Take discussions to the "General Discussion", your Group, a PM, any of the Wildcard, or countless other places to talk... But NOT HERE.

Thanks.
:ph43r:

Dudes,
I know I'm weak and I'm letting you down. Day 30. I'm going to cave. Sending this email and another to a friend is the most strength I can muster. Perhaps i can really quit when my life is more conducive. I'll leave my number in the hope that someone can talk me out of this but I'm heading for the Marathon to meet her. She's whispered in my ear and I'm listening. Fuck me. I'm done.

Xxxxxxxxxx haha. Its a race.

Pull yourself together. You've come too hard to piss it away.

I'm texting you. Are you getting anything???? Hello????!!!!

Fuck you you little bitch. You don't want any help. Im with my kids and cannot talk but have sent many unanswered texts. Take your weak ass out of here. You're not a serious quitter.

Sorry. I was on the phone with him.

All is good for now.

Yes. I was just coming to apologize for calling him a bitch, I was trying to get his attention.

He Texted back he was talked off the ledge. Great work!!!

I think he needs to get more involved here...

So you were talked off the edge after sending up the bat signal and then F'ckin caved that same night? Or is that just another way to garner more attention

Sounds exactly was it was - planned cave

You own answers in April 14 and I sure as hell wouldn't want you posting roll until you did so


(1) What happened?

(2) Why did it happen?

(3) What are you doing differently this time?

I don't know your ass but I have seen the response that you got when you needed help and the Vets came to your aid and then you caved anyway. WTF is that about this is no facebook or other blog spot peeps go to for attention we come here to quit and stay that way. You quit only once! get with the program go balls out or nothing.

[cbird65]

People:

As the name implies, this is an "URGENT: NEED HELP NOW, 911 Emergency Cave Prevention" thread. Many quitters subscribe to this thread and if someone posts in here they are alerted thinking that there is a possibility of a cave NOW.

If you want to read this thread, do so, but please look at the time stamps and don't just comment on closed emergencies. Take discussions to the "General Discussion", your Group, a PM, any of the Wildcard, or countless other places to talk... But NOT HERE.

Thanks.
:ph43r:

Dudes,
I know I'm weak and I'm letting you down. Day 30. I'm going to cave. Sending this email and another to a friend is the most strength I can muster. Perhaps i can really quit when my life is more conducive. I'll leave my number in the hope that someone can talk me out of this but I'm heading for the Marathon to meet her. She's whispered in my ear and I'm listening. Fuck me. I'm done.

Xxxxxxxxxx haha. Its a race.

Pull yourself together. You've come too hard to piss it away.

I'm texting you. Are you getting anything???? Hello????!!!!

Fuck you you little bitch. You don't want any help. Im with my kids and cannot talk but have sent many unanswered texts. Take your weak ass out of here. You're not a serious quitter.

Sorry. I was on the phone with him.

All is good for now.

Yes. I was just coming to apologize for calling him a bitch, I was trying to get his attention.

He Texted back he was talked off the ledge. Great work!!!

I think he needs to get more involved here...

So you were talked off the edge after sending up the bat signal and then F'ckin caved that same night? Or is that just another way to garner more attention

Sounds exactly was it was - planned cave

You own answers in April 14 and I sure as hell wouldn't want you posting roll until you did so


(1) What happened?

(2) Why did it happen?

(3) What are you doing differently this time?

[Gdubya]

Hey bud, they don't call this an addiction for nothing. If this were easy, everyone would be doing it. Well now maybe you have a little greater understanding of what your up against. Glad you didn't just walk away. Get back on that horse and let's get back to Quitn bro.

[Steakbomb18]

So some people are pissed that you caved; think that possibly you're a waste of time? Well, they should be pissed, and if they weren't then you could say that they never really gave a damn. Obviously, that's not the case so you got that going for you.

Diesel pretty much nailed it for me when he asked you if caving for those 2 minutes solved/cured whatever it was that made you cave. I'm guessing no, because 1) you're back here, 2) you're pretty pissed off at yourself and 3) you're even more pissed that you let others down besides yourself.

Doug, I was in you're quit group, and appreciate that you were honest with us and yourself. You could have continued posting in March like it never happened. How would we know? But you didn't, so there's another thing going for you. Although, you're now in the April group, just know that it doesn't mean I won't be quitting with you just as hard every damn day, along with the rest of us here. Priorities brother, let's get it right this time.