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Re: day 3
« Reply #169 on: October 04, 2018, 07:05:53 PM »
10:31 AM - Dec 06, 2013 #175

I wasn't going to add to my thread until I stacked a enough +1's to get me to 250 of them, but in light of recent developments I want to add a few things.

Yesterday was a suck day for me on several levels but I knew I was ok, the biggest reason was that I grabbed my fone within seconds of my eyes popping open and posted roll with the site and my horsemen. What that does is promise ME first and for most that I will not use. It then alerts my brothers/sisters that I will not use. I also knew that within seconds of me having something thrown at me that I could not handle alone all I had to do is take that same tool I used to give my promise and start dumping out texts and replies would be on the way.

Ya see here people that is how this site works it is made very simple so that everyone can grasp the idea. There is another component and that is that you have to put in the work to YOUR quits. You have to believe one in yourself that when the crave comes that you cant handle that you still have the presence of mind to pull the trigger. Two this is critical you have to change your mindset without a mindset change then you are only stopping. There is no better more basic approach than the ScoDaddy Theorem.

1 problem+nicotine=2 problems

No amount of nicotine will make any problem any better we have seen it time and time again. As the theorem postulates it gets worse. Jake this is here for you. None of your problems issues whatever you want to call them got better. I bet you wish you would have picked your fone up now and just took 3 seconds to send a text. You have created a huge shit storm for yourself.

Anotherr term I keep seeing tossed around here is addict...yes we are all addicts. That should be as far as that label crutch what have you gets used. Once it is identified that you are an addict that's all IMO that it should ever get to be used again. Once identified by self or group then every step should be made to prevent/correct the behavior or there was really no purpose in identifying being an addict. If the behavior continues then all previous was a waste of energy and does nothing more than perpetuate the cycle. Change is what stops the cycle.

I know this is wordy but guess what it is my thread.
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Re: day 3
« Reply #168 on: October 04, 2018, 07:04:50 PM »

 
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Still in dip fog things dont seem to go in and come out of my brain as smooth as they did when I was chewing. I will keep pushing past. I got through the body aches and head aches just have to do things without dip. This whole process really pisses me off I had quit for 3 years once then for years then 6 mos and here I am again. Day 3... this time I looked for a group to belong to lets hope this works I want it to for a variety of reasons mostly noticeable health changes.

6:11 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #166

From: Worktowin

Well, trauma, you made it past the fog. Your health is improving. You postcand support others every day. You are the gold standard for ktc - you give and in return you grow.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for so many others. I know I'm a few hours early, but congratulations on hitting 200! Life gets even better from here! I'll quit with you tomorrow!

7:44 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #167

From: jake frawley

Congrats brother! You are an inspiration and one of the men here I look up too. Well done on 200!

 8:46 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #168

From: KC_Guy

Trauma congrats on kicking the nic bitch's ass for 200 straight days. You really are an asset to this site. Keep killin it brother.

6:24 AM - Nov 01, 2013 #169

oh gawd thanks for bumping that up W2W that was on sad sack typing that in his thread. I would not be here today if it wasn't for the guys and gals that have come before me paving the way and my peeps pushing me. Push pull pay it forward and back. Thanks to each and everyone of you wow 200 not much more to say. QLF EDD!

8:55 PM - Nov 01, 2013 #174

From: Sage

Nice work Trauma!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #167 on: October 04, 2018, 07:04:01 PM »
4:29 PM - Nov 01, 2013 #173

From: srans

Nice work trauma. :)
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #166 on: October 04, 2018, 07:02:52 PM »
1:50 PM - Nov 01, 2013 #172

From: Derk40

200 is some great quittin bro! Keep er rollin. Proud to be quit with you all day long!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #165 on: October 04, 2018, 06:55:50 PM »
7:45 AM - Nov 01, 2013 #171

From: KKLJINC

200, way to go stud!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #164 on: October 04, 2018, 06:55:25 PM »
6:40 AM - Nov 01, 2013 #170

From: duathman

Awesome job on 200. Keep paving the way brother.
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #163 on: October 04, 2018, 06:54:54 PM »

 
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  18 Apr 2013, 11:57 #1
Still in dip fog things dont seem to go in and come out of my brain as smooth as they did when I was chewing. I will keep pushing past. I got through the body aches and head aches just have to do things without dip. This whole process really pisses me off I had quit for 3 years once then for years then 6 mos and here I am again. Day 3... this time I looked for a group to belong to lets hope this works I want it to for a variety of reasons mostly noticeable health changes.

6:11 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #166

From: Worktowin

Well, trauma, you made it past the fog. Your health is improving. You postcand support others every day. You are the gold standard for ktc - you give and in return you grow.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for so many others. I know I'm a few hours early, but congratulations on hitting 200! Life gets even better from here! I'll quit with you tomorrow!

7:44 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #167

From: jake frawley

Congrats brother! You are an inspiration and one of the men here I look up too. Well done on 200!

