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I quit chew about a week ago. was a 2 can a day cope long cut. i need somewhere to vent. is this the right spot. really struggling. haven't slept. tried that patch shit, i think it made me worse. only 3 days off that. feel like ripping my skin off.

Kdip

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Quote from: Nolaq
Quote from: kdip
Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!
ADmann, bitch it out here. Not at your boy. Easier said than done, I know. I was a real dick to my kids the first few months, but come in here as much as you can.

Next, let me ask you - is dipping going to make your son listen any better?

Is dip going to make him move any faster?

Is a dip going to get that dumb ass driver in front of you to move the fuck along?

Is dip going to slow down time so you can make it to the shop by 7?

Fuck no. And you know it.

Sixteen days in is an incredible VICTORY! Yes, a victory. Look at it that way. You made it through all that shit (that will be there whether you are quit or not), looked that bitch in the face and kicked her right in the foofie.

Victory.

Keep fighting. It's worth it.

Shout if you need anything.

-Nolaq
Keep on fighting the good fight man. 16 days us huge! Keep fighting off the mind games. Keep coming in here to do your bitching and screaming, save the better side of yourself for your family and give us the shit. Proud to be QUIT with you today.
Thank you guys for everything. I have managed to get into the gym and lift weights and get in some cardio. I've pounded the water and started to calm down. I will stay the quit, I will not fail.
Take a victory lapp and hit the showers.

When gmann asks if you need soap, tell him no.
'crackup' 'crackup' 'crackup' Glad you are drinking the Koolaid ADMann!!! If you stay quit you only have to suffer through this once!!!

Nolaq

Quote from: ADMann
Quote from: Roamcountry
Quote from: Nolaq
Quote from: kdip
Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!
ADmann, bitch it out here. Not at your boy. Easier said than done, I know. I was a real dick to my kids the first few months, but come in here as much as you can.

Next, let me ask you - is dipping going to make your son listen any better?

Is dip going to make him move any faster?

Is a dip going to get that dumb ass driver in front of you to move the fuck along?

Is dip going to slow down time so you can make it to the shop by 7?

Fuck no. And you know it.

Sixteen days in is an incredible VICTORY! Yes, a victory. Look at it that way. You made it through all that shit (that will be there whether you are quit or not), looked that bitch in the face and kicked her right in the foofie.

Victory.

Keep fighting. It's worth it.

Shout if you need anything.

-Nolaq
Keep on fighting the good fight man. 16 days us huge! Keep fighting off the mind games. Keep coming in here to do your bitching and screaming, save the better side of yourself for your family and give us the shit. Proud to be QUIT with you today.
Thank you guys for everything. I have managed to get into the gym and lift weights and get in some cardio. I've pounded the water and started to calm down. I will stay the quit, I will not fail.
Take a victory lapp and hit the showers.

When gmann asks if you need soap, tell him no.
What is your major malfunction?!?!?!?!

ADMann

Quote from: Roamcountry
Quote from: Nolaq
Quote from: kdip
Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!
ADmann, bitch it out here. Not at your boy. Easier said than done, I know. I was a real dick to my kids the first few months, but come in here as much as you can.

Next, let me ask you - is dipping going to make your son listen any better?

Is dip going to make him move any faster?

Is a dip going to get that dumb ass driver in front of you to move the fuck along?

Is dip going to slow down time so you can make it to the shop by 7?

Fuck no. And you know it.

Sixteen days in is an incredible VICTORY! Yes, a victory. Look at it that way. You made it through all that shit (that will be there whether you are quit or not), looked that bitch in the face and kicked her right in the foofie.

Victory.

Keep fighting. It's worth it.

Shout if you need anything.

-Nolaq
Keep on fighting the good fight man. 16 days us huge! Keep fighting off the mind games. Keep coming in here to do your bitching and screaming, save the better side of yourself for your family and give us the shit. Proud to be QUIT with you today.
Thank you guys for everything. I have managed to get into the gym and lift weights and get in some cardio. I've pounded the water and started to calm down. I will stay the quit, I will not fail.
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving"

First Quit date 08062012
Craved on 10092012
Answered the three questions on 10112012
Second Quit Date 10/10/2012
HOF Date 01/17/2013

Roamcountry

Quote from: Nolaq
Quote from: kdip
Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!
ADmann, bitch it out here. Not at your boy. Easier said than done, I know. I was a real dick to my kids the first few months, but come in here as much as you can.

Next, let me ask you - is dipping going to make your son listen any better?

Is dip going to make him move any faster?

Is a dip going to get that dumb ass driver in front of you to move the fuck along?

Is dip going to slow down time so you can make it to the shop by 7?

Fuck no. And you know it.

Sixteen days in is an incredible VICTORY! Yes, a victory. Look at it that way. You made it through all that shit (that will be there whether you are quit or not), looked that bitch in the face and kicked her right in the foofie.

