Welcome, quitter. Like you, I didn't find this place until I was several weeks into my quit. Had it not been for KTC, I would have gave up and continued to kill myself with every pinch or chew. I owe my life to this place and the crazies that post here every day. I also have a wife and 3 kids. There are a lot of folks here that say you have to quit for YOU, or it won't stick. I agree with that, but having the little ones in the back of mind does help to keep me honest. 267 days ago, one of my 2-year-olds walked across the front yard, stopped, spit on the grass, smiled and me and my wife, and said "Like daddy!". I have never felt worse in my life, ever. Glad to be quit with you. Let me know if I can help any way.