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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #8 on: September 17, 2014, 11:43:00 AM »
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Thanks everyone! Looking forward to getting to know you all. Here's hoping I've spilled my last spitter on the rug...I promise I won't today!
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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #7 on: September 17, 2014, 09:49:00 AM »
Thanks everyone! Looking forward to getting to know you all. Here's hoping I've spilled my last spitter on the rug...I promise I won't today!
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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2014, 06:12:00 PM »
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Way to be Tim. Get in here and soak up all you can. this is the "Quit House" for nicotine. Proud that you had the gumption to give it up. Wish there were more like you. Welcome.

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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2014, 06:06:00 PM »
Way to be Tim. Get in here and soak up all you can. this is the "Quit House" for nicotine. Proud that you had the gumption to give it up. Wish there were more like you. Welcome.

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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #4 on: September 16, 2014, 01:53:00 PM »
Congratulations Dumpo on your quit....coming clean is the way to go. You'll need and want the support from your future bride. You will find a lot of support here on site as well. Read everything you can find, reach out and ask for help when you need it. You will have a lot of quit brothers with you all working towards the same thing so lean on them. Stay quit!

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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #3 on: September 16, 2014, 01:41:00 PM »
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Welcome Dumpo. Congrats on the 14 days! Hell of a good job there, but give yourself the credit you deserve. Being quit is being quit, doesn't matter if you started overseas, in a box with a fox, quit here or there, quit anywhere... that's not cheating!!!

Cheating... That will be the years your bride to be has to live without you because you weren't enough of a man to put that shit down and walk. I'm sure she will feel cheated watching your face rot off and then die because of an addiction to nic you never owned up about to her...

Come clean to the future wife. She will be pissed and concerned, but that will pass. You will need her on this journey. Hell, you would want to know if the woman you are about to marry owed $150k in student loans. I'm sure she would want to know you are an addict. Fair is fair.

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http://www.killthecan.org/community/spousal-support/

14 days man... you got this!!! One Day At A Time (ODAAT) Get to know your Dec brothers! Man up, put on your big boy panties, and keep that shit out of your mouth!

BigNate hit it, I'd come clean with your bride to be. Starting off an engagement with a secret doesn't sound too good. I told my wife how much I was chewing, and how expensive it was 5 months ago, and while she was pissed, it was a weight off of my shoulders.
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Re: Dumpo Intro
« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2014, 01:00:00 PM »
Welcome Dumpo. Congrats on the 14 days! Hell of a good job there, but give yourself the credit you deserve. Being quit is being quit, doesn't matter if you started overseas, in a box with a fox, quit here or there, quit anywhere... that's not cheating!!!

Cheating... That will be the years your bride to be has to live without you because you weren't enough of a man to put that shit down and walk. I'm sure she will feel cheated watching your face rot off and then die because of an addiction to nic you never owned up about to her...

Come clean to the future wife. She will be pissed and concerned, but that will pass. You will need her on this journey. Hell, you would want to know if the woman you are about to marry owed $150k in student loans. I'm sure she would want to know you are an addict. Fair is fair.

http://www.killthecan.org/facts-figures ... o-give-up/
http://www.killthecan.org/community/spousal-support/

14 days man... you got this!!! One Day At A Time (ODAAT) Get to know your Dec brothers! Man up, put on your big boy panties, and keep that shit out of your mouth!

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Dumpo Intro
« on: September 16, 2014, 12:21:00 PM »
Hey everyone, I just discovered this site while looking for resources to help me stay off the shit(ter for 45 minutes at a time to have a lip).

I haven't had a drop of nicotine in 14 days, and I'm still struggling big time. I've been about a can a day dipper for probably 20 years now, starting in high school, like so many of you. I'm unbelievably sick of it!! I've been living with my girlfriend of 6 years for the past 3, and she has no idea I even dip. The useless drive to the store, the long dump, the wait-till-she-goes-to-bed are all part of my repertoire, and I've just flat out had enough. I just asked her to marry me, and I want to start this new chapter in my life fresh. Until I found this site, I didn't think I could even tell anyone I'm quitting, because almost no one knows I do it.

I cheated a bit to start my quit and didn't bring enough with me for a 2 week vacation overseas. Dip doesn't exist where I went, so I knew I would be going without over there. It wasn't too bad over there, but now that I'm home with all my old triggers (sitting at my desk at work is BRUTAL), it's been tough the last few days.

I picked up some Jake's Mint Chew, plenty of seeds, and most of you dippers probably never had a shortage of gum laying around. I've always been a social guy, so I think the thing that will help me the most is some community, and this seems like a pretty good one!

Onward!
Tim
Nic free on 9/2/14