Nice job posting roll, and GREAT decision to end your slavery NOW. I was gonna quit for more than 20 years before I faced all the BS lies that kept me in the can.
Actually, stubborn is good. You will quit on your own. IMHO, we all quit on our own. You are the one that will or will not buy a can....run your thumbnail over the seam, take a pinch, insert. You are the one that will, or will not, make all those decisions. Nothing I/we can do about that.
What we can do is support your decision. We can show you how to burn bridges. We can let you know what to expect so you aren't surprised. We can tell you truths that your family/friend/sig other often times can not. What we can do is point out flaws in your plan. What we can do is applaud when you kick the nic bitch square in the mouth. And best of all, we can accept your word, your promise, that you will not use nicotine today, and hold you accountable to that promise.
No, this is very much still YOUR quit. We are just here to support a decision that you have already made...not to use nic today.
Welcome aboard. PM me if you need digits, or have any questions. (and you will need digits!). Read, read, read everything you can on KTC....and drink a LOT of water.