Adams,
Wow I got a headache reading your plan. I have a much easier one for you. Dump your can, toss the gum, post your promise to your brothers on this site and keep your word. Simple !!
Simple... notice I said simple, not easy. By cutting back all you are doing is prolonging the pain. Go cold turkey, ride the suck for three days and it is done. There is nothing easy about quitting, but it can be done as evidenced by the men on here with 20, 30 years or more dipping and they have quit.
There are plenty of people willing to help you if you are serious, but do us all a favor and make sure you are ready to committ to this. We do not hope or try here.. we do !! And we are very serious about it.
The ball is in your court.