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Offline Candoit

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #550 on: January 17, 2018, 10:20:00 PM »
I don't get it. Why do we always seem to think reinvent the wheel is the best course of action?
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #549 on: January 10, 2018, 10:30:00 AM »
Arrow Season 4 Episode 23 "Schism" Graveyard 37:16 - 38:16
Felicity: You okay?
Oliver: No. It's Thea and John.
Felicity: Them leaving has to be a blow.
Oliver: They are leaving because of their own personal darkness. I can't help but think they we're infected by mine.
Felicity: Maybe. Like you said, maybe you can't subcome to the darkness maybe even a little bit. But you where able to defeat Dark by giving the city it's hope back.
Oliver: Are you saying this is all black and white?
Felicity: I am saying there is a man who killed Dark in cold blood. And that same man stood on top of a car and gave the city it's hope back. What your feeling isn't darkness it's a schism. You are at war with two sides of yourself.

When you quit, it is always a personal war with yourself. There is a schism between the person who wants to run from the world and the person who wants to face the reality. Nicotine provide a false shield from the reality, the darkness. To stay quit we can not run from that darkness, we must stand tall and face it. This causes a schism, a delma, a choice. Either we must subcome to the darkness, run, hide and uses nicotine as a blanket to protect us. Or we must stand and use the truth to free is from our own twisted reality. In the end it is only ourselves that control our desnity. Either we live under false pretenses and let our addiction control the outcome or we accept the darkness and show us the direction towards the light.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #548 on: January 03, 2018, 09:56:00 PM »
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Quit For You
You quit for you. You came here for a way to quit and the brotherhood showed you the way. You always need to be selfish and quit for you.

Quit With Your Brothers
The brotherhood is what makes this real. This is the lifeblood of KTC, with out this KTC doesn't exist. Brotherhood is created by interaction and our willingness to be held accountable. The size of your brotherhood is not bound by anyone but yourself.

Quit Because It Matters
This is life or death. If you don't think it is, your in the wrong place. Posting roll, matters, it is why you came here in the first place, to quit.

QFYQWYBQBIM
That acronym was driving me crazy...thanks for spelling it out! roflmao

And good stuff!
Just one and you will be back to where you started, and where you started was desperately wishing you were where you are now.
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #547 on: January 03, 2018, 09:44:00 PM »
Quit For You
You quit for you. You came here for a way to quit and the brotherhood showed you the way. You always need to be selfish and quit for you.

Quit With Your Brothers
The brotherhood is what makes this real. This is the lifeblood of KTC, with out this KTC doesn't exist. Brotherhood is created by interaction and our willingness to be held accountable. The size of your brotherhood is not bound by anyone but yourself.

Quit Because It Matters
This is life or death. If you don't think it is, your in the wrong place. Posting roll, matters, it is why you came here in the first place, to quit.

QFYQWYBQBIM
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #546 on: November 08, 2017, 10:20:00 AM »
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Quote from: Rawls
Quote from: Candoit
I need you.
Those that are: Just quit, Foggy quit, Angry quit
HOFER'S, 365 days deep, Half dangle's, Comma's, 3,650 +1's and all in between. You fuel my quit.

Keep me honest.
Keep me connected.
Keep me inspired.
Keep me in awe of what we can do with the freedom.

No matter what is going on KTC will always provide what I need to help me. I will continue to pay the price for my freedom. Freedom is earned not given.

Well done Candoit...1200 Rocks!

Freedom is truly earned!
But once earned.. Can it be given away as a gift......
If I receive it as a gift.

Im not positive I earned it.

Grace... An undeserved gift of freedom!
I quit with you today brother!

Rawls 1086
We don't ask for Grace and Freedom. It is ours to accept and embrace. It always comes down to walking in the light or following our own will, a choice we make daily.

Just because we didn't ask for it doesn't mean we don't deserve it.
Congratulations my friend! Well deserved. Thanks for showing me and so many others the way!
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #545 on: November 08, 2017, 07:00:00 AM »
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Quote from: Candoit
I need you.
Those that are: Just quit, Foggy quit, Angry quit
HOFER'S, 365 days deep, Half dangle's, Comma's, 3,650 +1's and all in between. You fuel my quit.