Victory.

Keep fighting. It's worth it.

Shout if you need anything.

-Nolaq
Keep on fighting the good fight man. 16 days us huge! Keep fighting off the mind games. Keep coming in here to do your bitching and screaming, save the better side of yourself for your family and give us the shit. Proud to be QUIT with you today.

Nolaq

Quote from: kdip
Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!
ADmann, bitch it out here. Not at your boy. Easier said than done, I know. I was a real dick to my kids the first few months, but come in here as much as you can.

Next, let me ask you - is dipping going to make your son listen any better?

Is dip going to make him move any faster?

Is a dip going to get that dumb ass driver in front of you to move the fuck along?

Is dip going to slow down time so you can make it to the shop by 7?

Fuck no. And you know it.

Sixteen days in is an incredible VICTORY! Yes, a victory. Look at it that way. You made it through all that shit (that will be there whether you are quit or not), looked that bitch in the face and kicked her right in the foofie.

Victory.

Keep fighting. It's worth it.

Shout if you need anything.

-Nolaq
What is your major malfunction?!?!?!?!

Kdip

Quote from: ADMannSo this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally getÃ,  out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work.Ã,  So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
NO!!!!!! You don't need to go load up on death dirt to get a rush!!! Per a now famous quote:

You will NEVER regret quitting but you will ALWAYS regret caving!!!!

DO NOT fall into the trap again!!! Quitting sucks and is the hardest thing you will EVER DO!!!!! BUT its the BEST thing you will EVER do!!! FREEDOM is WORTH the PRICE!!! You may be suffering right now but you have a long life of Freedom ahead of you if you stay quit!!! Which path do you choose???

Freedom or Slavery!!! Its up to you! I hope you make the RIGHT choice!

ADMann

So this is me fucking bitching because I need to get rid of the stress and and you all get to be my punching bag right now.

first off day 16 is damn near as tough as day 1, WTF? But beyond that Ihave been working out and chewing the shit out of the trident gum and still struggling. This morning was probally one of the worse. First off I was late to work, my son was dragging his feet, fucking playing games, goofing off with the dog, and basically being an 8yr old. BUt I was not in the mood and snapped bad at him. So that is why im here bithing through this fucking keyboard. Then when I finally get out of the house, I get stuck behind some fucking peice of shit driver on a two lane blacktop that fucking cant do the speed limit and is swerving all over the fucking road. 45 min drive to work turned into and 1 hour drive because of this asshole. and to make things better my one and only passing lane is being blocked by some fucking big rig slugging it up the hill and shit head is in the other fucking lane. I was so ready to throw my hands up and stop at the nearest store to pick up a can, but then I looked at my watch and saw that i was late for work. So I have a very simpile job, i need to open the office by 7:00 am. Over the course of the last week I have not managed to get this done. Im ready to fucking chew just to feel that rush. I know that I should not, I have been quiting good. But i need help today. 'help'
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving"

First Quit date 08062012
Craved on 10092012
Answered the three questions on 10112012
Second Quit Date 10/10/2012
HOF Date 01/17/2013

chewie

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"Every man dies... not every man really lives." - William Wallace

QD - 7.24.06 / HOF - 10.31.06 / 2nd - 2.08.07 / 3rd - 5.19.07 / 4th - 8.27.07 / 5th - 12.05.07 / 6th - 3.14.08 / 7th - 6.22.08 / 8th - 9.30.08 / 9th - 1.08.09 / Comma - 4.18.09 / 11th - 7.27.09 / 12th - 11.04.09 / 13th - 2.12.10 / 14th - 05.23.10 / 15th - 08.31.2010 / 16th - 12.9.10 / 17th - 3.19.11 / 18th - 6.27.11 / 19th - 10.5.11 / 2K - 1.13.12 / 21st - 4.22.12 / 22nd - 7.31.12 / 23rd - 11.8.12 / 24th - 2.16.13 / 25th - 5.27.13 / 26th - 9.4.13 / 27th - 12.12.13 / 28th - 3.24.14 / 29th - 7.1.14 / 3K - 10.9.14 / 31st - 1.17.15 / 32nd - 4.27.15 / 33rd - 8.5.15 / 34th - 9.13.15 / 35th - 2.21.16 / 36th - 5.31.16 / 37th - 9.8.16 / 38th - 12.17.16 / 39th - 3.27.17 / 4K - 7.5.17 / 41st - 10.13.17 / 42nd - 1.21.18 / 43rd - 5.1.18 / 44th - 8.9.18 / 45th - 11.17.18 / 46th - 2.25.19 / 47th - 6.5.19 / 48th - 9.13.19 / 49th - 12.22.19 / 5K - 4.1.20 / 51st - 7.9.20 / 52nd - 10.17.20 / 53rd - 1.25.21 / 54th - 5.5.21 / 55th - 8.13.21 / 56th - 11.21.21 / 57th - 3.1.22 / 58th - 6.9.22 / 59th - 9.17.22 / 6K - 12.26.22 / 61st - 4.5.23 / 62nd - 7.14.23 / 63rd - 10.22.23 / 64th - 1.20.24 / 65th - 5.9.24 / 66th - 8.17.24 / 67th - 11.25.24 / 68th - 3.5.25 / 69th - 6.13.25 / 7K - 9.21.25 / 71st - 12.30.25 / 72nd - 4.9.26

