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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #169 on: July 19, 2010, 10:16:00 AM »
Congrats man! Its been a pleasure to post next to you for all these days.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #168 on: July 19, 2010, 07:36:00 AM »
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Ready - Day 900

It's a fine day. It's an honor to quit beside each and every one of you.
Once again, Ready, congrats on the latest milestone.

You are a solid rock of quit, and a hell of a supporter to all that have followed you.
"We shall not fail or falter; we shall not weaken or tire...Give us the tools and we will finish the job." - Sir Winston Churchill

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #167 on: July 19, 2010, 01:00:00 AM »
Ready - Day 900

It's a fine day. It's an honor to quit beside each and every one of you.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #166 on: July 16, 2010, 05:30:00 PM »
Ready - Day 897

This site was attacked by spammers today. They attacked the introduction section of this site, making numerous posts on legitimate introduction sections disparaging this site and generally trying to discourage new members.

CHEWIE was Johnny on the spot and had everything cleaned up before too many noticed. Well done Sir.

Many of you may not be aware, but there are several Pro-Dip sites on the internet. From time to time, people that have quit have entered those sites and attempted to spread the word that dipping is a life threatening habit and that anyone dipping should quit. This is an honorable goal, however, if done in the wrong way can lead to repercussion on this site.

I would not discourage anyone from spreading the word. However, I would advise that you employ discretion in the way you spread the word so we do not incur retaliation attacks from other entities.

You have no idea how great life is without being a slave to nicotine.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #165 on: July 09, 2010, 11:19:00 PM »
Very powerful post !! Great stuff.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #164 on: July 09, 2010, 11:03:00 PM »
Ready - Day 890

I understand the twitch. The driving force that has no other concern. You need something. All else takes a back seat. You will do anything, make up any rationalization, any excuse to feed the master. In your mind, it is owed to you. You deserve it because of blah blah blah. It's only this one time. I will pay attention to my girlfriend, wife, child tomorrow. Tomorrow turns into tomorrow. Tomorrow turns into next weekend. Next weekend turns into I will try harder. No matter the excuse, it is simply that, an excuse.

What are you giving up to serve this master? There is an inherent truth when you serve this master, there is no true reward. None. It is a perpetual fucking cycle. Like a rat on a treadmill. You just keep on keepin on.

I will tell you of the expense. The price you have paid over the past years and decades. You have sacrificed that which is most important. What is important will very from individual to individual. Regardless, you have sacrificed. Was it worth it? Your life and well being is what is important. You have squandered that long enough.

It is not too late to take back your life. If you were anything like me, you were not living, you were existing to feed the master. Again, everything else took a backseat.

I will not let go of what I have recovered. I have recovered me. I choose to spend my time the way I want to. I am no longer a slave, punching a fucking clock for an addiction.

I will sleep in today, not worrying about getting up to have a dip. I will take a shower and go to work, without worrying when I can have my next dip. I will have a meeting and pay attention because I am not worrying about having my next dip. I will come straight home without delay because I don't need to waste time having a dip. I will talk to my wife and my children. I will listen to my wife and my children because I don't need to dip. I will do many many things because I don't need to dip.

I will do the things that make life worth living because I do not need a dip.

I do not need a dip. I do not want a dip. That was a lie the master told me. I am no longer a slave.

Freedom has a price. The price so happens to be, in this situation, a choice not to be a slave. Yes, you are addicted. But no one is forcing you to be a slave. The price of freedom is your decision to endure discomfort for several days. And then it's a fucking mind game, because being a slave was always a choice. There were no guards with guns. There were no chains. There was no prison. The only prison is the one you built and maintained for yourself.

I know the road to freedom. I was shown by many who still grace this site. For those who traveled before me and with me, there are no words. What price can you place on freedom? Freedom is that important and that precious. I will continue to walk this road and lend a hand to those who are in need. That is how I was saved. That is how I will help save others.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #163 on: July 04, 2010, 09:44:00 PM »
Ready - Day 885 Smokey's favorite number - don't ask, don't tell.

I started the day just like any other these days. Up early, shower, shave and get out of the house without waking up the wife and kids.