 8:46 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #168

From: KC_Guy

Trauma congrats on kicking the nic bitch's ass for 200 straight days. You really are an asset to this site. Keep killin it brother.

6:24 AM - Nov 01, 2013 #169

oh gawd thanks for bumping that up W2W that was on sad sack typing that in his thread. I would not be here today if it wasn't for the guys and gals that have come before me paving the way and my peeps pushing me. Push pull pay it forward and back. Thanks to each and everyone of you wow 200 not much more to say. QLF EDD!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #162 on: October 04, 2018, 06:54:08 PM »

 
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  18 Apr 2013, 11:57 #1
Still in dip fog things dont seem to go in and come out of my brain as smooth as they did when I was chewing. I will keep pushing past. I got through the body aches and head aches just have to do things without dip. This whole process really pisses me off I had quit for 3 years once then for years then 6 mos and here I am again. Day 3... this time I looked for a group to belong to lets hope this works I want it to for a variety of reasons mostly noticeable health changes.

6:11 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #166

From: Worktowin

Well, trauma, you made it past the fog. Your health is improving. You postcand support others every day. You are the gold standard for ktc - you give and in return you grow.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for so many others. I know I'm a few hours early, but congratulations on hitting 200! Life gets even better from here! I'll quit with you tomorrow!

7:44 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #167

From: jake frawley

Congrats brother! You are an inspiration and one of the men here I look up too. Well done on 200!

 8:46 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #168

From: KC_Guy

Trauma congrats on kicking the nic bitch's ass for 200 straight days. You really are an asset to this site. Keep killin it brother.
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #161 on: October 04, 2018, 06:53:23 PM »

 
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  18 Apr 2013, 11:57 #1
Still in dip fog things dont seem to go in and come out of my brain as smooth as they did when I was chewing. I will keep pushing past. I got through the body aches and head aches just have to do things without dip. This whole process really pisses me off I had quit for 3 years once then for years then 6 mos and here I am again. Day 3... this time I looked for a group to belong to lets hope this works I want it to for a variety of reasons mostly noticeable health changes.

6:11 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #166

From: Worktowin

Well, trauma, you made it past the fog. Your health is improving. You postcand support others every day. You are the gold standard for ktc - you give and in return you grow.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for so many others. I know I'm a few hours early, but congratulations on hitting 200! Life gets even better from here! I'll quit with you tomorrow!

7:44 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #167

From: jake frawley

Congrats brother! You are an inspiration and one of the men here I look up too. Well done on 200!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

MY HOF speech

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Re: day 3
« Reply #160 on: October 04, 2018, 06:52:36 PM »

 
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  18 Apr 2013, 11:57 #1
Still in dip fog things dont seem to go in and come out of my brain as smooth as they did when I was chewing. I will keep pushing past. I got through the body aches and head aches just have to do things without dip. This whole process really pisses me off I had quit for 3 years once then for years then 6 mos and here I am again. Day 3... this time I looked for a group to belong to lets hope this works I want it to for a variety of reasons mostly noticeable health changes.

6:11 PM - Oct 31, 2013 #166

From: Worktowin

Well, trauma, you made it past the fog. Your health is improving. You postcand support others every day. You are the gold standard for ktc - you give and in return you grow.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for so many others. I know I'm a few hours early, but congratulations on hitting 200! Life gets even better from here! I'll quit with you tomorrow!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

MY HOF speech

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Re: day 3
« Reply #159 on: October 04, 2018, 06:50:50 PM »
7:47 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #162

I would like to add a few things. One I really have enjoyed reading the Hall of Legends speeches they are truly inspiring thanks for sharing your stories. It really took me back and gave me goose bumps when I read this

I’ve told many people and been laughed at for saying it, but I swear you could drop me off in any major metropolitan area, butt nekkid, with my cell phone and within 2 hours I’d have a brother bring me clothes and some hot food. That is what this site is about people. If you haven’t experienced it, you are missing out on a treasure of life. Take when you have to and return it 10 fold when you can. That makes this community strive....Loot

Not much more too add this sums up how I feel about the site also, if it wasn't for this place who knows where I would be now.

Another thing I ran into a former coworker again I ran into him earlier in my quit and he said hey you still doing that kick the can thing and I said YEP its kill the can. He said well what day are you on I said 166 he said great job right there in the middle of the restaurant he said it takes balls to quit and keep that way. He has been quit for 3 years and he said it gets easier bout a year out is when I felt good. I told him he should join us. He said he should I told him I wouldn't be where I am at without the site.

8:13 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #163

From: Worktowin

You have repaid it 10 fold Todd. Thanks for all that you do. If you are naked in Kansas City I would bring you some clothes and food, but first I'd take pictures and post them all over the web. Just sayin.