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Nolaq

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Quote from: Wt57
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Quote from: donnie1972Hi my name is Donnie . I am looking to quit this dip ! I have been doing this for my whole life. I am 40 yrs old and I am ready to quit. I'm not sure if I can do this, because I want it all the time, If I am awake , I have it in my mouth, sometimes I sleep with it. I keep 5 to 10 cans with me all the time. it has got a hold on me. please help me!!
I just turned 40 on Wednesday. If I can do this you can man. This site is amazing, buy in 100%, read and listen.
Donnie I've been dipping as long as you've been alive only thing that matters is you quit dip for today! For my first 60 days of quit I obsessed with my age I felt old and stupid now I feel like a leader and source of wisdom! At times like a father figure since many quitters are my daughters age or younger. We are all addicts seeking the same thing FREEDOM!!!
Donnie, if you are serious this time about quitting then flush those 5 to 10 cans down the shitter and get over the the October quit group and post your day 1 promise that you will not put that crap in your mouth. If you insist on using up your stash first, you will never make it!!!! Repeat again tomorrow!!!! It sucks and its going to hurt. There is no shortcut to quitting, but its WORTH all the pain you will get through to gain your freedom from something that eventually is going to kill you!!!!! I dipped and/or smoked for 30+ years and if I can do this, so can you!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pssssst....kdip....that woould be November.

:unsure:
What is your major malfunction?!?!?!?!

Kdip

Quote from: Wt57
Quote from: mcarmo44
Quote from: donnie1972Hi my name is Donnie . I am looking to quit this dip ! I have been doing this for my whole life. I am 40 yrs old and I am ready to quit. I'm not sure if I can do this, because I want it all the time, If I am awake , I have it in my mouth, sometimes I sleep with it. I keep 5 to 10 cans with me all the time. it has got a hold on me. please help me!!
I just turned 40 on Wednesday. If I can do this you can man. This site is amazing, buy in 100%, read and listen.
Donnie I've been dipping as long as you've been alive only thing that matters is you quit dip for today! For my first 60 days of quit I obsessed with my age I felt old and stupid now I feel like a leader and source of wisdom! At times like a father figure since many quitters are my daughters age or younger. We are all addicts seeking the same thing FREEDOM!!!
Donnie, if you are serious this time about quitting then flush those 5 to 10 cans down the shitter and get over the the October quit group and post your day 1 promise that you will not put that crap in your mouth. If you insist on using up your stash first, you will never make it!!!! Repeat again tomorrow!!!! It sucks and its going to hurt. There is no shortcut to quitting, but its WORTH all the pain you will get through to gain your freedom from something that eventually is going to kill you!!!!! I dipped and/or smoked for 30+ years and if I can do this, so can you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wt57

Quote from: mcarmo44
Quote from: donnie1972Hi my name is Donnie . I am looking to quit this dip ! I have been doing this for my whole life. I am 40 yrs old and I am ready to quit. I'm not sure if I can do this, because I want it all the time, If I am awake , I have it in my mouth, sometimes I sleep with it. I keep 5 to 10 cans with me all the time. it has got a hold on me. please help me!!
I just turned 40 on Wednesday. If I can do this you can man. This site is amazing, buy in 100%, read and listen.
Donnie I've been dipping as long as you've been alive only thing that matters is you quit dip for today! For my first 60 days of quit I obsessed with my age I felt old and stupid now I feel like a leader and source of wisdom! At times like a father figure since many quitters are my daughters age or younger. We are all addicts seeking the same thing FREEDOM!!!
4/1/2012: Nicotine Quit Date
7/9/12: HOF The Missing Warning Label
TODAY is the day that counts
"Do, or do not, there is no try." Yoda

Mcarmo44

Quote from: donnie1972Hi my name is Donnie . I am looking to quit this dip ! I have been doing this for my whole life. I am 40 yrs old and I am ready to quit. I'm not sure if I can do this, because I want it all the time, If I am awake , I have it in my mouth, sometimes I sleep with it. I keep 5 to 10 cans with me all the time. it has got a hold on me. please help me!!
I just turned 40 on Wednesday. If I can do this you can man. This site is amazing, buy in 100%, read and listen.
Quit date 11/3/11
HOF - 2/10/12

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