Welcome Wardo- I'm sure you've been reading posts, if not do as much reading on this site as possible. First you will find that there are a few demands:
1) no nic - none
2) post up everyday and keep your word
3) remove the word try from your quit. - we don't try - we do
Sounds like your making your way thru the fog. Do you have stuff to handle the carves? candy, gum, water, seeds, fake stuff - if not get it fast. You got support at home, that's great. NOW keep in mind that you will be an a__hole for awhile, your job is to focus that rage on exercise, venting on this site, working in the yard, and NEVER on family, friends, or work.
Don't worry about supporting others yet, focus on your quit. Be a quit by example leader. You post up, you keep your word, you work thru the fog, rage, craves and fight one day at a time. Others with draw energy from that.
Welcome to the quit, PM me if you need a number. I broke a 30 year stupid habbit of dipping and hit the HOF a few days ago. It's great once you build up some distance.
As you said, you are an addict, so you can't have one more dip, one more can - ever. One taste of it and you will be sucked back in. Knowledge is power and this site has a lot we can use to fight the nic bitch.
Quit on, Quit Strong
Rob