Get to work, get the troops out into the field. So far so good. waiting for the other shoe to drop as it has been known to do. Logged onto the site, posted roll. Checked to see if I could help anywhere. Looked like others had everything under control. Posted in my introduction section thanking the troops, past and present - Semper Fi.

The shoe dropped. We took care of business. Checked the area to see about the festivities. All was well for the time being. My people were doing what they were supposed to be doing. Not unexpected, I have a good crew.

It was a long day. Got a text from my wife thanking me for taking care of her and our children (Highlight of my day).

Briefed the oncoming supervisor and left for home. I arrived home and low and behold that fucking POS dog from several miles away that so happen to get my rot bitch pregnant was hanging out in my yard. I chased that fucker in my truck, he knew I was pissed and made his escape, fucker - next time.

Wife and kids with relatives considering I was working today. I proceeded to do my evening chores. I don't mind.

I was out watering some fruit trees. I felt a pleasant breeze and looked over to the next mountain range and saw very clearly the observatory on a mountain top about thirty miles away. My nearest neighbor I could not see. Life is good.

I now realize I did all of this without once thinking about or craving a dip.

God Bless The United States Of America. The finest country on the face of the earth. Thank you KTC. I am nicotine free on this fine day.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #162 on: July 04, 2010, 04:25:00 PM »
Have a great and safe 4th of July. Thanks to all who have served, past and present.

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty  perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.


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The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:

Column 1
Georgia:
Button Gwinnett
Lyman Hall
George Walton

Column 2
North Carolina:
William Hooper
Joseph Hewes
John Penn
South Carolina:
Edward Rutledge
Thomas Heyward, Jr.
Thomas Lynch, Jr.
Arthur Middleton

Column 3
Massachusetts:
John Hancock
Maryland:
Samuel Chase
William Paca
Thomas Stone
Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:
George Wythe
Richard Henry Lee
Thomas Jefferson
Benjamin Harrison
Thomas Nelson, Jr.
Francis Lightfoot Lee
Carter Braxton

Column 4
Pennsylvania:
Robert Morris
Benjamin Rush
Benjamin Franklin
John Morton
George Clymer
James Smith
George Taylor
James Wilson
George Ross
Delaware:
Caesar Rodney
George Read
Thomas McKean

Column 5
New York:
William Floyd
Philip Livingston
Francis Lewis
Lewis Morris
New Jersey:
Richard Stockton
John Witherspoon
Francis Hopkinson
John Hart
Abraham Clark

Column 6
New Hampshire:
Josiah Bartlett
William Whipple
Massachusetts:
Samuel Adams
John Adams
Robert Treat Paine
Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:
Stephen Hopkins
William Ellery
Connecticut:
Roger Sherman
Samuel Huntington
William Williams
Oliver Wolcott
New Hampshire:
Matthew Thornton

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #161 on: June 23, 2010, 09:15:00 AM »
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Ready - Day 873

Today was a fine day.

There was some fine shenanigans in my group today that reminded me of some pretty damn funny shit we used to get into on a regular basis.

Goo times, Goo times.
Indeed

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #160 on: June 22, 2010, 11:09:00 PM »
Ready - Day 873

Today was a fine day.

There was some fine shenanigans in my group today that reminded me of some pretty damn funny shit we used to get into on a regular basis.

Goo times, Goo times.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #159 on: June 08, 2010, 01:27:00 PM »
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Ready - Day 859

There is tragedy in life.  That is a fact.

Dipping compounds any tragedy.  That is a fact.

Life without nicotine is far better than being a slave to it.  That is a fact.

There are tools on this site that if used, will keep you quit.  That is a fact.

There are people on this site, that if given the opportunity, will not let you fail.  That is a fact.
This is pretty fucking brilliant. That's a fact.
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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #158 on: June 08, 2010, 01:23:00 PM »
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Ready - Day 859

There is tragedy in life. That is a fact.

Dipping compounds any tragedy. That is a fact.

Life without nicotine is far better than being a slave to it. That is a fact.

There are tools on this site that if used, will keep you quit. That is a fact.

