Bblank,
First off welcome to KTC. I can also tell you that I too was a complete dipping fool for years, my daughter was emphatic that my habit (now addiction) was nasty and I was gross, but I never really heard her. My wife wanted me to quit but she never really forced the issue. Then finally in a moment of clarity I googled how to quit using smokeless tobacco and I landed here. That was 463 days ago and I am damn proud to be able to say that. I simply got there the same way as everyone else here, one day at a time. That term (ODAAT) will start to mean more to you as you add up plus one days.
The first few weeks are gonna suck and suck real bad, so brace for the pain and prepare yourself. This mean get rid of any dip you have on hand, change your habits of going to the convenience store or gas station, start paying at the pump. Here is my advice for starters:
- Avoid triggers (activities, drinking, asshole buddies [i.e. dipping friends])
- Post Roll Daily, here's
How to Post Roll Call- Get to know your fellow quitters, exchange numbers with a few (watch for the perverted ones)
- Get your wife involved in your quit and have her read this
Spousal Support- Read the stories on here, my favorites are the
Tom Kern Story or
Randy's story
- Drink lots of water, if you can pass a urinal and not feel like you have the bladder of a female on a road trip then you aren't drinking enough
- Find an alternative to dip and have it with you at all times (candy, fake chew, toothpicks, seeds)
- Then have an outlet for rage, it will come and you will be a dickhead, just remember that you caused your addiction not anyone else. Come here, go to chat, call me whatever it takes to keep the anger and rage in the right direction
- Next, well just do it all for you and you alone, then let everyone else bask in the glory of your quit.
Pinched