Hey guys, around this time last year I quit dip for the first time after 8 years of use and abuse. Amazingly, I was successful without relapse for 10 months but slipped one night when I had too much to drink.
The last two months I was back at the Copenhagen and as a result my alcohol consumption greatly increased. I think the two just go hand and hand.
I am 3 days clean now and doing quite well, just a few intense craving attacks and a few bouts of vertigo. I hope I can keep it away for good this time!
Welcome! Start with the welcome center link at the upper left (it's the pink one) and read all of it. Also, if you hope you might quit this place is not for you. We quit here, we do not try, we do not hope, we do not wish - we quit. If that's what you're here to do and you're here to do it for good, again - welcome! if you have any questions I can help answer about what we do here or if you'd like my cell number hit me up with a pm. just click on my name to the left and click pm.
Mich is absolutely right. Quitting for the long haul takes a shift in mindset. If we don't keep our heads in the game, we will fail. I had to completely change who I am. I used to be that "good ole boy" with a chew or a dip. Now I'm a quitter. I wear that title like a badge of honor because it was not easy to acquire. Being a quitter is the absolute most important thing I do behind being a good father and husband. Actually, that's all sort of one thing. I cannot set a good example while I'm killing myself with nicotine. Same is true if I die of cancer before my kids hit their teens. Here are the things that I see that may help you.
1. You never quit before. You took a break.
2. You didn't "slip". You hit a rough spot and weren't prepared for it.
3. Alcohol and nicotine don't go hand-in-hand. Alcohol weakens your determination. Then your addiction overcomes you.
4. "Hope" does not work. There is "Quit" and "Not quit". Pick one.
Not trying to be difficult here. Just passing on what I've come up with. The tobacco companies tried to kill me. They enslaved me for about 20 years. I'm mad about that. They'll never get another damn dime of my money. I promise you that.