There are people on this site, that if given the opportunity, will not let you fail. That is a fact.
This is pretty fucking brilliant. That's a fact.
"Every man dies... not every man really lives." - William Wallace

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #157 on: June 08, 2010, 12:06:00 PM »
Ready - Day 859

There is tragedy in life. That is a fact.

Dipping compounds any tragedy. That is a fact.

Life without nicotine is far better than being a slave to it. That is a fact.

There are tools on this site that if used, will keep you quit. That is a fact.

There are people on this site, that if given the opportunity, will not let you fail. That is a fact.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #156 on: June 01, 2010, 11:35:00 AM »
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Ready - Day 852

This was posted in response to the revelation that a quitter smoked a cigar after over 175 days quit. This is a very well thought out and reasoned response to such a revelation. There were many other well thought out responses but I think this one pretty much sums up the problem with having a cigar or a smoke or any other form of nicotine.
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I'm not a mod, admin, nor a March '10 quitter.  I'm just a nicotine addict who smoked cigars for many years prior to eventually graduating to the most effective nic delivery channel there is...dip.  There's a reason why KTC embraces a zero-tolerance model for all forms of nicotine, and it has to do with the 'recovery' falacy.  After quitting, most of us, at one point or another begin to entertain the thought that it would be safe to have some limited exposure to our old drug of choice.  That is very common, and poisonous thinking.  Maybe you are the incredibly unique nicotine addict who can actually have an occassional cigar, and keep his quit sacred and safe.  You'd be the first that I've met.  It's more likely that the occassional cigar is actually the vehicle by which your addiction gains traction, and eventually owns your soul once again.

So, either: 
A.  you're Superman, or
B. you're a typical confused addict.

Either way, by normalizing your "occassional" cigar, you're advertising to the entire group that:  IT'S OKAY TO HAVE JUST ONE.  That's dangerous, and misleading.  The other way to play this, as some have suggested is that you go post "day 1" in September, and lead by example.  Of course, if you truly believe that an occasional cigar doesn't violate your quit, put a fork in ya...there's no point in posting anywhere.

As best as I can tell, it's up to March '10 to determine what you should do.  I believe the admins will actually allow you to defile this HOF room in this fashion if the other quitters who call it home don't mind.

theo - 672 - I promise not to use nicotine today.
By the way, you can never have "Just One"

It's a lie you tell yourself.

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Re: D-Day 02/01/08 2:45 PST
« Reply #155 on: June 01, 2010, 11:33:00 AM »
Ready - Day 852

This was posted in response to the revelation that a quitter smoked a cigar after over 175 days quit. This is a very well thought out and reasoned response to such a revelation. There were many other well thought out responses but I think this one pretty much sums up the problem with having a cigar or a smoke or any other form of nicotine.
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I'm not a mod, admin, nor a March '10 quitter.  I'm just a nicotine addict who smoked cigars for many years prior to eventually graduating to the most effective nic delivery channel there is...dip.  There's a reason why KTC embraces a zero-tolerance model for all forms of nicotine, and it has to do with the 'recovery' falacy.  After quitting, most of us, at one point or another begin to entertain the thought that it would be safe to have some limited exposure to our old drug of choice.  That is very common, and poisonous thinking.  Maybe you are the incredibly unique nicotine addict who can actually have an occassional cigar, and keep his quit sacred and safe.  You'd be the first that I've met.  It's more likely that the occassional cigar is actually the vehicle by which your addiction gains traction, and eventually owns your soul once again.

So, either: 
A.  you're Superman, or
B. you're a typical confused addict.

Either way, by normalizing your "occassional" cigar, you're advertising to the entire group that:  IT'S OKAY TO HAVE JUST ONE.  That's dangerous, and misleading.  The other way to play this, as some have suggested is that you go post "day 1" in September, and lead by example.  Of course, if you truly believe that an occasional cigar doesn't violate your quit, put a fork in ya...there's no point in posting anywhere.

As best as I can tell, it's up to March '10 to determine what you should do.  I believe the admins will actually allow you to defile this HOF room in this fashion if the other quitters who call it home don't mind.

theo - 672 - I promise not to use nicotine today.