Keep me honest.
Keep me connected.
Keep me inspired.
Keep me in awe of what we can do with the freedom.

No matter what is going on KTC will always provide what I need to help me. I will continue to pay the price for my freedom. Freedom is earned not given.

Well done Candoit...1200 Rocks!

Freedom is truly earned!
But once earned.. Can it be given away as a gift......
If I receive it as a gift.

Im not positive I earned it.

Grace... An undeserved gift of freedom!
I quit with you today brother!

Rawls 1086
We don't ask for Grace and Freedom. It is ours to accept and embrace. It always comes down to walking in the light or following our own will, a choice we make daily.

Just because we didn't ask for it doesn't mean we don't deserve it.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #544 on: November 08, 2017, 12:05:00 AM »
*poof* this one lingers for a moment like a dog fart in the middle of the night. The kind when the wife wakes you up because she thinks someone shat themselves.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #543 on: November 07, 2017, 11:04:00 PM »
Quote from: Candoit
I need you.
Those that are: Just quit, Foggy quit, Angry quit
HOFER'S, 365 days deep, Half dangle's, Comma's, 3,650 +1's and all in between. You fuel my quit.

Keep me honest.
Keep me connected.
Keep me inspired.
Keep me in awe of what we can do with the freedom.

No matter what is going on KTC will always provide what I need to help me. I will continue to pay the price for my freedom. Freedom is earned not given.

Well done Candoit...1200 Rocks!

Freedom is truly earned!
But once earned.. Can it be given away as a gift......
If I receive it as a gift.

Im not positive I earned it.

Grace... An undeserved gift of freedom!
I quit with you today brother!

Rawls 1086
I believe.....

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #542 on: November 07, 2017, 10:41:00 PM »
Poof
I believe.....

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #541 on: November 03, 2017, 09:46:00 PM »
Pure badassery. 1200 freedom days. Keep paving that road for your friends . Proud of ya brother!

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #540 on: November 03, 2017, 06:56:00 PM »
I need you.
Those that are: Just quit, Foggy quit, Angry quit
HOFER'S, 365 days deep, Half dangle's, Comma's, 3,650 +1's and all in between. You fuel my quit.

Keep me honest.
Keep me connected.
Keep me inspired.
Keep me in awe of what we can do with the freedom.

No matter what is going on KTC will always provide what I need to help me. I will continue to pay the price for my freedom. Freedom is earned not given.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #539 on: November 03, 2017, 03:09:00 PM »
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Congrats on the 12th floor Candi!!
Way to go Candoit, you one BAQ, congrats on the 12th floor 'clap'
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #538 on: November 03, 2017, 01:50:00 PM »
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Congrats on the 12th floor Candi!!
Way to go Candoit, you one BAQ, congrats on the 12th floor 'clap'
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #537 on: November 03, 2017, 12:26:00 PM »
Congrats on the 12th floor Candi!!
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #536 on: October 01, 2017, 09:19:00 PM »
I am done, my give a damn is tapped out.

I do not care what you do.
I do not care what you believe.
I do not care how you live.
I do not care who took a knee and who didn't.
I do not care if you agree with Trump or not.
I do not care if you are offended by what others do or say.

I am not apologizing for being born a white male.
I am not apologizing for being raised in a house with both parents.
I am not apologizing for being raised with a healthy fear of God.
I am not apologizing for being taught that sweat is free.
I am not apologizing for letting my morals guide me.
I am not apologizing for anything that I did not do.

I control me.
I control my actions.
I control my reactions.

I accept that I will say and do things that will offended others.
I accept that I will not make everyone happy.
I accept that everyone will not agree with me 100% of the time.
I accept the fact that people have different values and opinions than my own.

You want me to listen to you?
You want me to respect your prospective?
You want me to understand?

Do not force me to take your side based on guilt.
Do not force me to tell you that your right based on some category.
Do not force me to play your games of microagessions and hurt feelings.
Do not point fingers at anyone but yourself.

I will find my opinion of the situation, based on what you and others have said.
My opinion maybe different than yours.
My opinions is mine and no two opinions are exactly the same.

Learn to accept that and we will begin to find that there is a lot more in common than anyone believes.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.