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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #39 on: June 25, 2014, 04:18:00 PM »
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Gentlemen- for the last and final time. I caved on the first day. I caved on Fricking Monday. I called myself out for being a puss, for lying to myself for lying to the sultans for lying to my family. I caved. I don't care if it was for 10minutes, or 10seconds, the shit touched my lips and rather than hide like a bitch, I called myself out to a bunch of people i don't know because I do respect this group. I did so for me, not anyone else, but yes I am here for that support. I was bounced from September to October and to the Titans. I was asked on multiple different threads to own up and answer three important questions. What you are seeing is my attempt to find every f-ing thread this has been brought up on and answer those questions. Now again, I rolled into October. I rolled into the Titans. I have been nicotine free since Monday evening at 11PM est, and will continue to be NICOTINE free going forward. I truly hope this clears fucking things up. I fucked myself and I fucked my September brothers on MONDAY of the first day because I was weak. I will not make the same mistake twice with my October Titans!
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #38 on: June 25, 2014, 04:15:00 PM »
Gentlemen- for the last and final time. I caved on the first day. I caved on Fricking Monday. I called myself out for being a puss, for lying to myself for lying to the sultans for lying to my family. I caved. I don't care if it was for 10minutes, or 10seconds, the shit touched my lips and rather than hide like a bitch, I called myself out to a bunch of people i don't know because I do respect this group. I did so for me, not anyone else, but yes I am here for that support. I was bounced from September to October and to the Titans. I was asked on multiple different threads to own up and answer three important questions. What you are seeing is my attempt to find every f-ing thread this has been brought up on and answer those questions. Now again, I rolled into October. I rolled into the Titans. I have been nicotine free since Monday evening at 11PM est, and will continue to be NICOTINE free going forward. I truly hope this clears fucking things up. I fucked myself and I fucked my September brothers on MONDAY of the first day because I was weak. I will not make the same mistake twice with my October Titans!

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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #37 on: June 25, 2014, 04:12:00 PM »
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Since you are both new for the record lying and trying to slide by is not tolerated do you know where those people are now that lied on roll and tried to smooth it over later are? They are fucking banned so I don't suggest you try that... The guilt ate their asses up and they confessed maybe not one day or two days or even 90 days but the guilt ate them alive and they confessed.

There are lots of things to joke about but quitting is not one of them. We don't hand out participation ribbons here we kick ass and take names. You want a place where everyone sings Kumbaya and its ok to fucking hand in your day 1 jersey go to lite.

For now Ox you need to read everything you can about your enemy arm yourself fill your tool bag with tools and proceed with the program.
traumagent gets it. Well said.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #36 on: June 25, 2014, 03:49:00 PM »
Since you are both new for the record lying and trying to slide by is not tolerated do you know where those people are now that lied on roll and tried to smooth it over later are? They are fucking banned so I don't suggest you try that... The guilt ate their asses up and they confessed maybe not one day or two days or even 90 days but the guilt ate them alive and they confessed.

There are lots of things to joke about but quitting is not one of them. We don't hand out participation ribbons here we kick ass and take names. You want a place where everyone sings Kumbaya and its ok to fucking hand in your day 1 jersey go to lite.

For now Ox you need to read everything you can about your enemy arm yourself fill your tool bag with tools and proceed with the program.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #35 on: June 25, 2014, 03:37:00 PM »
I guess I'm looking at it a lot different. The man could have lied and let it roll. None of us would have know any different. Did he fuck up and cave- yes. Did he own up and tell the truth-yes. We had an entire fucking gaggle of Sultans that were retreads and they've been let back in to the general population of roll.

But so help me god Ox, if you make me eat crow I will freaking hunt you down and hobble your ass. I'm a man that still values a promise and a handshake. Prove to all of us that you are too
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #34 on: June 25, 2014, 03:32:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
Nailed it. He owned up to it, has taken his licks....lets move forward.
Well hopefully his feelings aren't too hurt...
CLW, I don't care what you think he took it's about Accountability. If you posted roll on day 1 and then caved you should get zero respect. If you come in here and ask for help and then shit on it, you should hear about it from every member of this site.

And yes, this is how it works here, he will continue to get wailed on until he proves he has his act together. He should be happy people give a damn after what he did.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #33 on: June 25, 2014, 03:31:00 PM »
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I'm not saying it isn't serious. I absolutely believe this method works. But I also see that he was totally honest about what happened. He owned up and is taking his licks. It feels like everyone is extra-testy right now because of the recent events, but we can't let those events deter new quitters. I needed help to quit and this site provided that help. It's my hope that I can help Ox in his so long as he understands the sanctity of roll and the process this site uses.
Maybe I'm different. I read the Welcome Center on Day 1 and understood the sanctity of roll on Day 1. Are people not reading the Welcome Center? Is it not clear enough?

I sure hope he understands it now. Sheesh.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #32 on: June 25, 2014, 03:28:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
Nailed it. He owned up to it, has taken his licks....lets move forward.
Well hopefully his feelings aren't too hurt...
CLW, I don't care what you think he took it's about Accountability. If you posted roll on day 1 and then caved you should get zero respect. If you come in here and ask for help and then shit on it, you should hear about it from every member of this site.

And yes, this is how it works here, he will continue to get wailed on until he proves he has his act together. He should be happy people give a damn after what he did.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #31 on: June 25, 2014, 03:28:00 PM »
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Foggy is the absolute right word for it.. Wow. Yeah, I had the spot cleats. Used to think they were the coolest things ever and with a wad of beach it in my cheek like the big boys....I was a fricking rockstar. Dumped the tin this evening with my wife, just about fucking cried. Not for the dip, no, because I had to admit to her that I am a pos liar. All in gentleman. Good friend called me out and told me to cowboy up. Thanks CLW.
I remember the day I started posting, I was irritable, in a fucking haze, and I couldn't figure out how to post anything, let alone roll call. I believe CBird fixed my roll posts 3 days in a row. We all were there Oxman, and just knowing that we are still here should tell you, you can get through this, just like we did. Batten down the fucking hatches though because the first 2 weeks are a shitstorm. You just have to learn to like shitstorms.

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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #30 on: June 25, 2014, 03:25:00 PM »
I'm not saying it isn't serious. I absolutely believe this method works. But I also see that he was totally honest about what happened. He owned up and is taking his licks. It feels like everyone is extra-testy right now because of the recent events, but we can't let those events deter new quitters. I needed help to quit and this site provided that help. It's my hope that I can help Ox in his so long as he understands the sanctity of roll and the process this site uses.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #29 on: June 25, 2014, 03:25:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
Nailed it. He owned up to it, has taken his licks....lets move forward.
Well hopefully his feelings aren't too hurt...
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #28 on: June 25, 2014, 03:23:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
Nailed it. He owned up to it, has taken his licks....lets move forward.

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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #27 on: June 25, 2014, 03:21:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
Coming on here and pledging not to dip anymore, then digging in the trash can later that night is some pretty pathetic stuff. Hope he gets his act together and takes this shit seriously.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #26 on: June 25, 2014, 03:21:00 PM »
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Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
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Re: Day 1...
« Reply #25 on: June 25, 2014, 03:18:00 PM »
Everybody, I get that we have just had a fair share of drama on here but this is old news. He came out straight up and told everyone when he joined about his 10 minute dip and the guilt. He understands what's going on and to me has remedied the situation. Shit, I lied my ass off to my family, girlfriends, and even myself before I quit. This man was straight up and honest. I am proud to QLF with you brother. If you ever need some backup give me a holler.
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