8:14 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #164

then you would be on two forms of CRACK W2W

9:36 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #165

From: One ImpressiveBall

Yup, if you're ever dropped off naked and alone in Los Angeles, I'll bring you clothes and some tacos, but it might take more than two hours with traffic. Thanks for being one of those people who makes this place work.
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #158 on: October 04, 2018, 06:49:47 PM »
7:47 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #162

I would like to add a few things. One I really have enjoyed reading the Hall of Legends speeches they are truly inspiring thanks for sharing your stories. It really took me back and gave me goose bumps when I read this

I’ve told many people and been laughed at for saying it, but I swear you could drop me off in any major metropolitan area, butt nekkid, with my cell phone and within 2 hours I’d have a brother bring me clothes and some hot food. That is what this site is about people. If you haven’t experienced it, you are missing out on a treasure of life. Take when you have to and return it 10 fold when you can. That makes this community strive....Loot

Not much more too add this sums up how I feel about the site also, if it wasn't for this place who knows where I would be now.

Another thing I ran into a former coworker again I ran into him earlier in my quit and he said hey you still doing that kick the can thing and I said YEP its kill the can. He said well what day are you on I said 166 he said great job right there in the middle of the restaurant he said it takes balls to quit and keep that way. He has been quit for 3 years and he said it gets easier bout a year out is when I felt good. I told him he should join us. He said he should I told him I wouldn't be where I am at without the site.

8:13 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #163

From: Worktowin

You have repaid it 10 fold Todd. Thanks for all that you do. If you are naked in Kansas City I would bring you some clothes and food, but first I'd take pictures and post them all over the web. Just sayin.

8:14 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #164

then you would be on two forms of CRACK W2W
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

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Re: day 3
« Reply #157 on: October 04, 2018, 06:49:06 PM »
7:47 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #162

I would like to add a few things. One I really have enjoyed reading the Hall of Legends speeches they are truly inspiring thanks for sharing your stories. It really took me back and gave me goose bumps when I read this

I’ve told many people and been laughed at for saying it, but I swear you could drop me off in any major metropolitan area, butt nekkid, with my cell phone and within 2 hours I’d have a brother bring me clothes and some hot food. That is what this site is about people. If you haven’t experienced it, you are missing out on a treasure of life. Take when you have to and return it 10 fold when you can. That makes this community strive....Loot

Not much more too add this sums up how I feel about the site also, if it wasn't for this place who knows where I would be now.

Another thing I ran into a former coworker again I ran into him earlier in my quit and he said hey you still doing that kick the can thing and I said YEP its kill the can. He said well what day are you on I said 166 he said great job right there in the middle of the restaurant he said it takes balls to quit and keep that way. He has been quit for 3 years and he said it gets easier bout a year out is when I felt good. I told him he should join us. He said he should I told him I wouldn't be where I am at without the site.

8:13 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #163

From: Worktowin

You have repaid it 10 fold Todd. Thanks for all that you do. If you are naked in Kansas City I would bring you some clothes and food, but first I'd take pictures and post them all over the web. Just sayin.
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

MY HOF speech

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Re: day 3
« Reply #156 on: October 04, 2018, 06:48:19 PM »
 7:47 AM - Oct 03, 2013 #162

I would like to add a few things. One I really have enjoyed reading the Hall of Legends speeches they are truly inspiring thanks for sharing your stories. It really took me back and gave me goose bumps when I read this

I’ve told many people and been laughed at for saying it, but I swear you could drop me off in any major metropolitan area, butt nekkid, with my cell phone and within 2 hours I’d have a brother bring me clothes and some hot food. That is what this site is about people. If you haven’t experienced it, you are missing out on a treasure of life. Take when you have to and return it 10 fold when you can. That makes this community strive....Loot

Not much more too add this sums up how I feel about the site also, if it wasn't for this place who knows where I would be now.

Another thing I ran into a former coworker again I ran into him earlier in my quit and he said hey you still doing that kick the can thing and I said YEP its kill the can. He said well what day are you on I said 166 he said great job right there in the middle of the restaurant he said it takes balls to quit and keep that way. He has been quit for 3 years and he said it gets easier bout a year out is when I felt good. I told him he should join us. He said he should I told him I wouldn't be where I am at without the site.
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

MY HOF speech

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Re: day 3
« Reply #155 on: October 04, 2018, 06:47:16 PM »
8:23 PM - Sep 25, 2013 #153

I must apologize for my minimal contact with the site directly for the last few days/weeks. I have not missed roll, I have missed supporting my brothers and sisters of each group and working the intro threads. I will not offer any excuses I will be making a conscience effort to make my presence known here every week day for sure. I have not been holding up my end of support and paying it forward and back. I am back so be ready those of you in the hurt vagina camp (er dvm) I will start with my old approach hard and direct.
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6:28 AM - Sep 27, 2013 #161

From: KKLJINC

Stay away from MY SHEEP!!! I am right there with you Trama. Not that I have wanted a break, but just been busy, with a chew free life and work getting in the way. I quit with you!
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

"Lean into the fall my friends, life can be amazing without nicotine. It's just a matter of choice." sM

"Endeavor to persevere."Chief Dan George "The Outlaw Josey Wales".

MY HOF speech